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Outer Game shathecomedian/r/seduction10/01/25 01:24 PM
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Fundamentalsshathecomedian/r/seduction11/07/21 11:05 PM
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Outer Game shathecomedian/r/seduction30/01/25 06:50 AM
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Fundamentalsshathecomedian/r/seduction02/04/22 09:07 PM
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To me it seems like you'll lose attraction if you don't make a move
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:50 AM
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If they already have a crush don't over thing it, just ask when you can hang out
/r/seduction02/02/25 06:32 PM
1

could you be a little more specific, is this like a friend youre talking about?
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:44 PM
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In some ways yes but mostly no, I honestly think he'd be happy seeing me with any woman and maybe a kid, which info want but to me having a kid with the wrong woman is almost as bad as a marriage
/r/seduction02/02/25 02:52 PM
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I was with you until you said making out, I have a similar problem with getting a chick to meet in person. But if we're able to to get to that point, a chick will damn near fall in love 9/10. So yeah if you're making out with the chicks, not sure the issue
/r/seduction02/02/25 01:00 PM
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Heh my personality is def better than my looks from what I can tell
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:17 PM
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Just a little anecdote, my father has expressed that he wants to see me with someone long term soon, implying marriage. Now I'm in my late thirties which is getting up there, I told him I didn't want to get married to the wrong woman. His response was something along the lines of there won't be a perfect woman, you have to take chances. Now maybe subconsciously one of the reasons I think that way is because of what he went through, I think he's had 3 marriages from what I can tell and about to g…
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:00 PM
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I like this
/r/seduction02/02/25 06:56 AM
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Excuse me is fine I think, the sorry is what id nit pick about
/r/seduction02/02/25 06:55 AM
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Interesting, I would just make my move in stead lol My talking statges are usually texting etc. they usually don't last long after seeing me in person typically
/r/seduction02/02/25 06:51 AM
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I'm fat and I talk to girls
/r/seduction01/02/25 06:07 AM
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Another good one is if she's not willing to meet in person
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:38 AM
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Interesting, I've been told I'm charismatic a couple of times so that may be right, could depend on the girl but I'd rather be decently charismatic for moth chicks instead of very charismatic for a certain type of chick
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:09 PM
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I like it, I'm pretty good at stereotypes lol
/r/seduction30/01/25 12:55 PM
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Hm might be hard to do, I have a certain type so any girl I see that's attractive I atleast think they're special, or "rare" but not in a pedestal per se. But yeah, maybe I just need to have more friends to be around
/r/seduction30/01/25 12:54 PM
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Those last two openers are great, how did you know about that or had you known these already for someone's bday?
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:46 AM
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You can say "I did bring a gift, youre looking at it*
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:46 PM
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I would think your IG has to be decent for this to be a thing right?
/r/seduction28/01/25 06:13 AM
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Honestly, probably the fear that if I don't keep going then ill be stuck looking at porn alone, never having a family or having one with the wrong type of woman which is even worse. It ain't easy in the slightest but the alternative is Grimm
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:07 AM
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Yeah true but that's why I waited til break. The bar I went to had live music upstairs, so I guess what you're saying is if I want to talk id stay down stairs at the bar
/r/seduction27/01/25 10:12 PM
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Talk badly? I'm a very good communicator, not really sure how good of a dancer I am so I played to my strengths
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:57 PM
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Noone mentioned dance? And we don't know what would be fun to you
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:40 AM
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As long as you hunt them it's fine
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:39 AM
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I feel like if you're making a girl laugh it's fun enough, just depends on her personality. Maybe she was just a boring person
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:38 AM
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Any club that has at least a few decent women that fit your interests Is good
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:35 AM
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Heh I disagree, I rather have silence than have my time wasted
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:31 AM
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Well there was a decent amount of chick I would bang, maybe id say a solid 5 out of everyone I saw
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:09 AM
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Hm I talk to anyone who looks good, but I'm not talking to most chicks so I wouldn't say it's a numbers game
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:09 AM
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Do you not put your height on your profile?
/r/seduction26/01/25 11:11 PM
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I hate when people make a broad statement of making it fun and playful, or keep it flirty, these are broad statements that are obvious. It's the same as saying keep it positive and good
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:33 PM
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I'm not a tiny guy lol there's no way I could maneuver to a chick I liked through all those people. Um I guess what I could do is more push pull and flirting but that just takes trial and error. I just don't want to be pegged as a creep is all
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:07 PM
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Uh, idk depends, in this circumstance id says 20 mins
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:23 PM
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Well just think about it logically, in that scenario whats the worst thing you're afraid of happeneing
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:19 PM
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Same here a good amount older than you but I look young. I get a much better response from younger girls than I do closer to my age
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:49 PM
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Well one at a time, just be a little more subtle and it's fine I think
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:48 PM
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I see what you mean, I have a particular type so I don't get the opportunity for as many approaches as most
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:46 PM
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Depends, I need context
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:44 PM
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I see, only problem with this post is that theres no indication when it's a good time, just blind luck
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:43 PM
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Right so I can reach the majority of women, the few that I have called have expressed that they didn't have time etc. to me it's just better to meet in person
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:00 PM
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Well there are a lot of women who don't like talking on the phone, I would guesstimate 7-8/10, so can't really do that with them
/r/seduction26/01/25 06:06 PM
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I will say I do like being right but not in this instance, I have a feeling I'm not meeting this chick. I wish I could make money off this somehow
/r/seduction26/01/25 06:05 PM
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I'm just playing to my strengths, I think I have a better shot at talking to her than just dancing and then leaving after the song ends
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:45 PM
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whats the difference between bank and grocery store
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:26 PM
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so you had the date at the right time of the day? i dont follow
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:25 PM
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Is it really? How is it you dictate that, I see people chatting etc
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:16 PM
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I actually talked to them during the break, so there was no music playing
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:09 PM
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The title implied that this was my attempt at any kind of night game and feedback is encouraged if you feel inclined
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:33 PM
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All well and good, when a match actually happens on tinder 🙄
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:27 PM
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No guy told me that, it's the truth
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:25 PM
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I mean if you make her feel desired and focus on her, that might come off as needy
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:27 PM
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I like to make conversations flow, if the topic is movies I'm not going to bring up her lips. For example my last convo with a chick was about music, should I bring up what she likes to listen to during sex
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:11 PM
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One of my clear cut hurdles is losing weight but that may not even be it. There's still a personality trait where I'm turning off women recently and I'm not really sure what it is. Even girls who I fucked in the past, I can't get there now. Might be a sub conscious thing, I hope something will switch one I get in better shape
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:39 PM
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What improvements are you trying to make
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:36 PM
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Were you like at a bar or somethin
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:21 PM
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Interesting, the only thing that first and second gear will take time and practice, you possibly can come off as needy, creepy etc
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:17 PM
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You won't die a virgin man, even if I have to carry you to the bar myself playa. The fact you're in this sub alone proves that
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:04 PM
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Somewhat off topic, a guy I met at work and got to know, he's marrying a woman about 20 years his senior. Now, you would thing that she would atleast have a pleasant and kind personality, she has anger issues. If showed a picture, you can see the crazy in her eyes. I only knew him from work for a few weeks or so and I told him straight up not to get married. I'm very curious how that goes
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:03 PM
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You got me, but I will say once you do get paid it won't be a year apart
/r/seduction26/01/25 12:58 PM
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Ill try, I used to slay on dating about 10+ years ago, seems too hard now
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:16 AM
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I don't even know what you're saying, but yeah try a year. Few weeks is not a dry spell
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:14 AM
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I'm not even sure what you just said lol but I think I get your gist
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:09 AM
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Wait wait hold the fuck on, are you trying to say a dry spell is like a few weeks?
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:08 AM
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Well usually when girls say this the texting just get lame so I lost interest before we even meet. I don't really know how to get more prospects, online dating is a nightmare and night game will take too much practice before any real success
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:07 AM
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Have her put up or shut up, like ask her directly to be your gf or try to fuck her
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:05 AM
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Wait what do you mean it's a good message
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:58 AM
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Yeah well let's see, I'm willing to learn
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:58 AM
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Y'know that's a good point, and I honestly don't know why I get this statement. I don't think I'm putting anything too sexual out there, we talk about what she does for work, uh other boring shit. Idk fam
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:54 AM
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Exactly, my in person game is not great but it's so much better than text
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:53 AM
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I've dealt with enough pen pals, I cant put into words how much over it. I guess it's to the point where I want to meet almost immediately
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:51 AM
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Yeah this particular girl seems to drone on about uninterested stuff, I may be bitter idk but yeah I guess id just try to talk on the phone and FaceTime. The frustrating part is I know imma have to most likely deal with this for another week and a half because of when the dad takes the kid for the weekend but that's what I get for entertaining singleona
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:51 AM
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Yeah that's the main reason for this. I don't really mind the time as I don't have too many prospects, it's mainly just having me invested and we don't meet. That shit is so disappointing
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:48 AM
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Rapport isn't always a guarantee, there's been girls I spoke to close to a month before wanting to meet, at that point they said mo
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:45 AM
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Sorry, did I imply any game lol
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:24 AM
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This is pretty good, a noisier place is a good excuse to get close and whisper. Guess it takes practice
/r/seduction26/01/25 06:35 AM
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Why are y'allastwrbating on call instead of fucking? Idk man, id just fuck or ask her to be serious at this point
/r/seduction26/01/25 06:03 AM
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Have you asked her to be your gf
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:59 AM
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Can I ask why you want the title of boyfriend? She probably just doesn't want a relationship, that's a four letter word with a lot of women
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:30 AM
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May I'm just a shitty person to know because I can't think of the last time I actually met the chick that said this
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:59 PM
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And I got her number, she told me this on the phone
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:43 PM
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Crap, I really think this is easier in person. So maybe staying off line is the answer
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:29 PM
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It is to me, women go home with strange men all the time
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:19 PM
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Because whenever I hear this, we don't meet so it may be just me
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:18 PM
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Ok fair, what can I do to change it
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:18 PM
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Well I'm sure theyll say real life, then what
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:14 PM
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When you have a single mom that's only free once every other weekend...gotta strike when you can
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:12 PM
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i want to meet within a few days of meeting, anytime after that it just wont happen
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:07 PM
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youre thinking of a man that you like btw
/r/seduction25/01/25 06:48 PM
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Yeah that's the caveat, depends on what you have
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:36 PM
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Hm that's interesting, in the life of my past dating before the women's standards were so high etc she always paid if we did go out. So maybe there is something to that, how do you frame them paying or splitting
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:17 AM
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So if I cook should the first date be at my house?
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:13 AM
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This is a good way to think about it
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:13 AM
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Annual fee for that card is 700, that's insane. Anyway, I always feel you can pay for the first date but it shouldn't be dinner imo. You can be more creative and make it something free or close to nothing, the coffee date is always an option
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:12 AM
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I used to do pretty good on the apps about 10 years ago, it's been a struggle since then. And in the past few years I've been forced to cold approach at times, so much more progress than apps.
/r/seduction24/01/25 10:59 AM
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I'm not sure it depends, it's not terrible advice because when you improve yourself in that way you'll naturally be more outgoing and will have opportunities and more confidence to interact with girls. Just my two cents
/r/seduction23/01/25 10:08 AM
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Heh even fatties are picky
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:51 AM
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Hm y'know, that's a good way to think about it. Id usually figure they think i was either a perv or just judging my approach method, but they're probably paying me no mind
/r/seduction16/01/25 03:23 PM
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I'll be honest, mainly to not look like a fool, mainly to other strangers around but to myself obv
/r/seduction16/01/25 01:01 AM
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Well whatever you wear just go to a tailor
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:37 PM
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Well get a good suit and then get it tailored
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:13 PM
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Id start with the basics Professional haircut, tailored clothes, personal trainer full time if I'm not in shape, professional skin care treatment
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:10 PM
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Lol some taste better than others
/r/seduction11/01/25 05:34 AM
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Good little quip without missing a beat, gj
/r/seduction11/01/25 05:06 AM
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What if he doesn't like the taste of that nether region
/r/seduction11/01/25 02:47 AM
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Heh, hey man you're right. I'm making an effort
/r/seduction11/01/25 02:45 AM
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Lol no I wasn't gonna go there but regardless of my capability, I don't have it now
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:37 AM
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Well I agree, but I need to have abundance first before I have the mind set lol trust me, I don't pussy foot around typically but that hasn't garnered the best results which is why I'm here. Then again I know that if I was more attractive then it wouldn't matter
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:49 PM
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thanks for the long write up, those are nice shirts but dont think i can sport these, im a big guy currently which im working on. the other advice i could certainly try, i actually never even attempted a bar pick up so should be fun
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:32 PM
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idk it depends on what you consider hot, what i consider attractive might be someone else's 6. just try to talk to all girls the same, no chick is special
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:28 PM
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well what i mean by direct is too vulgar
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:21 PM
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None that I can remember specifically, it's been a while brother
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:57 PM
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I'll try to remember, maybe the problem isost of my flirting is done through text
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:55 PM
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I see, you just gave a good example. That's one thing I need to work on is flirting, I'm way too direct when it comes to that
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:34 PM
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I've been known to be fairly spicy at work lol what are a couple of examples of a cheeky joke
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:20 PM
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Yeah but you gotta be careful with the cheeky jokes, could turn into sexual harassment
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:11 PM
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Good point, I mean it's at least a different department but, yeah
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:48 AM
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I'm glad you edited that pathetic part out, not the best sentiment towards others in this sub
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:46 AM
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Yeah majority of girls I used to fuck stopped because they just got tired I guess, it sucks but it is what it is. On to the next
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:36 AM
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Meh there's times I don't get a reply, or they're also just trying to sell spicy content etc. so this is not that useful tbh
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:26 AM
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I find online dating is more trouble than it's worth, yes it gives you "access" to women from your couch but it's too many steps even just to meet as opposed to going out. So my advice would be to not let it affect your mental and self esteem. Get off the dating sites as a whole if you can
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:06 AM
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Did you buy that fit you were wearing or did you already have it in the closet
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:59 AM
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I hate when girls say that you don't know them long or well enough to like them, so asinine
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:54 AM
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Id give it like a month or so, if you don't see her again then just follow her and just act like you ran into her by accident
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:52 AM
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I care too much about what people think, so I don't like approaching when I know there's others that can hear our fonversation
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:51 AM
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Honestly I don't have a fear of rejection, my bigger fear is being embarrassed. I'm more likely to approach when I'm not near a crowd
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:50 AM
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Idk about others but IDC if I ask the same question, I genuinely have a lot of things I'm doing in life so I can't remember simple stuff. As long as you remember the big things then that should be enough
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:50 AM
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I admit I didn't read your post but I want to guess and say that she doesn't want to meet up in a more social scenario, she's using you for her validation and nothing more
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:47 AM
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Great post, was with you until you mentioned Todd v. I'm someone who has approached a handful of times in the last few years so I'm a very casual player, I really only do it when I'm in the mood and see a girl that's my type. I don't think I'm that attractive and also a bigger guy but I am 6'. With the few approaches I did, I've gotten the number like maybe 70%, so maybe I just ran into a bunch of yes woman strangely. But I do agree that practice is the best advice, a lot of guys are addicted to…
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:23 AM
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I feel I looked worse when I was younger but still was more successful and mainly used OLD for my prospects but that was before there were "apps". Since then I've had dry spells, so I guess if anything IG and OLD I think have given women more options so men like me are a dime a dozen
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:10 AM
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This may be slightly off topic from the post but I've found chicks will let you be as toxic as your looks/aesthetics allow you to be
/r/seduction10/01/25 06:43 AM
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Hm, has she ever lost 100 and just went home?
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:27 PM
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We ll ignore that part since what he said was sound advice that's not just "move on to the next"
/r/seduction09/01/25 06:49 AM
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In case anyone's wondering how it went, I asked to pay her back can I take her out for a couple of drinks. After I heard a pause of about 5 seconds then she said that because of the next week she works and can't guarantee anything so I said that's fine no pressure, she has my number in my file and when she wants she can text me and we can figure it out All in all I say it went ok
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:22 PM
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Word
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:21 PM
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True
/r/seduction26/12/24 01:54 PM
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Oh I def am, I'm just more or less seeing which one sounds optimal, dinner or drinks
/r/seduction26/12/24 01:50 PM
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To see what a man can provide, at least that what one woman told me
/r/seduction22/12/24 09:05 AM
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Well yeah but she also put her foot in her mouth of what she thinkss my role is which is not the case. That maybe was courting was like back in 1940s but not now
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:20 AM
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That takes like a lot of practice
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:07 AM
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Well coffee, going for a hike or walk, art museum, library, have dinner at your house. Almost anything can be considered a date
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:06 AM
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A woman once told me that the purpose of dating is to show what a guy is able to provide, you really need to be protective of your time and resources because chicks are out here to get it
/r/seduction21/12/24 06:42 PM
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I would say to not set dates at a restaurants, that bypasses that issue completely. Once you're exclusive, then that's when you can do all that
/r/seduction21/12/24 06:40 PM
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Meh still, she should know that's the worse thing you can call a guy
/r/seduction20/12/24 04:31 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/m7m8QQt.png
/r/seduction20/12/24 04:28 PM
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I’m talking to multiple, this is just one I’ve been trying to get at for a while. she’s currently 2 1/2 hours away, i will certainly ask her out after she’s in the area and see what happens
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:55 AM
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I’d really like to see what happens after she moves, to me that’s really the true test
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:40 PM
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Oh yeah, I’m still talking to others of course. And yeah I don’t ask the status anyway
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:06 PM
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Yeah I’m basically waiting til she moves up so that she’s closer, right now she’s too far for any date
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:04 PM
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Hm most I asked was something like what are the odds she’d break up with her dude
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:57 PM
1

Well I haven’t asked her
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:56 PM
1

i honestly dont think i even need to do that, seems like shes hanging around until its too much for her, im just trying to guage if theres interest so i know how to handle her thank you, i will ask that
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:48 PM
0

if it seems clear that theyre going to break up, then yeah
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:06 PM
3

It’s possible, I recently got a rough comparison when a coworker thought I looked like a new hire that was coming in, this man was like a 3 solid 3 going from the pic
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:06 AM
4

We both like dick? Why does that even need to be said lol creepo
/r/seduction11/07/24 11:45 PM
0

Exactly
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:48 PM
2

I agree totally, dating sites are a waste but they are a convenient waste. Imagine having to go to the library every time you wanted to check your messages
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:27 AM
1

I’d love to take the time to learn all this but I can’t be bothered, yeah that’s probably why my success rate isn’t that good but it just doesn’t sound beneficial to study the material for women
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:25 AM
0

Idk bro, I’ll still deal with all this if it means they’re in my bed.
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:23 AM
0

Kudos to you for even getting to the date stage, a lot of these apps it’s damn near impossible to have her talk for more than 2 messages
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:20 AM
1

I would say there’s no harm in just trying it and see how it works but your self confidence can really take a hit if you’re not careful. Just use it to compliment any success you might find in the wild
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:25 PM
1

What counts as “good pictures”
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:12 PM
1

so i guess pictures is the most important part that most people have a hard time with. for an average looking person, i dont get hardly any matches
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:46 PM
2

i find that i might be asking boring type questions but its only because my text game is trash, and im also trying to see how interesting this chick is. personality alone, most females are pretty boring/similar
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:56 PM
1

im fine with waiting, as long as im not being strung along and feels like shes dangling a carrot in front of my face. if i somehow knew what her true intentions were, than im fine waiting a reasonable amount of time (month max)
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:01 PM
2

I think being rejected is a blessing, it would save me a lot of time and confusion. Chicks would rather play games or ghost you, which isn’t technically rejection
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:22 PM
2

What is bpd
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:35 AM
1

How come no one mentions ‘how to win friends and influence people’
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:33 AM
5

If this was 10 years ago, I’d agree that OLD is a very viable option but the way it is now I feel almost any other way is better. Today it’s mostly girls promoting onlyfans, begging for money through cash app, or just there to ‘chat’. So yeah there are some who are on there to meet up and you might be fit their sometimes delusional standards. Single moms out here wanting someone intelligent, charming, not boring, attractive, good job etc. This is what I experienced for how I look, I’m sure someo…
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:24 PM
1

🤷🏻‍♀️it’s just a slick line
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:14 AM
3

Can you volunteer anywhere for the same effect or just at a place like Red Cross
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:26 AM
1

Yeah the type of friend I am, it would only inspire me to try harder so that I can match that success. They say you’re only as good as your circle so if your friends are successful in something, why not you
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:01 PM
1

Nice so am I, sent a message
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:54 PM
1

I’m tall and fat, do it bro. I don’t see the reason people don’t work out, I personally love it. I do see some gyms are pretty expensive but besides that I can’t think of a better use of time
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:30 PM
1

You look good to me, wya
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:07 PM
1

that milf story you mean, well she was already attracted to you when she saw you so i guess it depends on how good you look? which makes sense
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:29 PM
2

is the campus still active on weekends or do you think most girls will be shacked up in their dorms
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:20 PM
2

yeah, i walked into one local bar and it wa just too jam packed that i just left. couldnt even see if there were any girls or not, i like to be able to see whats in there
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:51 PM
3

Is it even worth going to the bar if living at home. What’s the odds you’re able to go to her place, I heard this is unlikely
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:26 AM
4

drake def stole that from me, ive been saying im a lesbian for years
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:29 AM
1

True, atleast the one by me some of the building are closed to non students because of covid
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:16 PM
1

i dont think that matters when youre just getting info of the event. im sure whoevers going, not all of them have facebook
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:24 PM
2

loool uhh, interesting theory
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:55 PM
2

oh just join rover, and make money while gaming
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:51 PM
1

i gotta find where that quad is
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:50 PM
1

join a frat without goin to that college?
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:48 PM
4

ok but how when youre not student
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:48 PM
2

ive heard this so much, i need to visit a target
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:47 PM
2

especially when not a student
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:44 PM
3

thanks for that link for observation skills, i always try to use this to start a conversation. like with my first real good approach, the girl was wearing shorts in cold weather. so what i said was " i saw you from over there, and i told myself theres no way youre not cold". id like to make very approach like that if i could
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:44 PM
2

how does one get into a party, library etc if youre not a student?
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:38 PM
2

Hm I do be seeing a good amount in walmart
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:00 PM
2

She treated you like a king but didn’t fuck you between 5 meetups.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:42 AM
1

Well I was genuinely asking, I don’t know how to escalate when it’s virtual. I’m not even pretty bad at phone sex
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:38 AM
0

what if theyre doing that on video chat, do i whip my dick out
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:00 AM
4

where would i go if i need a curvy chick, lane bryant?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:56 AM
2

Yeah, ok sounds like a plan
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:38 AM
1

Yeah there’s a certain way you game a group of chicks but Id have to do more research since I forgot. I feel like I work better on the fly than over thinking it. I see your name which makes me want to try the university since it’s fairly close. Only issue is I’m not a student
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:17 AM
4

Yeah i have to, rejection is part of the process
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:07 AM
1

Hmm it wouldn't be just fucking for food, i know how to seduce as long as there's some interest there. we haven't met yet and been talking a while
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:55 PM
1

“I’m getting whatever comes to that door lol” was her reply
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:37 PM
4

It’s an old joke, I was just lucky she asked for chinese
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:36 PM
1

this is pretty clever, might have to say that if she askes again
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:23 PM
1

yeah if she lived closer and was bored i probably would, i mean shes only about a half hour away but gas is a bitch lol
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:23 PM
1

you could be right
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:22 PM
3

yeah it was also weird why she told me that story, i forget what the topic was but im pretty sure i didnt ask for that story lol spooky
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:02 PM
16

she asked for chinese, i told her i can only bring the cream of sum yung guy heh
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:56 PM
0

and how do i do that
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:55 PM
1

i mean youre right, i feel like i have a better chance bringing food at night than early afternoon
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:56 PM
5

hmm idk, she did tell me a story about a high school friend that drove 2 hours to her cuz she wanted pancakes. at the end he literally had to ask her for a kiss, and it was on the cheek lol im not trying to be in the same situation
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:56 PM
-1

Is it possible to not clean your ass throughly lol
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:35 PM
2

I’ve actually not done this but I can say that anything is better than using the apps. They were fine 5+ years ago but lately it’s a crapshoot. I’m still living with family, plus there’s some personal changes I’d like to take make so I’m not in too much of a rush to practice the cold approach. But I would 100% recommend it
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:54 PM
1

I don’t think the app is the issue
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:30 AM
1

I actually only do this and still no matches, I feel like online dating isn’t really worth it regardless on who you’re swiping
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:30 AM
2

White sneakers lol I guess because it makes you look clean? I don’t get that one
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:36 AM
3

I’d like to think I walk the fine line but who’s to say, I do like to poke fun and generally do get a laugh from them. It’s never about anything too serious so that may be why I don’t offend
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:27 AM
3

Hey bambi I’ve been hunting for a girl like you but I’d never shoot your mother
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:00 PM
1

Only if you think you would have fun, don’t do it for the sake of not looking like an asshole
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:26 AM
-1

I would only do it if I’m fucking, and it’s likely that it won’t stop there anyway
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:03 PM
1

Wow, reminds me of the joke Patrice told of a woman that claimed she was being sexually harassed
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:32 AM
1

Don’t ask if they’re taken, they’ll let you know one way or another
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:52 PM
12

Funny, her friend texted me not to come. When I asked the girl who hosting it, she said “idk yet” so looks like I’m playing Xbox or might stop by a bar Thanks for the advice guys, I’ll know for next time
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:12 PM
1

It’s a good way to look at it
/r/seduction26/11/21 09:06 PM
12

Yeah you got a point
/r/seduction26/11/21 09:05 PM
3

100% this, use a hug as an indicator to see if you should continue the date
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:15 PM
1

We ll see
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:24 PM
1

Bet you I won’t
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:41 AM
0

I see a few cameras from the rebel line, I mean if you’re able to make that much from just a entry level camera than I like my chances. I will come and back post to let you know how it went, I don’t really need income but it’s some good side money while learning a new skill
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:28 AM
-7

Nah I’ll check to see what cheap dslrs are in the local ads. No reason to invest thousands, any entry level model you suggest?
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:14 AM
-5

One thing I learned is the standard for being considered a professional photographer is probably the lowest I can think of.
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:05 AM
2

That’s insane, I need to get me a dslr asap lol easy money
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:51 AM
2

What’s a good deal on a session, like is $20 a joke
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:45 AM
1

Or just skip photos all together and just game in person?
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:44 AM
7

Basically this but also while competing with any other guys that they’re interacting with. I often times am so busy in my life that I don’t have time to be chasing a woman that might not lead to anything anyway
/r/seduction29/10/21 10:08 PM
1

https://youtu.be/S6JrKtvLKFs
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:35 PM
1

Hm wine, that’s not bad sir
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:33 AM
0

I like this
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:44 PM
3

This comes off as lying, probably why
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:44 PM
-4

It’s not like that’s the only type I game lol
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:56 PM
0

What are some shit tests you can give to a girl
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:42 PM
1

Wow I can relate to this post so much. I didn’t really invest just more or less saving, however I’ve had fairly good success with women as well. I feel I did miss out on regular social activities however (parties, etc.) I just wasn’t the type to spend money on a date or a girl I was interested in. I guess my advice for you as well as others is that it’s never too late, there’s an abundance of info here and the rest of the internet. You’re really in a prime spot, everything from here on out can o…
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:30 PM
1

Yeah 100%, had much better luck in the early 2010s, last few years it’s pretty rough. IMO not worth using it unless you just have expendable free time
/r/seduction21/07/21 02:23 PM
2

Lol pretty ballsy
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:19 PM
1

Hm thanks for the informative reply, it makes a lot of sense. unfortunately she is a woman who doesn’t like to talk on the phone which is probably a red flag but I’ve seen that a lot in this era of dating. One thing I forgot to put in the original post, when I told her where I wanted to meet she said she didn’t know where it is. If she was planning on ghosting me, why even care how to get there instead of saying “ok, sounds good”
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:23 AM
1

True, but I’m more or less asking what to do in response to what she does next
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:28 AM
2

Yeah that makes a lot of sense, I misjudged. It wasn’t 100% but it seemed strong enough 🤷🏻‍♂️ and I’m not that young lol in my 30s
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:27 AM
4

Like most people I’m very protective of time. Fuck my feelings, I’d rather know up front
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:44 PM
2

I mean I do have atleast a few other girls I’m talking to, so I guess my response to you is why would she agree to a date if not interested
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:30 PM
2

I agree, i do like to give people the benefit of the doubt. If she gives me some excuse of what happened, should I just ghost her or just be real distant and have her make it up to me by meeting at my place or something
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:29 PM
1

How do I know if I’m good looking or not? Actually if I lost weight, I’d be attractive
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:15 AM
1

I’m not sure if I’m a ‘nice guy’ or not, it’s really my nature until someone gives me a reason not to be
/r/seduction08/01/21 03:23 AM
2

If you can help it, its best not to have a type. you'll have a lot less options and it'll be harder to move on. I'm trying to broaden my tastes more
/r/seduction02/01/21 08:23 PM
1

Meh it’s almost like we’re coddling prejudice women. You give everyone the benefit of the doubt, or at least you should
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:51 PM
3

Yeah that’s the part I don’t get. When a chick is putting out free stuff, why ask to pay her?
/r/seduction24/11/20 05:42 PM
1

I personally know a woman who’s a power lifter who says she hates being approached but she’s the minority. Most women don’t take it as serious as her
/r/seduction08/11/20 03:09 PM
1

Is there any good way to find specifically local girls on insta
/r/seduction26/10/20 08:47 PM
2

What if you're a big guy though
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:38 PM
1

I mean if women are playing games like that, probably not someone I'd want to waste my time with
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:54 PM
1

Thanks man, it's weird how I've never heard of this from other communities. I wonder if there's a way to get it on the kindle
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:54 PM
1

Yeah that exactly, never comment on that kind of stuff until it's in your hand
/r/seduction14/10/20 08:40 PM
3

Do you mean single or just "very single". I'm reading day bang now since alot of my approaches will be at that time and the process seems cool for some stuck up women who have their guard up but I think direct better, especially if she's been waiting for someone to pick her up
/r/seduction14/10/20 02:10 PM
1

What's the easypeasy method? And yeah it's been good for mental clarity alone, I'm gonna stick with it because I feel like it's easier when you have a gf or steady fwb. I honestly haven't tried to game but I have thought about visiting the library and try to join more local groups/clubs
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:03 PM
11

Ayy man I'm about a month in on porn, I feel like dating sites are like degree of porn if you don't get to meet anyone on there
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:05 PM
0

I just so happen to be attracted to curvy women which is a common body type in them. You got me wrong, I'd rather not fuck if it was someone I wasn't attracted to
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:19 AM
1

Just seems to be the easiest catch online, I don't get too much luck outside of that
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:10 PM
1

Can't tell if serious but will try anyway
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:38 PM
1

Hm I feel like there's so many people in a group that you won't get noticed. Plus I can just use pics of my niece lol
/r/seduction10/10/20 01:38 PM
1

I’ve asked a few girls this over the years and I’ve heard curve for men the most
/r/seduction07/10/20 10:08 AM
1

Well in that case Walmart as well, I’ve seen so many chicks that there’s really no reason to go clubbing. the target in my area is far out of the way so I never go there.
/r/seduction07/10/20 10:06 AM
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