How to flirt without being too direct

epimpstyle · 2025-01-10T14:51:53+00:00

Flirting is simply talking to a girl in a playful and escalating manner and she likes to be part of the conversation.

If you make a joke, if you are playful with her, if you look at her and wink, if you touch her while talking... all these things mean that you are flirting, you are not being too direct, it is normal flirting. You are too direct if you start with XXX jokes or if you make all kinds of XXX references.

LickLickLigma · 2025-01-10T14:49:38+00:00

Like the other guy said, complement on what she's wearing initially and not her body. Funnily enough they get comfortable pretty soon that's when you start complementing their bodies. I've told pretty much all of my lady friends that they have nice boobs and their legs/ass/tits look great in their dresses when they send pics. They get a dopamine hit and they love it. No need to be subtle just say as is exactly what your see and how you feel. You want to let her know that you're looking at her with lust. They want you to notice and say it. Other examples: Tell her that her new haircut is very sexy. Tell her that her legs look sexy in that skirt/dress etc. Tell her that her cleavage looks elegant and sexy at the same time in that dress and her beautiful necklace enhances them. Steer the conversation to ask what kind of bras she likes to wear. And see how they receive and respond and play accordingly. Make naughty jokes. When she sends you a pic asking how she looks tell her you like her dress so much that you want her to take it off. She sends you a bikini pic or in a bra? Tell her to take it off and let em puppies breathe. I've literally had a girls pulling up or down their tops to "show me their new bra" and have them sending pics in their bras just for me to see. But I don't think it's a good idea to say things like I wanna suck your tits or I wanna fuck you so bad etc. Don't be needy. That's for when you're already in bed together heating things up.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-01-10T13:46:54+00:00

Compliment what she wears (i like your perfume, your outfit looks great on you), not her look or her body.

Her look is genetic she didn’t make any efforts with it, but her choosing what she wears clearly takes some efforts.

pastor-of-muppets69 · 2025-01-10T15:13:02+00:00

Gosh, I need to record myself next time I'm flirting with someone. Like, it's something I know how to do instinctively, but I don't know where to start when explaining it. It would be like teaching someone english.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-10T16:50:43+00:00

Being progressive is key . I see my flirtation as a series of checkpoint ' I won't flirt at a certain Intensity unless she is ok with a lower level of intensity.

MrMetraGnome · 2025-01-11T04:48:44+00:00

I have no idea. My most discreet flirting was with this chick who was hosting a party. She was a diabetic and was injecting her insulin. After she finished, she showed me her gauze that had a little blood on it. She says, "you want some of my DNA?" I said, "No thanks, but you can have some of mine." She threw the gauze in the waste bin and said ""I'm good" and started walking away. It took her a second to register, because she made a few steps, stopped, and turned around blushing with the the most shocked looking facial expression.

zeklux10012 · 2025-01-10T17:35:30+00:00

All the other comments are begginer stuff. You compliment by saying what you actually think (even if it's her face, legs whatever) but saying it in a very calm, slow and almost drowsy tone. You should be leaning away from her and have your whole body facing away from her.

She might give you a wtf look and that's a shit test, you say "maaan whatever you're still hot, where you from?".

If she has a huge ass and is walkin in leggings, and you compliment her hair, it's very obvious what you were actually thinking and you'll seem like a pussy.

LucaCoco_ · 2025-01-10T14:51:18+00:00

What your flirting looks like?

Dandys3107 · 2025-01-13T08:19:16+00:00

Proper body language is surely a big thing. Stay little closer, look girl in the eyes, smile, take proper posture, use slow and deep voice, casually show off your attractive masculine traits. In terms of conversation, you wanna become more personal with topics, more direct, less appropriate, including mild sexual topics. Also, sexual context is almost always in the air between man and woman, the thing is about not denying it by getting too formal, too reserved, too nice etc.

michaelmontana · 2025-01-10T19:15:22+00:00

chat gpt

michaelmontana · 2025-01-10T19:15:34+00:00

chat gpt

ThotBubble · 2025-01-10T18:14:17+00:00

Why would you want to flirt and not be direct that’s cowardly in my eyes if you want something get it bro girls like when your intentions are clear

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-01-10T14:23:59+00:00

I have a flirting guide on my profile

How to flirt without being too direct

Comments

1 I'd love to get complimented on how much money I make lol. That's literally in top 3 compliments.

2 I don't care what girls say, I have tried and seen what works. Things girls say they want aren't the ones that actually attract them. Being direct BUT dismissive is not what girls would say they want but I've seen it and felt it work.

Title	How to flirt without being too direct
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Date	January 10, 2025 1:24 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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