Hey everyone,

I’m a guy who takes care of himself — I’ve been told I’m good-looking, I dress well (Polish style vibes), stay in decent shape, and I’m financially stable. I’m also pretty good at conversation, connecting with people, and making women feel comfortable.

But here’s the thing… when it comes to seduction or making a move, I completely freeze. I never push any boundaries, never go for the kiss, and always keep things too polite or friendly. I play it so safe that I basically friend-zone myself.

It’s frustrating, because I know I should be doing better — I have a lot going for me, but I lack that edge when it matters most. I want to be more assertive, flirt with more intent, and know when (and how) to go for the kiss or take things further, without being awkward or disrespectful.

Any tips/readings from people who’ve overcome this? Or advice from women on how they wish guys would make a move in a confident but smooth way?

Thanks in advance 🙌