Hi guys. I'm nearly 22, it hit me about a year ago now that I won't be young forever. I'm in a great place at the moment. My whole life I was a skinny geeky kid, who's socially awkward with few friends. When I was about 19.5 I broke up with my average and only girlfriend who I was with since 15 and decided I needed to change.

I went out clubbing and socialised with the few friends I had whenever I could. I hated clubbing to start with but I was so happy to be meeting people and making friends.

Jump to now and I'm pretty confident, it's taken a while but I'm getting there. I've been working out, I can approach girls pretty easily, I don't get embarrassed when I fuck up and I'm really enjoying life.

My problem is my friends are starting to move on, they're getting full time jobs, settling into serious relationships and not socialising as much. I on the other hand try to work as little as I possibly can, I don't want a serious relationship and I want to socialise as often as I can. I've just left university and the only time I really meet people my age now is when I'm out clubbing.

The other thing that scares me shitless is the girls. I'm guessing most hot 18 year old girls generally don't want to be with a 25 year old. I know I'm not there yet but time flies. I don't even know if a 30 year old chick would turn me on. =/

How did you older guys deal with ageing? Do you find it harder to socialise? What about the girls? Do older girls get more attractive to you personally? Thanks.