How to revive a solid prospect that went cold. You experienced a genuine connection with a high level of rapport and now she has disappeared. Although a one-night stand can be explained away as the result of being under the influence of alcohol, it’s harder to accept when a girl disappears after you felt a real connection. The reality is that the connection was one-sided: your mind missed the warning signs of her disinterest and created a false tale ofattraction, because a girl will not go cold on a man she has strong interest in. Girls are fully capable of hotly pursuing men they like, so if a girl is not replying to your texts or coming out on dates, she is simply not interested in you. I can’t imagine how much collective time men have wasted trying to revive dead leads on girls who have already soundly rejected them. ALL TIME CLASIC.