ALWAYS assume attraction.

CollapseSoMainstream · 2020-01-26T12:44:50+00:00

Anyways, what's fucked up is my emotional cluelessness lead girls to chase even more because it came off as me not being needy when I was literally just retarded.

Yup... me and you both. I think every success I had was pure luck due to being oblivious and sometimes flirting/teasing by accident.

And how easy it is to get people to do stuff is a total mindfuck, for sure. I realised people had been doing it to me and I was completely unaware.

And there's also things like simply turning the conversation to somehow be about or relate to you and the other lerson makes them like you more and have emotions about you. This works for almost everyone. It's fucking insane how simple this shit is.

I've also realised that many people have this "seduction" knowledge innately or through experience, but most are not consciously aware of what they're doing or why.

SmoothPrimal · 2020-01-26T03:56:33+00:00

What works for me is assuming mutual respect and good intentions. Assuming attraction mean you engage guys differently. Being engaging to everyone who respect you and tries to engage is key in my experience.

fakeraccount1234321 · 2020-01-31T22:32:48+00:00

Once had a girl unprompted explain to me how she doesn’t have a gag reflex and can deepthroat no problem and I didn’t think anything of it until 2-3 weeks later after she had decided to get back with her ex-boyfriend.

Mountxinjew · 2020-01-25T23:33:27+00:00

This is amazing. Thank you.

Loofy_101 · 2020-01-26T08:11:44+00:00

I feel your pain brother, I was raised around women and taught to treat them all with respect. It blinded me to the social game of actually talking to girls in a way of getting closer to them etc. I moved countries for High School and I was the interesting foreigner. I met an onslaught of girls who at the time I was also confused because of the cultural barriers but it was like you said, all of these compliments, hints, even my friends who were saying bro you have the power to pull so many girls wtf are you doing etc. I just wanted to play it safe and be nice assuming they were nice. I even lost a good friend her I realized was interested in me but my obliviousness turned her away after she picked me up to eat ice cream, invited me over, wanted to hang out etc...boy I was a dumbass. Now I'm in college and am trying to learn and become a SUPER SEDUCER!!! Nah but I'm trying to learn to engage more and have fun. Hopefully you can have fun with your newly found knowledge!

antalpoti · 2020-01-26T01:48:09+00:00

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Title	ALWAYS assume attraction.
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Upvotes	21
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Date	January 25, 2020 11:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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