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[–]astr0mania 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol I cant tell if you are trolling or your girl is a huge asshole due to the sheer outrageousness of your story.
Dump dump dump
[–]Rosepott 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not being overly sensitive at all. Unless this guy is gay she is making a move to bring him into her life, to "learn about plants"
I would question her motives, or atleast watch and observe her further.
[–]LSX_Nation 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Invited him over to see "plants"
Seems kinda sus to me man
Find a new girl
[–]litomingbomba 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How do you know everything they text to each other?
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[–]litomingbomba 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Then she’s got nothing to hide
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[–]litomingbomba 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you really feel bothered by that in the future, just talk to her. Don’t make a big deal out of it right away because this probably means nothing and you might fuck this up. Eventually if you keep feeling insecure, tell her calmly what you feel. Don’t hide it, that’s worse.
[–]BarneyFighter 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she is activly telling about another man, that is not good at all. She is testing you. Keep an eye on her, but don't be jealous.
[–]fvckCrosshairs 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
im blown by your naiveness
[–]BensonInFL1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I would interpret this as a series of shit tests.
And she says “I’m no plant whisperer like jasper
My initial instinct would be to laugh and agree with her and then follow-up with, " True, I'm a <insert something here> whisperer" .. for me for example.., I love to spank girls.. I spank them when they're bad, I spank them when they're good, I give them birthday spanks...etc... so I would say "I'm the discipline whisperer", give her a slap across her ass, and look at her straight in the eyes and have a big grin... this would lead to her laughing or calling you an asshole where you can then tickle her or something similar.. grab her hair, look in her eyes again, and give her a kiss and make out with her.
You can come by my place only if you bring your puppy though
She is either completely naive or looking for a reaction to see if you are going to act jealous...the default is to not be affected at all.... but if you want to have fun and if you can pull it off... I would tease her and make fun of her... congratulate her on her hot date... offer to put in a good word for her.. the importance here is frame... you have to laugh about it like its a complete joke.
As you evolve in the game, you will see that her asking guy friends to her house is actually good for you...she is setting the rules for both of you and you can do the same and invite girls to your place... and it will be an awesome conversation when she gets jealous and confronts you on this...
However, for the time being, since you are worried, assuming that you are already sleeping with her, and your friend is loyal to you, let your friend be another one of her girlfriends. At some point, she will bitch about you or whatever is going on in her life to him, and he can relay this back to you.. better than if she were bitching to a stranger and you were out of the loop completely.
-B
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