An argument with my friends about how should text a girl at instagram

Woujo · 2017-03-27T13:14:55+00:00

It doesn't matter. You build attraction in person, not over social media. You get her attracted in person, and then just ask her out over text/social media.

VDKay · 2017-03-27T15:21:07+00:00

There is definitely no "right" or "wrong" answer here. It depends on TOO MANY factors. You have no idea what she is doing and how she is feeling when you text her. As the other comment says, attraction is built in-person. If you can build tension through messages and then ask her out when she is most receptive, fine, but again, it is extremely difficult to tell what state she is at that moment if you are not looking at her.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-03-28T10:49:44+00:00

So yesterday me and my friends and we had an argument about how should you text a women you are interested in instagram.

I'd question your assumptions If you know her in person, great. Work on that in person.

But if you don't know her in person, you shouldn't be wasting time on a person you only have a possible connection with over the Internet.

UoAPUA · 2017-03-29T04:45:15+00:00

Everyone else wants to give some good advice but in the wrong context. Let me answer your question, you are right. Just like any other form of online dating, waiting days or weeks to ask her out is a mistake. The sooner you can get her number and set up a date, he better. She knows from your pictures and from your banter whether or not she's be willing to meet you or not. A week is too much time to allow that initial attraction to cool down. She's a busy and presumably hot girl. She doesn't have time or patience to talk to some stranger online for a week. If you get a response, start working on moves.

SacredSemen · 2017-06-29T14:32:44+00:00

Be Honest. Girls like that. Don't try to act cool. Don't pretend the guy you think she might like.

Let me tell you fact, by using such things or tricks whatever you say, to get her number, you are basically selling shit to her for the number. Even if you get the number she'll eventually find out who you truly are and you'll just end up wasting a few weeks of time.

Just act like you are. Chill Bra !

Title	An argument with my friends about how should text a girl at instagram
Author	nononimi
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 27, 2017 1:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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