STOP over-analyzing / over-thinking and just go out there and DO IT! over-thinking will kill your game. i'm a total hard case newbie (non-virgin, but still trash social connections / fluidity) , oh and i look 12, but i recently went to a big rave thing and used it as practice to talk to really slutty, intimidatingly pretty alpha girls and one girl like kinda shook her ass in my lap and other girls thought i was her BF...so obviously im doing something right :) stay positive!!!

don't let your bad thoughts and energy castrate yourself....only you stand in the way of your own light