Hey guys, I know this book has gotten a lot of praise so I just had to pick it up and it hit so close to home I had to write this. It's the first book I've read on the subject (besides things like Never Eat Alone, How to Win Friends and Influence People, etc which weren't for seduction) and it was AMAZING! It really helps encompass a lot of questions people ask! The thing that hit hardest was the following paragraph:

I'm a chameleon. I will become whatever I believe the person wants me to be in order to be liked. With my smart friends I act intelligent and use big vocabulary. Around my mother, I look like the perfect loving son. With my dad, I talk sports. With the guys at work I cuss and swear...whatever it takes to look cool. Underneath it all, I'm not sure who I really am or if any of them would like me just for who I am. If I can't figure out what people want me to be, I'm afraid I will be alone. The funny thing is I feel alone most of the time anyways

I got this book yesterday and read it cover to cover doing as many of the activities I could. I plan on rereading it chapter by chapter and putting into place all of the things that it suggests slowly. If you have any of the following problems I HIGHLY suggest at least skimming this book at a library or book store!

  • Feel like you always give more than you get
  • You're a good, nice guy girls enjoy being friends with
  • You feel like jerks always get the girls
  • You have a bunch of girl friends but no one significant
  • You always feel alone
  • Have difficulty facing conflict (in any aspect of your life)
  • You look to other's for validation

There are actually a bunch of other reasons as well these are just a few!