Another first date

mrdarcycarter7 · 2020-01-24T20:25:59+00:00

Drinks or coffee . Give her those two options . If she doesn’t drink alcohol then you go with coffee date . First dates work well as a short one hour date to see if you like her. If it’s going well go for a walk after

TheHalfMonty · 2020-01-24T20:27:46+00:00

I tend to always go for drinks. Its better if there is something going on in the bar, like karaoke or a quiz night. That'll ease the tension and help you think of things to talk about.

SparkleSauce33 · 2020-01-24T20:25:32+00:00

I think drinks are fine for a first date. Maybe try to pick a place where there are games to play or maybe somewhere that would allow you to bring your dog with you.

tresslessone · 2020-01-24T23:26:29+00:00

I prefer to take them to a nice dimly lit underground cocktail bar. I will also order some large shared cocktail so we are forced to share. She’s got no choice in either venue or drink.

It’s very easy to escalate from there.

TTV-DontEvnTrip · 2020-01-25T01:56:41+00:00

Drinks with something to distract you from each other , a music venue or comedy show usually work great. It will give you a conversation topic outside of you two talking about yourselves which is usually easier to be open with , good luck have fun . Smile and make lots of eye contact

If she said your place instead of a bar, play it slow she is most likely DTF so you just have to play it cool she’s already ready for it

hunterpua · 2020-01-24T20:37:51+00:00

Drinks are the same as coffees and dinners, sit across each other and talk talk talk.

You know the saying, 93% of communication is non-verbal.

So why not have a date where you aren't just sitting down so that you can fully take advantage of that?

If not drinks, what alternative do you propose?

Activities.

What activities?

You should actually get to know the girls you meet rather than talking at them so you'd know what they'd be into.

If the girls you get to know don't really know how to have a good time and just sit indoors and watch Netflix after work everyday then you should be regularly doing fun things in your life regardless of whether you have a girl with you or not.

When you have that then whenever you meet a new girl you won't even need to go out of your way to have a cool date with her.

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Title	Another first date
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Date	January 24, 2020 8:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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