I date a fair bit in my nearest city, but in order to get there I need to drive to the train station, which then means driving home if I don't get lucky. Now when I meet a girl for a drink it always gets to that time of 'do you want another?' and I don't drink drive. So this makes me say 'I can't, I have to drive home', which I know pretty much instantly takes sex off the table, as I am pretty much stating that I am going home. I also find (being British) that women are generally uncomfortable getting an alcoholic drink for themselves if I am not getting one also, so the date is drawn to a close.

So with this conundrum, I was wondering if any experienced sedditors have an answer or something they use to get around this.