Any high-functioning autists daters here?

CrookedNoseKnave · 2019-06-19T04:49:13+00:00

Before I had a clue I was on the spectrum, I knew I didn't know how to deal with social situations that came intuitively for others. I ended up venturing towards sarcasm if I didn't understand someone instead of looking stupid myself- figured being a dick was better than just staring awkwardly. I'm a little too good at negging- according to a serious gf I ended up with (who's on the spectrum). And though she ended up getting me and we clicked, before her my negging just attracted really clingy girls who were a bit too hard to get rid of to the point they were a little crazy. It got old and exhausting quick, but no one I really liked. Also, no matter how well an autie can get when it comes to masking, it's still exhausting. I ended up crashing and withdrawn for months. I'm older now, 40. 2 kids who I have full custody of and I don't go near random hookups anymore. I don't know anything about gaming for healthy girls I want something serious with, but if you're looking to just hookup regardless of the crazy and daddy issues which are a goldmine, just literally respond with anything a girl might say but be cocky and sure of yourself. If she's confused, just pretend you've gone over her head and laugh. It's literally better and less obvious negging than insulting a woman's appearance. You can literally put her down and present yourself as high value by making up shit, something fictitious, and you can even do it humbly, modestly, so it doesn't come across too mean- a kind negging. Anyway, the struggle is real. Keep your head up and don't let the game fuck with your head too much.

Title	Any high-functioning autists daters here?
Author	gunpas11
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	June 16, 2019 8:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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