I'm having an issue where I am successful in my initial approach - I come on clearly showing interest/intent and it is received well. But then due to circumstances we part ways for a little but, such as someone going to smoke a cigarette, bathroom, anything. I do not know for the life of me how to re-approach effectively without coming off needy/weak. This is where I lose it. Many girls wont just be standing around waving you over or making it clear they want to rekindle even if they do. Often times they'll reemerge with their friends and its again upon you to make something happen. Not everyone is so outgoing and obviously it is in our hands to make something happen. But i kinda feel like I blew my load with my initial approach and dont know how to re-approach them alone or in a group setting and make it happen. Has anyone successfully dealt with this sitch?