Any tips for advancing physical interaction when in the moment?

supersmileyface · 2013-08-28T20:42:04+00:00

First thing is do not fucking break eye contact. You wana escalate, just look her in the eyes and say "im going to kiss you now" and do it. You are fucking awesome, remember? Her hearts beating when you look in her eyes and she wants you to make the move.. Its really not that big of a deal, most people i know have kissed anywhere between 20-200 people.

While kissing, touch the back of her arm, her legs, grab and gently pull her hair. Kiss her slowly and passionately, she doesnt want that sloppy speed kiss the drunk guy gave her thursday at the party. BE THE FIRST TO PULL AWAY FROM KISSING. Push her down on the sofa/bed whatever, get on top of her and just kiss the shit out of her.

Once your on top its easier to move your hands around, take your shirt off, feel her chest, move your hands down to her waist and just massage her over her pants. Note for newbies: This is where i have encountered the most shit tests, as a final boss before winning the game - and they can be hard to deal with if you arent ready. Study up on them, links in sidebar.

assuming she lets you in, Do this shit until you can feel her jeans getting wet, by then shes ready to be dominated and you can just rip her pants/shirt/bra off from there. Just dont overthink it, and remember, once her clothes are off, dont just go straight in - take your time and read her body.. guess thats another topic though. if youre really new the first time or two WILL BE AWKWARD, and thats okay. Just try it with a smile on your face! Youre probably human,and its natural for us.

tdb2318 · 2013-08-26T16:16:45+00:00

I struggle also. I have a feeling the only advice you'll get though is to work on your kino. There's really nothing else you can do to solve it.

2013-08-26T16:41:05+00:00

I think that this is one of those things where you just literally have to do it. When you start out, you'll bomb a few times and succeed a few times. And as you get more practice, you learn little intuitive things such as reading if the mood is right, doing the action without being nervous, etc. You can get ideas on what to do here and there by Googling kino or whatever, but you really learn how to do them by practicing it.

hmmnonono · 2013-08-27T04:05:43+00:00

Why is it difficult? If you're kissing her, it's natural that the kissing gets more intense as you go. And as your kissing gets more intense, it's natural that your hands start to roam around her body. And as your hands are roaming around her body, it's natural that they start moving under her clothes, maybe trying to pull them off a bit.

I mean, aren't these the things you WANT to do when you're making out with a girl? Shouldn't you be doing the things you want to do? If she stops you, you need to respect that. But until she stops you, why wouldn't you assume that she wants to move further? She's already kissing you, wtf more affirmation do you need?

bearze · 2013-08-27T09:22:38+00:00

What I usually do is, we kiss.

Then I let my hands roam, feel the ass, tits, go along her neck, whatever. Then after a while I'll place my hand on her pussy (but over the jeans). Rub it abit. Then bring my hand back up, and under her shirt. Unhook the bra, then slip my hand back around to the front, and UNDER the bra cup, feeling her tit bare. From there you squeeze it, whatever you wanna do.

Then I'll go back down, put my hand in her pants, start fingering her, then come up, undo her zipper/button or whatever, then go back down and finger her some more since there's more space. From there it usually just... goes. If not, take her hand and place it on your dick

If at any point she doesn't wanna keep going, back off. If not, hey, you're good to go

Title	Any tips for advancing physical interaction when in the moment?
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Date	August 26, 2013 3:23 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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