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Anyone else have problems falling asleep next to a girl and inadvertently keep her up all night because you are being physically needy?

risethirtynine · 2015-06-25T19:46:51+00:00

Looking back, I've probably done this with a bunch of different girls and I always feel bad after I realize it. I guess I need to work on keeping myself...

risethirtynine

June 25, 2015

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Title	Anyone else have problems falling asleep next to a girl and inadvertently keep her up all night because you are being physically needy?
Author	risethirtynine
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 25, 2015 7:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3b3ymh/anyone_else_have_problems_falling_asleep_next_to/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/anyone-else-have-problems-falling-asleep-next-to-a.1306084 https://theredarchive.com/post/1306084

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[–]cmiovino1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

I had this happen once. Drove an hour to hang out with this girl I was seeing that I knew through a friend at her apartment at her college a few months ago. Bad idea to drive that far, number one.

She put on a movie, then Netflix crapped out and the TV was on. It was late, so those late night infomercials were running ALL NIGHT. This mainly kept me up - I sleep in complete silence. She sleeps with the TV on every night.

I kept trying to escalate, but she just happened to of have her wisdom teeth pulled the day before and wasn't in the mood at all. I maybe slept an hour at most.

To answer you, as it relates back to my example, in my situation and yours, we need to escalate and physically touch all throughout the interaction way before hand. Make out, keep things flowing, etc... then when it comes time for bed, whatever the situation, she's down. Hell, even if it's not sex, she should be down to cuddle and all that good stuff.

If you don't escalate and flow smoothly hours before, you get in bed and it's awkward as all hell.

[–]risethirtynine 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]cmiovino2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

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