Anyone feel a bit "different" or "off when talking to people?"

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-01-16T21:20:35+00:00

I do the same thing. I avoid people that I don't click with. I am polite and cordial, then I move on.

If you still want to relate to people that you don't click with - create a background of relatedness (what do you have in common) and bond over that. Ask them questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves. Find something to appreciate about them and tell them what is so great about them and then tell them it was great to meet/speak to them.

scrappy109 · 2017-01-16T21:38:26+00:00

Don't worry, you're not alone there. What makes you say you're not socially adept? Some pairings have more chemistry than others, you're not going to be everyone's ideal personality type so it's nothing to take personally. I know I do better with people who are more outgoing than I am, for example.

Title	Anyone feel a bit "different" or "off when talking to people?"
Author	upandup123
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	January 16, 2017 8:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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