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anyone have advice/tips/insights/anecdotes about dating "alpha girls"?

NovelTea420 · 2011-02-12T20:30:06+00:00

I can elaborate if you need me to....

NovelTea420

February 12, 2011

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Title	anyone have advice/tips/insights/anecdotes about dating "alpha girls"?
Author	NovelTea420
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	February 12, 2011 8:30 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fk7bx/anyone_have_advicetipsinsightsanecdotes_about/
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[–]Cokemonkey114 points 15 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]NovelTea420[S] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Well this one fell in my lap... she's a 10 in my book and I'm sure many others, and she knows she's hot and is used to getting hit on and all the sneaky shit guys do. She has a dominant, independent personality. I'm not sure to what degree she's being serious or joking when she says shit like how I'm only scheduled for Mondays for now and have to work my way up to Fridays/weekends, and just stuff like "Oh and Rule 3 is I'm always right.". My feeling is either she's been dicked over a lot and is showing a lot of defense mechanisms, or it's all a game to her. Anyway we ran into each other randomly last week and she apparently liked me too back when we used to run into each other more, and started kissing me and stuff in the back of the bar. Very strange one here. I feel like part of her wants me to be a sort of PUA dick, but another part of her kinda sees through a lot of that shit and she wants to feel in control. I know it's shallow but she's hot so I don't want to eject just yet.

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[–]canadian_stig 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Like some have been saying this appears to be a defense mechanism - I have a few friends that are HB10 and here are my insights from hearing stories from them:

Don't give these "dominant" girls the same attention as other males initially. E.g. "You are so hot" or "You are so amazing". They hear it all the time. From the past I've said other things like "Yes you do look nice" etc. It seemed to work well for me. After you pass the guard you can then compliment any way you want (You are hot/etc).
Get under her skin - be cocky & funny. I've seen this work really well however I have no personal experience in this approach.
"Don't care about her" attitude. Open the door for her and let her walk into your life - so the usual "alpha" male approach however what I found to work pretty well for me is to make a few "attitude" adjustments to this "alpha" approach. Instead of being a "PUA dick" I approach with a "I'm going this direction with my life. I would be happy to share my world with you but don't waste my time if you aren't interested. I don't have time for games". However you need to have a solid lifestyle in place OR be heading in that direction. I always tell myself that to be with a HB9/10 you have to earn it. I think this approach lowers these dominant HB's guards a bit because it shows that there is more to your life than just "work - eat - gym - party - sex" etc.

Hope this helps.

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