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| 6 | Lowest Paid NFL Player’s 2024 Salary Is 2X Bigger Than Caitlin Clark’s 4-Year WNBA ContractSalaries are based on how much an organization can pay them, is willing to pay them, and what the current market rates indicate as being a normal pay range. A WNBA team is worth as much as $35 million. The least valuable NFL team is still worth billions. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/24 01:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Like, 5 fire emojis. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 04:49 PM |
| 20 | Female Tourist Goes To The Islands And Is Not Feeling The Music... Tries To Shut It Down!"Four Sambucas!!" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 8 | Feminist that grabbed Owen Shroyers genitals during #metoo march found guiltyYeah, it really sucks when people admit to sexually assaulting people, and they just assume nothing will happen to them because they are who they are. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/08/19 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I have a great Tinder opener, but am getting a specific response that I need a follow-up to.Testing. Will update. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:44 AM |
| 3 | "You're raping me"Hey look, I'm fine having a discourse about this and if my opinion can be changed, I'm open to that. All courts have held any rights are not absolute(I personally dont agree myself) First, 4th and many amendments have been limited and can be revoked if the safety of the community is threatened or the use of the action isn't deemed within the right. So, I am right in saying that if you decline, or violate the agreement that you sign with the local government in order to get a driver's license, th… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/07/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | "You're raping me"So, the right to operate a motor vehicle upon public streets is a protected right, however it doesn't say that it is without limitation. Which in this instance is a driver's license, which you receive by agreeing to abide by the state and federal laws of the road. While courts have held a license is not an infringement on this right. They cannot take away your right to drive without due process, like all other rights. Nor can they deny you possession of a license for no valid legal reason. Like … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/07/15 06:52 PM |
| 118 | "You're raping me"They confuse rights with privileges. In order to receive the benefit of that privilege to drive on state and federal roads, you must have a license. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/07/15 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Girl thinks she can flirt her way to the front of a line.I think you mean "fuckin an hero!!!" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/03/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Girl thinks she can flirt her way to the front of a line.Yep. Let's at least see the pizza. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/03/15 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Girl thinks she can flirt her way to the front of a line.Oh, you know they were drunk? So, you go from proudly exclaiming that you announced "pussy pass denied" to claiming that it wasn't your brightest moment. LIAR PASS DENIED. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/03/15 03:41 AM |
| 1 | The time I denied the pussy pass of a shot girl on Bourbon Street.So fucking edgy, yo. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/02/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Gauging interest in a Cincinnati Seddit LairLOL. I'm coming from Louisiana. I know what hot is. Just really interested in what the city is like, if it's a fun town, etc. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Gauging interest in a Cincinnati Seddit LairI was asking because I'm considering moving after I graduate in May. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Gauging interest in a Cincinnati Seddit LairHow's Cincy as a city? Cool? | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 06:09 PM |
| 4 | "We're not having sex."And then she's like "ha. Okay" and doesn't become more aggressive. What then? | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.You think you're right. Sometimes it's not always that black and white. But good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Sorry, but we're just not seeing eye-to-eye on the subject. Thanks for the conversation though. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.They'll think he's a decent guy who doesn't dress well. Being a "decent guy" is not a characteristic that you can judge someone based upon their clothing, posture, and cleanliness. I wholeheartedly disagree with everything you said, and clearly you disagree with what I say. So, let's just leave it at that, k? | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Sorry buddy, but you're just missing the big picture. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Exactly. It's such a strange question. She can't help but answer it. It's a text hook. There are many threads about texts to start up chilled conversations to build interest, especially between meeting and the first date. This is just one that I've had some decent success with. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.That is what I said in the last sentence! ;) | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Frame is SUPER important, though. This isn't something to do unless you've established a rapport, and built intrigue - for a lack of a better phrase (maybe you can come up with a better way to put it). Ah, if you've established yourself as being "your own man", letting a woman pick your color is like giving her a little smidgeon of control, but that's all you're going to give her. That way, at least subconsciously, you don't seem like a self-centered, controlling ass. Know what I mean? | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.I disagree. It really depends on the frame you've set for yourself up front, and that's for just about anything at all. Anyone in the community will tell you that if you have confidence, some behaviors that might otherwise be beta become alpha. For example: you might see a schlub wearing a t-shirt with a puppy dog on it and flip-flops, and because he's slouched, unkempt, and shifty-eyed, he might seem like a weirdo. Put that same t-shirt and flip-flops on a guy who carries himself with gusto and… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.I think that over time, you start to pick up on the things that illicit the kind of response you want, whether they are physical movements or questions you ask. I think that's what Seddit is: developing a core set of behaviors that you apply to get the results you want out of interactions with women. It's more than just "being confident", because if you have no idea what works then for the most part, you're throwing darts at a board and hope to hit something good. Isn't that the purpose of Seddi… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Then you should not be around those bitches. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.How is it a trick? Where is the deception? | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.What girl do you know that would say that? None. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.Ha! I don't know about sparkles but pink is doable. ;) | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Nice little conversation starter when it's getting close to date night. Has worked pretty well for me, and has piqued interest from girls I've set dates with.What? I'm sharing something that I've had success with. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I've created a new subreddit: /r/SedditText. Texting seems to be a topic of interest for many Sedditors, so post your questions and successful text messages over at the brand new Subreddit. PM me for moderators.Did you delete my post? | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I've created a new subreddit: /r/SedditText. Texting seems to be a topic of interest for many Sedditors, so post your questions and successful text messages over at the brand new Subreddit. PM me for moderators.Sorry, I didn't know there was a rule. | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Great quick line for online dating sites.Sure. If the goal is to get a response, I'd say to the three girls I sent the message to, all three girls responded positively. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Great quick line for online dating sites.I'm sexy as hell, so... | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Texting Rules For When You've Already Landed The Girl?Seduction should never stop in a relationship, otherwise she'll see you as a fake, "not the man I dated". Seduction is not only about what to say and do, but it is also about changing your outlook on life as a whole. If you stop seducing her, the relationship will get stale. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up. I went out and got drunk last night with friends, with the plan of meeting up with this girl I've been trying to get, instead she came over to my friend's place after hours, and I did nothing.Regret hurts more than rejection... Oh, I like that one. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up. I went out and got drunk last night with friends, with the plan of meeting up with this girl I've been trying to get, instead she came over to my friend's place after hours, and I did nothing.Look, you must not have had a huge connection with this girl or simply missing one window of time wouldn't have been enough to kill it. There was one other opportunity that I missed, where she was really teasing me in my own home and I was letting her direct the situation due to alcohol dulling my judgement again. I should point out too, that she ALSO failed to make a move. Why does it always have to be the guy's fault if nothing happens. She was drunk so if she liked you, there would have been … | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 09:44 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up. I went out and got drunk last night with friends, with the plan of meeting up with this girl I've been trying to get, instead she came over to my friend's place after hours, and I did nothing.You're posting here so we say 'its ok man', aren't you? No, I don't want sugar-coated support. People should come to seddit to get reality thrown in their face | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up. I went out and got drunk last night with friends, with the plan of meeting up with this girl I've been trying to get, instead she came over to my friend's place after hours, and I did nothing.well, I was wasted, couch locked and feeling pretty unresponsive. Interestingly enough, I called up her arond 2:30 today to laugh it off being a terrible host, and she texted me back an hour later asking "what's up?" So, she didn't sever the cord yet. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Timing the first kiss on the first date.One thing I've learned is that you don't have to kiss a girl on the first date, you just have to make her want you to kiss her. Girls expect you to want to kiss them, so when you don't, they get curious and want to get what they want. On the other hand, a kiss shouldn't necessarily be anything other than a reward. The whole process is to get her to qualify herself to you, because you are a valuable target to her. Essentially, by kissing her before the right time, for any reason other than the fa… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting back into the dating game, had a date with a solid HB9, K-closed, could have F-closed but couldn't pull the trigger.Thank you so much for your responses Willem. I won't ask you too much more. I decided to send her a text this morning, not really a conversation starter, just "good morning. It's a good thing we didn't stay out later. I'm exhausted and think I slept funny." She sent a good response, and I made a joke referencing last night, to which she replied a huge "HAHAHA" and wished me a good day. I didn't want to respond, to leave the ball in my court, but I'm wondering where to go from here. This weekend,… | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 05:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting back into the dating game, had a date with a solid HB9, K-closed, could have F-closed but couldn't pull the trigger.The only thing is that we talked about boundaries in our messages. I feel like it was a signal and a missed opportunity. What do you think of my last paragraph, my plan for going forward? | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 01:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting back into the dating game, had a date with a solid HB9, K-closed, could have F-closed but couldn't pull the trigger.I think there will be another date with her. I'll just need to be forward and ready to go. This isn't a 3rd date kind of thing. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 05:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] #-closed a waitress who was a Russian foreign exchange student. With a question at the end on what to do next.Texted her today. Long story short, she couldn't do it Saturday, so I set it up for next weekend, and got a date for Thursday. :) flirting, negging, and qualifying on her part. I think it went well. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #-closed a waitress who was a Russian foreign exchange student. With a question at the end on what to do next.I told her I was going to shoot her a text, so she'd have my number. So, I texted her before I left. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 08:42 PM |
| 9 | I've been dating two girls for about a month now, and am ready to cut it down to one of them. What's the best way to do that with minimal hurt feelings and collateral damage?You call her up, tell her that you've had a really good time hanging out with her for the past month, but you've given it a lot of thought and it isn't what you want. You're sorry it couldn't work out, but you know what you want and you don't want to waste her time, dragging it on. You hope she can find someone that she can have a mutual connection with soon, and you wish her the best. If she's mad, you understand If she asks why, repeat and rephrase what you said. You don't owe her further expl… | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 08:09 PM |
| 33 | Avoiding interview mode?I've used the line "okay, I can't carry this conversation all by myself. You ask me a question". Usually this will get the banter going back and forth. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Get The Girl to Talk More?"come on, I can't carry this conversation by myself. Ask me something." | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 12:45 AM |
| 8 | The transition from humor to seductioneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 11:44 PM |
| 2 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAYou wouldn't happen to be a doctor, would you? | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Here's an opening message that I've had some pretty good success with for OKC.Well... what would you change (and don't say "all of it")? | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 03:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow-up phone conversation. Perfect execution.Yeah, exactly. That first line was back when I was talking beta and shit to her. You can see a clear difference between the first time I contacted her and this most recent time. I thought that since I had talked about random stuff before agreeing on the date, talking about more random stuff afterwards would be a bit much perhaps? What's a go-to conversation topic that you've had success with that I might be able to use next time with another girl? | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 12:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow-up phone conversation. Perfect execution.I'm gonna fuck her, tbh. That's the goal. In the past, I had always like, went in for the kiss on the date and I've always felt that doing that kinda leads it down towards the road to relationship. I think I'm going to build up the sexual tension and then say "You wanna get outta here?" and take her back to my place. I'll kiss her there. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Why is it considered socially unacceptable to talk to another person in public?LOL. Move to the (US) South. This will change. People will talk to you fuckin' literally everywhere. Maybe you don't feel like chatting, but someone will strike up a conversation with you if you're alone just about anywhere. People are just more social down here, I suppose. It makes day approaches easy, since it's pretty accepted to strike up a light conversation with anyone. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you generate comfort without killing attraction?Love the HIMYM reference. :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 01:05 AM |
| 3 | This should be the #1 mandatory reading for AFCs: why you shouldn't chase women and be a "nice guy"So, I let her know I must've had the wrong idea about us; that I was going to have to go hit the dating pool pretty hard and wouldn't have so much time for her anymore (she protested, of course); and then I faded her out of my life really fast. She started chasing hard, and less than a month after fading her out, she called me up desperate and needing to talk and wondering where I'd been one night and I talked to her for about 20 or 30 minutes, told her she was going to be fine in her job and in… | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How long to wait to call after banging the first time.You don't need to want to start a relationship with a girl in order to call her the next day. The key is to make them think you want to start a relationship, especially if she made it clear that she doesn't usually hook up on the first date. You can call her the next day when you find time (remember, you're a busy guy) and say something like "How's it going, you recover from last night? haha. Well, I hope you had a good time, I know I did. I don't really have time to talk, I just wanted to touch… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | First OkC Date with HB8: How do I greet her?I generally will come out and say "come on in for that first awkward hug!" With a big smile on my face. I find that if you acknowledge it up front, it doesn't make it so awkward. Same thing goes for awkward pauses. If you say "hey, let's try to have an awkward pause" while on the date, you can laugh about it when it really happens. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?Hurt? Dude, that text screams "ha. oh well. no skin off my back" | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?Please please, Tofu. Send it. For all of Seddit, send it. haha. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 01:46 AM |
| 26 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?That's terrible advice. This girl is a self-proclaimed "Alpha Female". You saying "that's okay. I'm here for you (if you wanna fuck is meaningless fluff)". Girls with that kind of mentality who think they're hot shit, they want to be able to make guys that think they're just as Alpha show their "true stripes" that they are just as beta as the rest when it comes to matching up to her. he comes back with "well im glad i didnt wait for the 3rd date to putout ;), nice talking to you" and that says "… | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?"well im glad i didnt wait for the 3rd date to putout ;), nice talking to you" Seriously, please tell me you responded in this way. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 dates in 3 days with same girl. 1st date: great. 2nd date: okay. 3rd date: meh.Thanks man, for responding like this. It's greatly appreciated and you provided some much-needed intuitions. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 01:12 AM |
| 4 | [FR] 3 dates in 3 days with same girl. 1st date: great. 2nd date: okay. 3rd date: meh.That's not very constructive. Care to share your reasons for disapproval and what you'd suggest, in order contribute to a more supportive Seddit? | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 06:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 dates in 3 days with same girl. 1st date: great. 2nd date: okay. 3rd date: meh.Well, there were fireworks the first date, as much as there could be in the second, but logistics really fucked me on the third date. God, I fucking hate movies as dates. So, how do you suggest I go about friend-zoning her? I remember you saying some of your lines you've used before, I just dont remember. :-\ | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 05:54 PM |
| 14 | "Let me know the next time you want to have another glass of wine... or a g-spot orgasm... or both ;)"Yeah, seriously dude. You need to keep up a blog. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 01:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From OKC to text game on two girls at the same time. Directed by M. Night Shyamalan! Hilarity ensues!Yep. I definitely see the transformation. Sadly, it was going really really well with both of them. I suppose I'm still learning. How about suggesting what I should have done? | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Number closed and wants to hang out, but have I missed my chance?You could have invited her and her friends to the party and if the place was really packed, you could take a picture and send it to her showing that the party is jumpin. How about sending her a text asking how her week has been? Instead of being that guy that always just wants to get drunk with her, why not be that guy that shows a little interest and engages in light conversation? You can ask her what her plans are for the weekend and tell her that you'll be going out, but wouldn't mind running… | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 01:31 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when your group is poking fun at you?They do it because you let it get to you. They also see you as being a lesser male, which makes you a target for acts such as this. I know it's tough, but eventually you'll have to just not let it bother you. Easy way of doing this is to agree and amplify. If they talk about you being gay, which they know you're not, agree with an over-the-top response and start humping on them while laughing. Trust me, if they see that it doesn't bother you, that you can roll with the punches, they'll stop team… | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Where do I go to meet girls as a 17 year old senior in high school?The mall, bro. Sets all over the place. You can easily open up 2 or 3-sets, hell, even practice opening 6-sets. I'm not trying to pick up on HS girls when I go to the mall, but that's not to say that I don't notice that they're always fucking there. Go into stores that you know they'll be in that has men's clothing as well. American Eagle, A&F, Express, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 02:38 PM |
| 2 | [X-post] From IAMA. Guy gets FZ'd by female friend after no-sex drunken horniness, then girl proceeds to play Wii topless with him in the room. Help this brotha out, Sedditors!Do you think the people who actively support legalization of marijuana stop their activism because they have those that hate the work they do? They can criticize Seddit all they want. Who cares what they think? Criticizing other subreddits is something normal Redditors do. Seddit isn't immune. We are just more confident that there is an alternative option to going through life as a chump, hoping to be lucky that something comes along instead of going out there and getting it. As such, there are … | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 04:36 PM |
| 36 | What's your favorite and funniest toast to say when buying shots?Why would a dinosaur say that? | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 06:43 PM |
| 12 | What's your favorite and funniest toast to say when buying shots?I really like this first one. :) | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 06:40 PM |
| 5 | On kissing in venueFrom my experience, go for the kiss when you see the green light and then tease her with the chances to kiss you again (like, lean in close, give her the eyes or the close proximity that would indicate that you are going to kiss her), but don't kiss her. Build up the sexual tension and wait until you get somewhere more private and you can let things escalate quickly. A girl isn't going to want to get deep passionate, escalating kissing in public, it's an easy out by saying "we can't, there are p… | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Birthday Field Report #-closepic added | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 07:53 PM |
| 1 | First time [FR]. (Social Proof, Kino, Delayed Gratification and Heavy Bass)I love the grin, dude. Fucking awesome stuff. Now it's time to make her want you. She let you kiss her and you rocked her world with it. Now she's going to think that kissing her again is on the forefront of your mind, so she'll present these opportunities for you to kiss her and then she'll dis you as a way of teasing. You must do the opposite, turn the tables on her. Build up the sexual tension. When she gives you these opportunities, choose not to do anything about it, it will drive her nuts.… | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 12:05 AM |
| 18 | I'm TofuTofu. Ask Me Anything about Japanese girls.I don't think the war has anything to do with it. They've got 3000 years of tradition where the female is practically a servant to the man. The amazing thing about Chinese and Japanese culture is that they respect their tradition and heritage. So, I think you'll find that parents will teach their daughters to be submissive in nature and that society expects them to be a certain way. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 01:38 AM |
| 2 | The fundamental key to success.I have found that as much as I love the trees, it fucks with my focus and my trains of thought. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Magazine giveaway time again! To say thanks to the Seddit community, I'm giving away a free subscription to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS magazine to the first Sedditor to respond to this post* (*meeting requirements).Sent | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Magazine giveaway time again! To say thanks to the Seddit community, I'm giving away a free subscription to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS magazine to the first Sedditor to respond to this post* (*meeting requirements).Sent | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Magazine giveaway time again! To say thanks to the Seddit community, I'm giving away a free subscription to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS magazine to the first Sedditor to respond to this post* (*meeting requirements).He was first, but you read all the requirements. So, officially, YOU WIN! :D (I sent him a mag, too, because I'm a good guy greg) PM me with the mag you want, name and address (both shipping and email) | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Magazine giveaway time again! To say thanks to the Seddit community, I'm giving away a free subscription to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS magazine to the first Sedditor to respond to this post* (*meeting requirements).cough last requirement cough :D | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 03:35 PM |
| 1 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.Yeah, I got a subscription to Esquire for myself. :D As someone described it to me: if GQ is the Saks 5th Avenue of men's magazines, Esquire is the Macy's. You get very similar looks, but you're not paying $500 for a pair of jeans. | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Well, now isn't this interesting. HB9 from previous [FR] texts me out of the blue asking for a date.She's got a job now. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Well, now isn't this interesting. HB9 from previous [FR] texts me out of the blue asking for a date.Well, from what a friend who knows her history has told me, she's DTF 24/7. So... pretty much a sure thing. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 08:51 PM |
| 2 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.HA. Well, if you read on, I go on to say that they were OUT of Fifa 11 and I am now left with almost 2000 points, collecting 140 per week. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 08:50 PM |
| 2 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.http://i.imgur.com/WKmQ5.jpg Sent. Just realized that I should have gone with my first instinct and put your Reddit name instead of "SexyTime", but oh well. haha. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 07:49 PM |
| 2 | As a way of saying "thank you" to the Seddit community, I'm giving away one subscription a week to either ESQUIRE, GQ or DETAILS to the first Sedditor to respond to each weekly post.Pm me with the info I requested and it's yors. :) | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 07:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.well, the whole point was to give her my number. keep in mind I was at work, at the time I wasn't exactly trying to pick her up. what would be a better general follow up text? | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 08:12 PM |
| 3 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.Don't know what you mean... Turn around by AFC game? | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] never limit yourselfthis | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 01:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.Well, she didn't respond at all yesterday, so That's going to be that. | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 01:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.no no. I'm not saying I'm going to text her again today. I know better than that. what I'm saying is that if I don't hear from her today, I'll text her the next time I'm out. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 1Can we get these stickied on the sidebar? | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.I had lunch with my cousin and came to another realization and subsequent lesson learned that when a girl talks about sex in detail and pretty much what this girl did, I should try to swing for the fences and go for the F-close. The worst that could happen is that I get blown out, she gets offended and leaves. Then I'm pretty much right where I started, no worse for wear and I now have a story to tell. I sent her that text around 2:15. It's 6:00 and she hasn't responded yet. So, I'm going to giv… | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.So, "Hi kinky [first][last]. How's those action figures in your toy chest? I hear woody's are all the rage lately" then we'll exchange laughs and pleasantries, and then perhaps I'll go with "I dont know what your plans are for this weekend, but I wouldn't mind running into you" | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.I pretty much offered with my "late night" text. I would have definitely gone to hook up if she indicated that she was down for it. Two things make me skeptical that she would have been down if I had said something like "you wanna get out of here?" She was with one other friend, on a "girls night out". She mentioned that she lived in her parent's guest house, so if she was already home, she lives in a suburb about 40 minutes away. I don't know about being at a bar on a monday. It's not too commo… | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 07:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.When do you think I should send this text to reopen? No, I didn't put my name in her phone. that's what the italics were about. I JUST realized that she said for me to put my info in her phone and I read it wrong. So, she doesn't have my info. Just my number. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Come to a realization that my club/bar game is different than my date game.I think the way she declined - saying "not tonight" - was good. It kinda implies that tonight isn't a good time, but another night might be possible. I couldn't think of anything, that's why I asked my cousin, but he and I came to the understanding of "what's there to lose?" so, I went ahead and sent it. I do like your version better though and I'll keep that in mind on how to form my follow-up texts. Which wouldn't be bad if you threw it in for the next day text (not the initial text but after … | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Boner problem?There's two ways you can play this: Make an honest joke about it, especially one that implies you have a big dong, like "sorry sweetheart, this redwood tree I've got has a mind of it's own", pat her on the leg and tell her to stand up while keeping your hand on her waist and with your other hand, adjust yourself then pull her to sit down again. Act like it's no big deal and you don't notice it, continue to act alpha and if you or she moves and she looks at you, give her a smile and a look and co… | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Reddit, what is your best icebreaker to start a conversation?Wasn't this on the commercial to a movie recently? | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 05:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] HB7 - Heavy teasing during hookup"You're making me go fucking crazy right now... I've gotta stop or I'm going to rip your clothes off!" Then get up and grab a drink of water. | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 05:15 PM |
| 2 | When she asks how old you are...I am amazed, dude. What's your "go-to" for getting through the age barrier? I mean, I can imagine that if you're in a club or bar and you're projecting alpha mentality, girls will still come up to you because they're just curious that a 50-something year old guy was having a good time in the bar. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 02:49 PM |
| 2 | When she asks how old you are...YOU'RE 52?!? I feel so... so... disenchanted. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Tough nut to crack: HB9, responds online and I'm stumped.I think I like this response. It's playful and dog-centric. | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 04:23 PM |
| 1 | get the number, but no response after afterwards?1: never add a girl on facebook unless you are semi-committed to her. Even if she adds you, click "not now" to her friend request. Believe me, you'll remember it's there if you get serious AND it looks like you are never on Facebook which is a DHV. 2. You get a girl's number, you send her a text about 10 minutes after saying something like "it was nice meeting tonight. I'll definitely be in touch". Not only does this give her your number, but it saves you the trouble of ending your first text wi… | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First date F-close. Plowed through LMR.not necessarily. The two girls that I have F-closed in the past week were predominantly text-based chats. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, is it pointless to pursue an LTR from a first date F-close?I'm gonna try that on the next one, Reggie. Get her worked up and tell her that I need to get some rest before work in the morning. I can see this working REALLY well. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, is it pointless to pursue an LTR from a first date F-close?Your assessment could be true. I don't really think she wanted a ONS, since I met her on Match with the mentality that we both were looking for an LTR. I certainly think an F-close is a win. Hell, it almost always leads to more sex, but deep down, I'm a real softie and would really like to get involved in an LTR. I'm just wondering if going for the F-close early is hurting the LTR prospect. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 06:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First date F-close. Plowed through LMR.correct sir. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, is it pointless to pursue an LTR from a first date F-close?I can always count on you, sir. hahah. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 05:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting blown out (k-close)Just be happy that she didn't throw up BEFORE you made out with her, or during. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 04:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First date F-close. Plowed through LMR.This particular is 30 and she does have two kids but they don't live with her. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 04:05 PM |
| 2 | It all came together last night, I can see so much clearer now. [FR]Basically, you've learned the #1 rule of PUA: Just dont give a fuck. lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:26 PM |
| 2 | FR - Is that normal or did I mess up?Nah, you didnt do anything wrong. You opened well, seque'd nicely into other subjects and had a good conversation with her. Did you get her name? If not, the next time you see her, you can act surprised to see her, apologize and tell her you forgot her name. She probably didn't want to be working out in front of you. People are pretty self-conscious at the gym. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women is a little difficult when you stutter, in need for some advice.Honestly, it's all about how you carry yourself. Make a few jokes at your own expense, show her that it doesn't bother you and you can see the funny in your own situation. It's like comedians who make fun of their own appearance. Come up with 2 solid jokes about stuttering and use one of them within the first 5 minutes of conversation, but the delivery has to be mistake free. ;) | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:07 PM |
| -1 | Is using your business card a good way to give to your number to a woman?No. Don't do this. Period. End of Story. Burn after reading. Delete this thread. I wouldn't even use a personal card, like TPUA says he uses. Why would you do this instead of getting her to give you her number and you calling her right then, or handing your phone to her and having her put it in herself? All she has to do is look at it, think to herself if you are worth it, then drop the card on the floor and walk away. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.So, what you're saying is... you approve of how I handled it? | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 07:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??Honestly, I think the worst that can happen in this situation is a lesson in being able to stay calm and cool when being thrown major curveballs, which I obviously didn't in this situation. Like a previous thread I started, life is about tests, lessons and rewards. I was tested, most likely failed (haven't gotten my grade back) and am left with a lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??Well, I certainly hope so, but I'm working in a very short timeframe since she's going to be leaving for two months in two weeks. If I cant set up a date with her for next week, I'm going to write her off completely. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 02:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??I guess it depends on the plans you made with her before she texted you with the change. I would advise against going to hang-out with her friends on a first date - and that might be difficult to get out of if you both hit it off. You end up in a situation where her friends are all shit testing you and if things start to go wrong there is very little you can do about it. That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't want to be thrusted into a situation where I have to validate myself to all her fr… | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 01:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??I think I did very well and here's why. I made it a point that to my, my time is valuable. My time is more valuable than she is to me. I could have chumped up and been all excited to see her regardless of whether or not I was going to get laid, I wasn't going to even try if there wasn't a single chance of it happening, because isn't that what it's all about? So, basically, I told her my time was valuable, so if she wanted to abuse my time, I wasn't going to have any of it DHV. She's not worth it… | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 05:54 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??There. I edited it for you to say that she "tells me" instead of my more hyperbolic expression. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 01:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Biggest fucking curveball I've ever gotten. Need quick response. She tells me she wants to hang out with her friends after our date??Well, of course I like myself enough. If you read my latest FR, I had one date last night that went great, and I have a solid F-close tomorrow night with another girl. I like the serial killer bit. I'll have to remember that. she tells me that she wants to see her friends because they're going to all be leaving in two weeks when they graduate and then she's going to be going to Georgia and Illinois for two months. So, on top of all this shit, now she tells me that she's going to disappear for 8 … | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 01:51 AM |
| 4 | My theory on life and how it applies to the art of seduction. Should be a good read for AFC's.You're in the wrong subreddit if you are looking to sit back, enjoy life and let things come to you. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 06:30 PM |
| 1 | My theory on life and how it applies to the art of seduction. Should be a good read for AFC's.It's my pleasure, sigg. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.Check the new update. I'd like to know your assessment. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 04:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.That four-leaf clover thing was brilliant, I will say. haha. I am impressed with myself. Please feel free to steal it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.Mississippi: Last in everything, including college football. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 08:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.Whatcha think of that text rapport? | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 08:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.No one from my gulf-coast state calls ourselves "Coasties". | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.No. Wtf is a coastie? | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 07:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.BOOYAH! Check the EDIT. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 05:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.yeah, but It'll be sketchy if I dont give Girl 2 a reason why I might have been able to do saturday, told her I might, but now it's for sure that I cant. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.Come on, they're not amazing. lol. I've just had a couple good runs in the past few weeks. If you really wanna know, send me a PM. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 03:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.because it takes me a few to figure things out: So tell girl 2 that my Saturday might be open but I've gotta find out more information, talk to girl 1 about switching to Friday, if she is down, I tell girl 2 that my saturday opened up and we can get together. If girl 1 says "too late. I made plans friday", what do I say to girl 2 to tell her "sorry for getting your hopes up, but I do have plans saturday"? | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 03:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Scheduling question. Have an opportunity to move one date to tonight which frees me up for another date saturday.Why? I live in the south. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 03:10 PM |
| 3 | [Mini-FR] Biggest blowout yet, from a guyI tell ya what, man. I am very impressed with reading your FR's. I know you get blown out and you make a fool of yourself (the women's sunglasses episode), but you're trying and failing hard and that's GREAT! Keep at it man. Eventually, you'll calibrate, find out what works for you and you'll just fall into it being easy. My biggest piece of advice for overcoming AA is to think to yourself every time you want to approach a girl, "will I ever see this girl again? probably not. What's the worst th… | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:54 PM |
| 1 | a bit of a situationRelevent | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:49 PM |
| 3 | I think I want a fuck buddy. How do I get one? (X-post from R/sex).No. dont send him a link. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Loss of interest after F-close? Anyone have this issue?Not necessarily physically feel depleted, but I usually have less sex drive in the following day. Regardless, I like my strategy. By telling this girl Saturday upfront that I'm not going to try to have sex with her certainly sets up for the long-term if the date goes well and will probably be the first time I turn down sex on the first date. lol. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Loss of interest after F-close? Anyone have this issue?I'm actually going to be seeing a girl on Saturday that I might just decline sex. Well, for two reasons: one, I like her as a person and am interested in seeing where it goes and two, I'm probably going to be fucking someone else Sunday and I don't want to feel depleted. haha. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Loss of interest after F-close? Anyone have this issue?Well, I'm glad it's not just me. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 05:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 'It's my birthday,' gameWhat's funny is that I used the birthday thing on my last birthday and scored 3 #-closes and a K-close. Probably one of the best sarging nights I've had. Any time I've ever tried to use the birthday bit afterwards, it's failed. haha. Must be karma, I'm telling you. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Follow-up on FR from a few days ago, need advice"have a nice day" means "Dont text me again" | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 03:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!She has been sick for the past couple days, so there's not a whole lot to update about. We've been keeping in touch every day (with her initiating text conversation) and last night we chatted on the phone for about 10 minutes w/ a good bit of innuendo and playful teasing. I told her that she should consider tonight or friday for that movie date, which she agreed. So, all in all, not really eventful, but I'll update you when something more substantial happens. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Is it really possible to get laid just by stopping women in the street?My day game has become pretty solid. Lately, just about every girl I've talked to during the day has given me her number. I had this cute little waitress yesterday give me her #, even though she had a boyfriend. Now, I know it could have been because she was confident in her relatioship with her boyfriend and wouldn't mind a new friend, but still, girls don't give out their number easily when they're already taken. Especially when they're sober. And at work. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Need a witty comeback for when a girl playfully says "Don't tell me what to do!"I like this one. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Need a witty comeback for when a girl playfully says "Don't tell me what to do!"dont be that guy. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!Oh. Well, you should never "hit on your waitress" without going for the #-close, first of all. If she gives it to you, you need to show that you tip at least 20%, but don't overtip. I was a server for 10 years, so I'll tell you that they can tell when you're overcompensating, or trying to impress. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 04:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!Tip? | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Need a little help. Name me a couple good date flicks. Movies women would enjoy watching.Seriously, dude. Thing is I don't enjoy many movies, so I need some help on what movies I should get. It doesn't give a shit if you like the movie or not. When you go rent the movie with her, you want to tease her on her first movie choice, give her a "come on, really?" kind of face (because it'll usually be a joke choice) on the second and then approve of whatever the third choice is. If you watch the entire movie, you're doing it wrong. You should be K-closing within 20 minutes. One of my favo… | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.I still think you should post a new thread apologizing for questioning my HB-rating skills. lol | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.I'd appreciate a new thread started based on your apology, to which I will repost this picture. ;) | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.http://i.imgur.com/sCIyF.png Because you fucking demanded it and my cousin who was taking the picture, told me that he was only acting like he was playing words with friends on his phone. I cut myself out of the picture and I blocked her eyes for a bit of anonymity. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 02:45 AM |
| 3 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!This shit is old, son. But thanks. :) | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 02:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!Who says it's a casual encounter? Well, the cougar would be casual because I'd never consider actually dating her, but the first girl I'd be open to seeing where it goes. Who knows. I mean, she's very smart, playful, has ambition and is a great fuck. So, we'll see what happens. Until then, I'll continue to sarge on. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | This week in AskSeddit: blanking out mid-conversation, conversation threading, and girls' staresCan we get this one in the AskSeddit sidebar, too? | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 05:53 PM |
| 6 | [FR] My first field report: Got my first K-close and #-close with HB7.In the car she mentioned how she was the only one staying at her place at the moment and felt lonely. Translated: I'm alone in my house and I'm attracted to you enough that I'm inviting you to come back and fuck my brains out. Yeah, that was a clear signal. Bros before hoes Don't say this. Only chumps say this. Any guy worth his weight will understand that you had the opportunity to get it in and they'd forgive you, unless whatever it was you were doing was honestly important. You could have sho… | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 03:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Still working on my AA. No closes. How am I doing?Here's a serious question, so please don't make it awkward. Have you been masturbating? If you have, stop. There was a lot of previous posts about the benefits on AA, your mentality and swagger by not jerking it. I for one, haven't JO'd in over a week and I feel good; lots of energy, much more confidence, definitely in the right mindset. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What are people's opinions on Hank Moody from Californication?I mean, his attitude is where you want to be, but remember that it follows a written script. Things that he says and does and the reactions that he gets from women is not natural. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.Haha. seriously?? You're going to respond on Seddit a "Pics or it didn't happen" reply? What a troll. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 04:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.Thanks man. Appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/glh4p/frupdate_hb9_stripper_and_crawfish_boil_making/c1ofbyn | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit's self-described AFC's: Would you F-close an HB9 stripper if given the opportunity? Yes/No and please explain why.Thanks frogma. I like to think that I'm a pretty good judge of character. There was another stripper that I met at that club a couple months ago that tried to do the fishing-thing where they give your their number to get you back in the club. This HB9 wasn't like that. She's a bit of a ditz, but I can tell she has pretty good character. haha. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 06:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.Thanks for this Rev, after reading your responses from the other thread. I honestly appreciate your input. I was worried about her flaking out on me every time she said she was going to be later and later, but sure enough, she had full intention of spending time with me and my friends even if it meant not being able to go to work, which she needed. Funny enough, she asked me for the $2, I told her 'no' and then she opened up her purse, pulled out her wallet, fished through it and found $2 hersel… | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 05:48 PM |
| 3 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.This. Not all strippers strip because they have daddy issues or can't get a better job or some other excuse. Many of them do it because they're confident with their body and don't have a problem showing it off to strangers for money. Also, not all strippers are down with fucking for money. If she's got a lot of shit going on in her life that keeps her from going out and meeting guys regularly, why should she completely be against meeting a guy where she works? | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 05:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.I appreciate the advice, thank you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 05:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.I didn't give up on learning at all. The fact that I'm here posting this FR to Seddit, allowing other Sedditors to critique and add their input, while engaging in discussions is all a part of the learning process. You see, I can look back and see what I did right and wrong and improve for later. I have on a couple occasions made it clear to her that I'm not some guy that's going to just give her money if she asks for it. Shit, I didn't even tip her at the club, other than the initial $10 I gave … | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.Well, she has expressed true interest in me and although I will always be skeptical until I fuck her, I'm going to assume she's telling the truth. She could very well have bailed on going to the boil - in fact, I forgot to mention that instead of coming to the boil and then going to work afterwards like she originally had planned, she decided not to go into work at all last night. You gotta admit that says at least a little something, but I do realize I'm working for it more than I should. Some … | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.Thanks. :) | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.Again, not trying to date the girl. Blacksunglasses is suggesting that I quit it before hitting it. I have not hit it yet; I'm working on it. I certainly do plan to wrap it up if/when it happens. To your credit, you've been playing the game of seduction a lot longer (and better) than I have. I'm still learning, so ANY F-close for me is a win. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.dude you could fuck the hottest stripper on the planet... she is still a stripper. fucking a stripper is worth 0 points in life. Really? Ask every AFC out there if they had the opportunity to fuck the hottest stripper on a regular basis without having to pay for it, would they and I guarantee you that the vast majority would say "yes". I've been a chump my entire life, going to strip clubs on occasion to enjoy the same fantasy that every patron shares that they are truly interested and wants to … | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:29 PM |
| 6 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.I'm not trying to get in a relationship with her. If I can add a smoking hot stripper to my stable of go-to women to go out with or fuck, it would not only raise my social proof exponentially, but it would raise my personal confidence that I can get HB9's regularly. Strippers have stripper friends and they're usually pretty fucking hot, too. Being surrounded by beautiful women that can entertain my friends, having a beautiful girl to fuck on a semi-regular basis and having social proof of girls … | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR-Update] HB9 Stripper and Crawfish boil. Making progress, breaking barriers.one probem that I'm afraid of is that I'm chump-ing it up a bit. She did express that she really does like me (they say the truth comes out when you're drunk, it comes out even more when you're high), but I know I could be offering a bit more resistance. I am skeptical about her using me to get weed, so whenever she would bring it up I would say "Oh, so it IS all about the weed, huh?" which would instantly send her in defensive mode and validate her intentions. She kept apologizing to me and tel… | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 03:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Cougar and the Stripper. 2 #-closes and 1 k-close.Negative, but nice to know there's an Arby's on Canal. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 03:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Cougar and the Stripper. 2 #-closes and 1 k-close.Dude, having a stripper in your stable is fucking gold. It's SOOO much social proof if you get her to grab some friends and go out. And strippers are catty, which will make my stripper defensive of me. Haha. Of course, this looking waaaay down the line. But she's bringing her sister, who also strips and has fake tits, to the boil. :) | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 04:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Cougar and the Stripper. 2 #-closes and 1 k-close.The hb9, I can definitely have wrapped around my finger if I play my cards right. The cougar, I'm gonna f-close this weekend, very confident. She was obviously there looking to get picked up and I was looking to pick up. The only reason I didn't invite her to come back with us was because we were going to the club. | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 04:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Cougar and the Stripper. 2 #-closes and 1 k-close.I know by the way I described it - leaving out a lot of details - it sounds like she was really fucking good at her job, but she never once mentioned getting me in a VIP room for a dance, and my cousin gave her like half a nug when she left, he offered. I'm a pretty good judge of when a girl is trying to play me, and this was definitely different. That's why I said I wasn't gonna get my hopes up for anything more, but if she comes to the boil tonight, like she reaffirmed multiple times, I'm thin… | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Vegas, Baby, VegasDude, Vegas has the best clubs in the world, everyone there has hotel rooms and everyone thinks about the phrase "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas". Much more willing to put out. | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Spot the Fake Smile. Test how good at reading body language.16/20, only because two of the videos didnt play. | /r/seduction | 26/03/11 03:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A good opener?Oh, I like this one. I'd just suggest you prepare the story ahead of time. haha. | /r/seduction | 26/03/11 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Alright, this is cool and all, but, fuck...The thing is, once you get those routines and techniques down pat, it becomes natural for you to use them. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 05:24 PM |
| 1 | I have a dog park date tomorrow. Any suggestions for fairly public escalation and transition to night game?Surely, you jest. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 05:19 PM |
| 2 | I have a dog park date tomorrow. Any suggestions for fairly public escalation and transition to night game?You dont think that, if I invite her to eat with me at the restaurant down the street, it would be too much to ask her to have drinks with me later, too? | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I have a dog park date tomorrow. Any suggestions for fairly public escalation and transition to night game?I guess I could do the move where you get a hug and then drop your hands down her arm and hold her hands for a second before letting go. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I have a dog park date tomorrow. Any suggestions for fairly public escalation and transition to night game?So, you think I should bring food? I was also thinking about inviting her to go to this place down the street that has outdoor seating so we could bring our dogs after they've been worn out and aren't restless. I'm definitely interested in LTR possibility with this girl, so I'm probably going to be looking to take her out tomorrow night as well... Just looking for suggestions on that too | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How would you seal this deal?If you're going to text her, until now and Sunday would be something to the effect of: "Hey, are you going to the race party Sunday?" Her "yeah, you?" Wait 20 minutes and send "maybe. I dont know yet" and leave it at that. If she responds, go silent. No offense, but she may be dirty dancing with you in front of her friends because she and they would get a kick out of her being seen dirty dancing with a guy much older than she is. More of a spectacle, so to speak. I'm sure she's usually the one t… | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Waitstaff/Cocktail Servers/BartendersYou need to portray that you giving out your number to her really meant very little to you and to do that, you need to disappear for a bit. If you go back in a week after she hasn't called you and ask for her number, it seems rather desperate. Go back in maybe a week or even two. The fact that she asked for your name does say something about her wanting to remember you, so there's a little interest there. If you go back in a week or two, don't conversate with her. Recognize her, be happy to see … | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How would you seal this deal?Ohhhh.... Well, in that case... It may hurt, but I think she may be embarrassed to be seen with you in public "in that way" so-to-speak. I mean, she may be thinking that a 42 year old man taking a 25 year old out on a date might look suspiciously like she's a gold digger or a prostitute, or even being seen as looking like a father taking his daughter out for dinner. I can understand that she would be reserved about going out on a date with you. She's obviously pretty open and flirtatious when sh… | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How would you seal this deal?I think she realizes that you are getting attached, so she's being a bit flakey to keep you from trying to escalate it to a normal relationship. Keep this in mind: a woman who's in her 40's has lived life, most likely has kids and would want to settle down with someone similar in age, experience and income. She doesn't want to settle down with a 25 year old who is just now experiencing life for reasons being that she realizes that you still have a lot of experiences to have, especially with wome… | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Creating a List of things that will keep you in a motivated and sexual state. I need your opinions seddit.Honestly, dude, I haven't masturbated in a week. Sometimes it's tough and you feel a little agitated (read: sexually frustrated), but it puts you in the right state of mind. Your testosterone is flowing more and you definitely want to get the sex more, but eventually it passes and you still continue to benefit from not doing it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Text game. I didn't get the date I wanted, but I think I did some pretty good things. Critiques?You're welcome. haha. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 11:08 PM |
| -1 | New rule, Seddit (Something I just thought of)Forget that, this is golden in the bar/club scene. Just tell them that you had to go to the restroom to rub one out and they swoon immediately. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 02:55 PM |
| 10 | New rule, Seddit (Something I just thought of)Same rule, but replace waking thought with masturbatory fantasy. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:48 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Text game. I didn't get the date I wanted, but I think I did some pretty good things. Critiques?Thanks for this breakdown. Sure it stings, but its a learning experience. Can only get better, right? | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 01:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Text game. I didn't get the date I wanted, but I think I did some pretty good things. Critiques?I dunno, I think if I had left the "bitch" off, it would have seemed "disappointed" as you said. Keeping it in there seems more "cocky funny". I was contemplating removing it, but went with my better judgment and kept it iin. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game. I didn't get the date I wanted, but I think I did some pretty good things. Critiques?Yeah, I was considering ending it after the joke about taking back the "kidding" and just tell her that I'll let her get back to class and I'll talk to her later, but the AFC in me didn't let me. :( | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 08:13 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Text game. I didn't get the date I wanted, but I think I did some pretty good things. Critiques?that doesn't exactly help me without specifics and your suggestions for what I should have done. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with emotional state loss from total blowout? [partial FR]I always love your suggestions, TPA. That agree and amplify is phenomenal! | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 06:33 PM |
| 1 | A nice trick I've been using when girls ask for things.yeah, what you're going to hear mostly is "uh... no". | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 03:27 PM |
| -21 | Quick tip on dealing with White Knights8 upvotes, no comments and posted 40 minutes ago... Did you upvote this yourself with throwaway accounts? | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 03:11 PM |
| 9 | My rules of conversation"that cat is fucking that baby in the mouth" | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Smilies in TextsBitches love smiley faces. No, but seriously... there are only two smileys you should use: ;) and :) AND they should ONLY be used sparingly, when you either tease or say something sexually inferred. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 11:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Exaaaaactly. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Looking for advice on how to pick up stoner girls.Girls are girls. yes, you can adjust small parts of your approach to cater to a stoner, but the general plan is about the same. find something in common with her. if smoking a lil reefer is something you have in common with her, cool and great! however, dont pigeon hole yourself. you have an arsenal of talents and skills(whatever they may be). find which one of your talents happens to be hers as well. the easiest way to find a good one is to ask her lots of questions. be interested . you should … | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Gorgeous Cougar advice needed&appreciatedOf course, man. That's what Seddit is for. :) | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Gorgeous Cougar advice needed&appreciatedDude. "Even though I'm younger I'm very mature"? That's totally qualifying yourself to her and is bad bad bad bad bad. You want them trying to qualify for you. You want them to be trying to convince you that they are good for you, not you telling them that you are good for them. Women want to chase more than be chased. Disqualifying yourself even in the slightest bit makes them wonder why something that they are inherently is not worthy of you. How many older women have you bagged? | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Louisiana, USA | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Oh ok. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.People don't realize that the word "sexy" is pretty powerful when you deliver it properly. There's a huge difference between saying someone is "beautiful" and saying they're "sexy". Sexy implies that they give off a sexual attraction and it has attracted you. I think the whole paragraph is alpha instead of beta. You begin by telling her that she has been on your mind, so she may already have an in if she wants it and being forward enough to tell her that she's sexy and her sex appeal interests y… | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.I dunno, I think doing something extraordinary might come off as a little "try-hard". Like, I had been planning something for a while. I basically just told her that I'd like to spend a wild night partying with her, so I assume that's what we'll end up doing. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Think of the context, I just said that I didnt send the apology. I posted exactly what the conversation was on FB. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Alpha as fuck. Just look at Robbie Williams' face at the end of the video.There is another video on that youtube sidebar of him getting interviewed by this other blonde reporter and he's brilliant in that one, too. Practically makes the woman innundate her knickers. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 11:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Haha. That's a really good point and question. Knowing this girl, she might just expect me to take her along while we rob a convenience store. Haha. I really think a big surprise is that I'm going to be gaming her as hard as I can, since she kinda knows me a little differently. She won't expect it. What would you suggest? | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Gorgeous Cougar advice needed&appreciatedPlease do and try to sneak us a picture as thanks. ;) | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Gorgeous Cougar advice needed&appreciatedIf she's getting plenty, then she half expects every guy to be hitting on her. By disqualifying yourself by default, she will become more interested in you because you're essentially saying that you are attracted to her, but she can't have you. Women want what they can't have. You are challenging her to prove to you that she's not too old for you, that she can still hang with the young kids. They bite, hook, line and tinker every time. Sometimes forward is good. Attractive older women expect to … | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:01 AM |
| 0 | A girl I like just became singleDid ya see who started that thread? | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 04:55 AM |
| 5 | Gorgeous Cougar advice needed&appreciatedDude, fuck your "possible road block". The fact that you've hooked up with her daughter would most likely make her more interested in you. Mothers know everything about their kids, so most likely she knows you did some deed with her daughter. If she's interested in you, it would only be for one reason: to fuck. A 40 year old woman doesn't want a relationship with a 21 year old guy, but she still has a lot of sexual stamina and she's most likely getting a lot less than she was back in the day. A … | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 04:32 AM |
| -3 | A girl I like just became singleRight, 19k users may equate to 3000 active users on Seddit, which is 3x more than Askseddit. Most people don't get upset when people ask questions and are willing to help out anyone. Why do you have to be "that guy" that gets mad and flames a guy who's looking for help? Read this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g2lhk/how_do_we_have_18000_members_in_seddit_but_only/ | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 04:12 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Used the "Facebook Hack" and it worked! Results and future follow up.Just her. I knew she would respond to being forward, so I actually expected this to work. Very stoked that it did. It was maybe 2 days or so before she responded, so I was contemplating sending the "friend hacked my facebook" response. Glad I didn't. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 04:10 AM |
| -2 | A girl I like just became singleDont be one of those guys that flames others for asking questions on Seddit. 19,000 users compared to 1,000. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Submit your seduction gems and comments. Weekly edition!Hahaha. that's awesome. It's kind of a "lets see who can hit the softest, you go first. (light tap). Ok, my turn (BIG PUNCH) Oh, I guess I lose" | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:51 AM |
| -2 | How to start with maintaining eye contactMy brother went to Barcelona for the first time a few years ago and having grown up Puerto Rican, he knew Spanish. As soon as he got to Barce and heard everyone speaking Catalan, he was pissed. haha. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Easy trick to remember your awesome stories."a quick glance before you go out might inspire you!" | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Easy trick to remember your awesome stories."a quick glance before you go out might inspire you!" | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 06:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] So much fail."What are we back in middle school now? (big grin) Tell her to come say hey if she thinks I'm hot" and then just go back to talking to your friends like nothing happened. | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 11:46 AM |
| 3 | HB10 is chasing me...or something.It's basically the disqualifier technique in reverse. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 02:25 PM |
| 32 | HB10 is chasing me...or something.What's funny is that she is making it SUPER easy for you to read her. With each of those texts, she's basically telling you the opposite of what she really means EVERY FREAKING TIME. So, her "bitch game" really is a bit over the top and it is easily detectable. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm an AFC and I'm unsure on how to improve.Get out there and Crash and BURN!!! No, seriously, until you get over the fear of rejection, you'll never build up the confidence to have game. Think about this EVERY TIME you want to approach a girl, "What's the worst thing that could happen? She says 'no'. Sure, I'll probably feel bad, but who gives a fuck? Will I ever see this girl again in my lifetime? Probably not." | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:59 PM |
| 2 | I'm Sick & Fucking Tired Of Not Being Able To Approach Women. Give Me A Task, Anything, To Get Me Moving In The Right Direction. And I Will Do It Tomorrow. I Promise.Turn the music up in your car and smile and wave at people while driving. Doesn't matter who it is, just feel the awkwardness of it melt away each time you smile and wave at someone until eventually you will be in-state and feel so comfortable. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:52 PM |
| -7 | Don't. Fap.Dude, condoms take care of that for me. If you need to double up, do it! | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closeWell, I sent her a text message about 4 hours later asking if her dog liked the knuckle, but she didn't respond. At all. So, I guess I'm just gonna leave this one and chalk it up to gaining experience and confidence. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 11:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closeNo, I didn't say "HB8 Petsmart". haha. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 11:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closeI've got a fenced in back yard that the dogs can run around in (it's not too big) AND I live only a mile from the park, so that's definitely an option to offer to bring her back. I've already got some disqualifiers since I know she's at the local college and I'm 27 with the whole "wow, I am way too old for you" line. If I get there that is. So, you like the idea of me texting her in a couple hours and saying something along the lines of "Did "dog's name" like the chew I picked out for you?" I re… | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closeWhat do you think about the followup idea? I know I can escalate and run better game on her the second time I see her because I will be in state and ready to go | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 07:24 PM |
| -1 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?Not exactly asking all 18,000 people to join AskSeddit and answer all questions. I'd like to see the AS community get to at least the 2,000 range - 2,000 people willing to linger on reddit fielding questions -so that questions get answered quickly. Funny - you can sorta label AskSeddit as the precursor to Relationship_advice. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:33 PM |
| 11 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?Then perhaps those people who flame those who ask questions in Seddit can see this thread and realize that noone is going to go to AskSeddit to get their answers. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:24 PM |
| 6 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?That is, indeed, a very good question. People sometimes get flamed for deliberately asking questions in Seddit. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me analyze this text response and come up with something to say! I'm stumped!hey TPUA, I appreciate you responding, I definitely value your input. Well, there's been an update to fill you in: I sent her a message apologizing that it seems to have upset her and i wanted to rephrase the question, asking her "what makes you, you? Like, if your friends were to describe you and start the sentence "Oh, I love HB9.5! She's a great..." what would they say?" this was her response: again, its the same question and it didnt upset me at all. I just think it's stupid to try to "sell"… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me analyze this text response and come up with something to say! I'm stumped!It's worked in the past through text. So it was calibrated to the positive, unfortunately. It kinda struck a pretty big bump so that lowered it a notch. We'll see how it goes. I went with the "apologize and rephrase" and she hasn't responded yet. So... It's probably done. Lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, help me analyze this text response and come up with something to say! I'm stumped!Ha. You know, you're right. I was reading it over and over and I was thinking to myself "why would she say arrogant and full of yourself" if she wasn't talking directly at me. Eh, oh well. It didn't work out. Lesson learned, right? | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Need a little help/encouragement with text game involving a specific exchange.I think things started to change at "I dont think we would need to roll to let that happen". Basically, she was telling you that she likes you enough to make a bad decision and risk regretting it later. With you saying what you said, you were essentially asking her the question, "would you have sex with me without being on drugs?" and she responded "no. I like you, but being sober would mean making a conscious decision about the implications of having sex with you and I don't know you well enoug… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 03:42 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Sold out for two drinks, disaster on the dance floorI dunno. Walking away when you see shit go down is pretty alpha. That portrays an "I dont give a fuck. this is ruining my night" mentality, whereas you feel responsible for causing the scene because you spun her. That's a beta mentality. Better off just laughing at them both in their face and walking off. ...haha. only joking. | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 02:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] OK-Cupid 5 minute #-close. Like a Boss.always looking for good advice. thanks a lot, E-MO. I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Protip 2: Another subtle but very effective way to project Alpha status and combat AA!go with step one first: Just dont give a fuck. You gotta learn to not care so much about what other people think. Just keep telling yourself that you're probably NEVER going to see this person ever again, so what's the worst that could happen? They say "no"? Even if you smile creepily to people while driving, eventually you'll feel comfortable enough to give a genuine smile. Once you start genuinely smiling at people, you'll start to feel a little bit of euphoria, kinda like you are walking on a… | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting mad AA here at college, RedditJust dont give a fuck what other people think of you. You most likely will never see them again and if you do, they will remember you as that confident guy who approached them in the quad for a breif conversation. Have strong, kindly eye contact. Genuinely smile when they match your gaze. If they return a genuine smile (not the quick smile and look away), stop and say "hi". | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Protip 2: Another subtle but very effective way to project Alpha status and combat AA!Haha. I haven't found a girl that was strong enough to not break the gaze, but I can imagine keeping the gaze while I walk over to talk to her would be a HUGE DHV and IOI. | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I need help with Day Game [xpost with askseddit]I actually find it easier to day-game than night-game. You tend to find yourself in situations often that provide opportunities for brief encounters, e.g., Bookstores (I need help finding a book that interests me, can you help?) Wireless carrier store (I'm looking for a new phone, which one do you suggest?) grocery store (You don't want that, you want this) standing in a long line (I certainly hope you're not doing anything really important because I'm gonna take a loooooooooong time. No, I'm ki… | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Protip: An easy, everyday exercise you can do to combat Approach Anxiety!Social Anxiety -> Approach Anxiety. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Protip: An easy, everyday exercise you can do to combat Approach Anxiety!Funny enough, the day I discovered this, I was in-state all day. So, I'm sitting at a traffic light about 5 cars back, listening to "Hypnotize" by Notorious B.I.G. and I'm sitting there, dancing in the car. I notice these two HB9's pull up in my blind spot to the left, stop, then pull forward. They saw me dancing in the car, started laughing and decided to dance me. I was so care-free, dancing in my car in traffic, I just know I made their day. haha. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 12:57 PM |
| 1 | We should have a weekly discussion accompanied by threads of the week!I picked up a lot of information on online dating and what to do with your profiles. So much so, that deleted my previous AFC profile and completely redid it. For the first time, I got cold approached from an HB7 on PoF who said "OMG! U r so hilarious!!!! Drop me a line if you're interested. ;)" I pretty much copied and pasted the same profile I did from OKC to PoF, used Cajun's tips on online dating in attractionforums.com and they are LOVING it. I got an email close and a number close in the s… | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How to look like a creeper on facebook.Sure, but maybe if that was the FIRST message he would send. A guy posted twice in two days on a girl's FB wall about getting together? That's creepy. | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to look like a creeper on facebook.The worst is when I see a girl post something on her wall like, "Coming to the city for the weekend! Yay!" and some AFC will respond to the status with "Hey girl! Call me, we'll get together for lunch or something." Do you really think she is making a trip to your area with no plans? It's not like she's coming, looking for stuff to do for fun with people she hasn't seen in months. She's already made plans with her girlfriends or her family to go out and have a good time. If you haven't been talk… | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 07:02 AM |
| 1 | My successful, tested online dating tip: Change profile, try againHa. I'm gonna have to try that. | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&ASo, I guess abrupt conversation changes is a lot better than letting the conversation die. I know that sounds fundamental, but sometimes a guy just has gotta be told. haha. I really wanted to know about the smiley faces, though... | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&AHey Nick, thanks a lot for doing this AMA. I would really appreciate it if you would answer a couple questions to help my game out. 1) What are a couple of your go-to phrases to keep the conversation going when you feel the conversation dying? 2) At what point do you stop the neg and push/pull and change gears? Also, what do you usually shift the conversation to, being real or sexual? 3) What are some of your favorite text games to play? 4) Lastly, do bitches really love smiley faces? | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 03:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From OKCupid to sex marathon.What was the subject line? | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 08:45 PM |
| 1 | First date tonight. Post your favorite methods of getting pumped up before going out!My personal favorite pre-night shower songs: Pour Some Sugar On Me & You Give Love a Bad Name The thing about it is that you have to sing it and sing it loud! Get into the song! Play air guitar! If you're shy about singing in your own shower, then there's no hope for you out in the club! | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 02:32 PM |
| 1 | anyone have advice/tips/insights/anecdotes about dating "alpha girls"?Sounds like it's going to be a bit of an effort. You can't let down the Alpha male mentality for a pretty long time. I think if you want this girl, she wants to know that you're in for the long haul and not just gaming her and that you are the Alpha that she desperately needs in her life. Eventually, albeit most likely a long time, she'll let her guards down and allow you to be more yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to not overstay my welcome and also be alpha?Unless you're staying for sex, there's no reason for you to stay at all. The benefit of you being alpha and not giving in to her request is much greater than the risk of you coming off as a beta and giving in, unless you have escalated kino and are close to F-closing. I'd much rather have a girl think that the shit I need to do is much more important than spending time with her. She needs to EARN your time. | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need help. Got a small, cute dog in a dog-friendly bar area. But need moves ....Something something something... makes me look bigger? | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 01:17 PM |
| 7 | [First FR] Enter night AFC, walk out with confidence.The best advice I could give you - and was the topic of another thread - "just don't give a fuck". The odds of you seeing anyone that night again are very low and if you do happen to see them, if you were confident the last time they saw you, they'd be more inclined to open you. If you train yourself to not care, you don't ever get hurt and it actually comes off as being confident. Also, think of it this way: everyone else is living in your world. On an existential level, how do you know that th… | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time approachingCan someone give a brief overview of some important points on this page? It's blocked for me at work. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 03:15 PM |
| 3 | For those of us who don't know how to dirty danceGirls know guys get erections. If they're dirty dancing with you, they want to know that they get you aroused. If she's grinding into your junk, grind her back, throw out some escalated kino and go caveman. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 03:05 PM |
| 2 | The room/apartment (as in, your room/apartment)I think it's sorta become a subconscious thought that if someone is burning incense, they are hiding some other smell. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to ask if the girl has stds before we do it without ruining my game? We should have some general STD information on seddit.But then again, if you automatically pull out a condom, she can also figure that you don't take unneccesary chances when it comes to sex, you are responsible and she can trust you to make good judgements. She doesn't even have to think about the possibility of you accidentally giving her an STD or knocking her up because you consciously pulled out a condom before going that far. There may be a 50/50 chance that she thinks "if he cares he'll ask" or "wtf? you think I'm dirty or something". Wouldn… | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Is there a way to ask if the girl has stds before we do it without ruining my game? We should have some general STD information on seddit.Be on the safe side and just wrap up. You don't have to ask anything. What's the point in asking? Are you trying to get a free pass to bareback-land? Fuck that. Don't take any chances. If you get serious with her, you can ask her later. | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Seddit... I uh... I am definitely an AFCI #closed, but I didn't linger in the coffee shop. I used an excuse to go home. She was maybe a HB6.5 or so. | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:29 PM |
| 1 | A piece of adviceI always tell myself "What's the worst that could happen? She says 'no'." That's it. You're never going to see her again, so why not/ | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Seddit... I uh... I am definitely an AFCnah, a better way is to let her put her name and number in the phone. I will never just take a girls number, unless she writes it down for me. I'll usually just pull out the phone, set up the phone to add a new contact and hand the phone to her. I don't even ask, I just say "here, do this (hand her the phone). We'll talk more later". | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Do You Ever Call Twice?When you get the girl's number in the club, call it immediately. This does two things: She now has your number, so you can give her a hard time if she doesn't immediately save it to her phone. Checks to make sure she gave you a legit number. So, the next time you call, she is 100% sure who is calling her. Some girls won't answer a number they don't recognize. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Seddit... I uh... I am definitely an AFCI had a girl strike up a conversation with me in the Verizon store about two months ago when I was getting a replacement for my phone. Just as I was about to go up to the service desk when I got called, I turned to her and said "stick around. We'll grab a coffee next door after I'm done". I didn't even wait to get a response from her, but sure enough, she waited for me to get done. Lesson learned: like it was mentioned before, any time a girl starts a conversation with you, she's interested. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Need more info on good negs.You know all those times where people have said something that could be taken "the wrong way" or you immediately think of something witty/jerk-like but decide to play it safe? That's what you should say. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Should I not tell them what I do?Here's how you handle that situation. You don't want to have it be a one sentence response, you really want to elaborate on the emotion and decision making you went through to come to the point at which you are now, what you're doing and then what you plan to do in the future. If you're unhappy with what you're doing now, that should be only briefly stated rather than dwelled upon. For example, she asks you "What do you do?", which do you think is a better response? I'm an IT technician with Gee… | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 08:04 PM |
| 9 | How can you tell if you're good looking?"A repeated lie will eventually be perceived as a truth" -Lesson learned from Fox News. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I need your opinions... a stripper got me.TL;DR: If she ever asks you to come back to the club to see her before you get it in (without paying for it), she's scamming you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice on going in for the kiss!the "Do you want to kiss me?" question has to be delivered properly to succeed in what you want to do with it. The Beta way to ask the question is to ask with the intent of getting a yes/no answer. The Alpha way to ask is to infer that you are somewhat-playfully confused about the way she's been acting towards you. Making it sound this way is a bit of a neg because you're kind of implying that she's the "desperate" one, trying to get your approval. Even further, following up with the "I didn't s… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Escalation on coffee datesI like the palm reading thing. One that ALWAYS works for me, is while you're faking your way through the "life line" and "love line" you pick a random, obscure line and start giggling. When she asks why you're laughing you give her this little look of "you're so cute, it's sad" (if that makes sense) and say with a "See this? This is the retard line. You're a retard! Awwwww" and give her a hug. She will always laugh and return the kino, usually playfully pushing you away from the hug. I have yet … | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 06:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gaming Her With TextThat pretty awesome. Seriously I'm gonna have to try that. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 02:38 AM |
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