Hey guys, I'm new here but a longtime lurker on a different account.

About me: I'm 30M, live in the US, and recently single. My longtime GF dumped me last summer. It took awhile to feel ready to date again, but now I'm in full swing. My goal is to find a woman hotter than my ex, who was an 8/10. I've had a few rebounds, but frankly, I want to date another hot chick.

I'm pretty good at online dating... but I live in a smaller college town and have exhausted all the major apps. Plus, I'm hearing that, "online is dead." BUT I LIVE IN A COLLEGE TOWN, IN THE MOUNTAINS, FULL OF BEAUTIFUL FIT WOMEN!

I really wanna up my game. I was into the PUA stuff back in the day and my body language, confidence, fitness, grooming, etc are all good enough and I'm actively working on improving them still.

However, cold approaches are my major weakness. I just can't do 'em! I can close with chicks I meet through friends and online, but I'm missing out of the thousands of hot, sporty chicks that live around me who I actually want to date but only seem to see in public places. Halp! Halp!

Please, I'll take any advice, videos, pdf's, anything you got to crack my approach anxiety.

Day game - is it worth it?

Going clubs/activities - how much luck have you guys had?

AND FINALLY... DANCING

I've had some thoughts about getting into dancing. I really enjoy music videos, for the hot fit chicks and for the dance moves. And then it kinda hit me... being a good dancer or just a male who's willing to dance has a high barrier to entry. Being "gym fit" is easy. Busting out moves at the club is rare and basically peacocking (is that still a vocab word?), plus dancing is fun! I've been working on moves at home and gonna attend the next entry-level class available. Anyone have any experience upping their dance game?

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Thanks everyone!