Hey guys, thought I would share you my approach log so far. I got the idea of making routine logs of my approaches from Sami from Ministry of Attraction, who highly recommends this as a means of monitoring your progress with game. Here I present a simple list of good, bad and improvements I could make in each of my approaches and interactions. Hope you all enjoy the insight.
"Sarah"
Good: low energy and relaxed - low pressure to interact is ideal for closed spaces such as buses and trains.
Bad: asked for her surname when she exited at her stop, leaving her no time to tell.
Improvements: ask for a number next time and ask her which stop gets off at so you have a clear time frame for interaction.
"Mariana"
Good: talking about 4chan memes and shit
Bad: she was autistic as fuck and thereby difficult to socially engage with. Also, not that attractive.
Improvements: don't go and set up dates with fucking robots! Be wary of who you interact with on OkCupid.
"Maier"
Good: quirky and dorky exchange - talked about how she was on her way to the moon and how I'm on my way to the International Space Station.
Bad: earbud was in one ear and music was still going
Improvements: ask for her number before she gets on her bus
"chick waiting in cue outside Gucci with friend"
Good: she played along with the "miggidy mouse" joke"
Bad: she wasn't interested in conversing with you further after the joke and you introduced yourself a bit too early
Improvements: be more weary when approaching people in fixed locations, especially if they are waiting in lengthy cues. Don't make it a habit of frequently or even worse, overusing Owen Tyler's joke.
"Kelly"
Good: relaxed and naturally slow exchange at ease with her when you were waiting with her for her mum to pick her up on street.
Bad: not enough questions and personal investment with her. You also spent a bit too much time interacting with Andrew.
Improvements: start getting more personal and emotionally invested with her. You need do this in an intricate and masterful manner so you don't end up in the friendzone. Learn to master three-way conversations more effectively (same applies to examples below).
"Nina, Jasmine and other blonde German chick"
Good: great lesson and informal boot camp from naturals interacting with them. Great gaming and interaction with them, although you were an underdog in the other three guy's presence. You were relaxed and at ease when meeting Nina and Jasmine.
Bad: you didn't pull at Nina. You didn't sustain eye contact with her. You were a bit fidgety with the grass. You only had a relatively small slice of the gaming puzzle. The girls had a trip next day and therefore couldn't pull trigger.
Improvements: learn to pull more when approaching in groups with wingmen. Invest more in group conversations, we are always underdog in all group conversations - not just gaming. Learn German, French and other languages to game with European girls.
"Samantha and Persian chick"
Good: you proceeded and interacted toward them with ease in a relaxed demeanor. "Those guys dared me to talk to you" is a somewhat good pickup line for this context. You were offered a strawberry which is an indicator of interest.
Bad: Samantha was on the phone. The needed to go and "visit friends" in town.
Improvements: sustain eye contact more and create "extended hand shake".
"Maria"
Good: you complimented her on her hat and talked about how wearing hats is awesome. She was interested in meeting up for date next time, because of the groceries she was carrying back to her place.
Bad: climbing up Queen Street was kind of a nuisance. Your phone was dead and couldn't obtain her mobile! You couldn't search her name up on Facebook.
Improvements: keep your phone charged or even better, buy a portable charger. Try to invest more into them emotionally before pulling the trigger, although this time was circumstantial because of time.
"Emily"
Good: you complimented on her ginger hair; asked whether she was a natural
Bad: she was in a rush with her friends to some restauarant or meet up.
Improvements: we wary of approaching girls in groups
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