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jsrd4/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:25 AM
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Cheers!
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:12 AM
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There is no 'opposite' for every woman. Conceptions of masculinity are defined by societies and cultures and vary according to such. Wearing makeup was considered masculine in 18th century France and sewing was considered masculine in 17th century Scotland. I would say let men decide what is there own verve of masculinity.
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:14 AM
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Caring and emotionally sensitive is part of being human. Remember, masculinity is plural and multifaceted. There is nothing monolithic and static about being a man. Ideas about masculinity in society are influenced by political, social, cultural, religious and economic factors more so than any innate essentialist attributes of manhood (masculinity varies from culture to culture).
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:08 AM
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You have a shitload of things to learn as a 21 year old, trust me. Sex and relationships can be especially daunting and it's easy for the mere thought of such things to unleash insecurity. The only advice I would give you is to cold approach as frequently as you can and keep opening yourself up to new experiences. If you really want to increase the odds of finding yourself in a sexual encounter, my advice would be to join FetLife and follow events in your area and go along to them. Exposing your…
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:02 AM
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This is the issue with pickup coaching (and self-development advice in general). It commodifies and profits on insecurities. Success in sexual relationships is carved out and marketed into a phenomenon that seemingly can only be achieved within the realm of consumer capitalism. Maximizing profits is elementary and helping people is secondary, if tertiary in most pickup coaching. "Invest $$$ in me and you will get hook up weekly and pull threesomes" is enough to arouse insecurity in the majority …
/r/seduction01/04/21 09:40 AM
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I took his Lifestyle Design Academy last year and frankly I think there were better ways to learn to build social circles. I had to drop out because both finances and my timezone were becoming huge issues. I value interactivity in every pedagogical relationship and I wasn't down to either cut into my sleep schedule or watch recorded webinars with none of my input.
/r/seduction01/04/21 09:31 AM
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Thanks for the heads up. The fact that he devotes so much time and effort to flaming coaches and tout himself as the GOAT seducer was alreayd enough to raise a redflag. Critiquing self development coaches in vain of Spencer Cornelia and Coffeezilla is one things but John going as far as to berate a coach's girlfriend's looks (tossing 'busted' as an insult) is another.
/r/seduction01/04/21 09:26 AM
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It's rather bizarre that he has been teaming up with Anthony "Dream" Johnson from 21 Studios is a socially conservative alt-rightist as of recently.
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:52 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction07/02/21 10:48 PM
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Yes and yes.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:29 AM
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I disagree. There are certain women who are open to be approached and certain women who are not open to being approached. Whether or not they want to be approached in public is contingent on what they are doing within a given public space, as well as their receptiveness and social experiences with strangers. Not every woman responds to strangers in the same way. The fact that I have gained some desired outcomes (anecdotally speaking) are a testament to the fact that every woman is different and …
/r/seduction04/03/20 06:53 AM
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This highlights why that unless one genuinely enjoys going to bars and night clubs, there is no point in going out with the sole intention of hooking up. I did this for about three years and this mindset has never worked. There was only literally one occasion that I was able to hook up with a woman from approaching her at a bar - that was because she had intentionally come out alone to meet men, which is a total anomaly (at least within my experience). She told me she was unfamiliar with my city…
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:19 AM
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So far, I have never had any penetrative sex with women I met during the daytime. The vast majority of sex I have had have been at swingers parties and orgies. There have been only a total of 4 instances of me having sex with women I met at a night time venue - 2 were at a local fetish ball, 1 was at a bar/club who later became a friends with benefits and 1 was on the street on my way home from a night out (she actually approached me). I have made out with roughly a total of 18 women who didn't …
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:03 AM
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I don't know anything about the culture in Prague, but context matters a lot in such scenarios. There is no way of knowing whether they had just met or had some prior acquaintance with each other. Either way, it shouldn't imply any generalities about the dating and seduction.
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:43 AM
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Time constraints, short-term stays, lack of interest in sex (by certain women) and undefined relationship boundaries (certain women having a boyfriend or husband) have been major factors. Failure is not an accurate word to use if you're strictly measuring 'success' by the occurrence of penetrative sex.
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:36 AM
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A plethora of dates, a few sexual encounters and a casual relationship.
/r/seduction01/03/20 07:33 PM
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It is not that bars and clubs don’t make me feel comfortable but that I simply have no interest in going out to them nowadays. It is not that I do not go out them at all - I went out to plenty when I was visiting another city I hadn’t visited in years, but I am at a point now after spending 4 years familiarising myself with my city’s nightlife, but I am at a point now that I can frankly affirm to myself that simply constantly going out at night isn’t going to fix the fundamental issue at play - …
/r/seduction29/02/20 05:07 AM
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There seems to be an underlying notion in the pickup community that bars and clubs are some kind of mecca for picking up women, which I don’t agree with. From my experience of actively going out in the past 4 years, daygame is the best avenue for meeting a diverse array of attractive of women, whereas nightgame tends to work best for meeting a specific niche of women.
/r/seduction29/02/20 03:30 AM
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There is a difference between performativity and genuinely having fun. There is no point in going out to clubs and bars if they are not your environment and you are not attracted to the majority of women who go out to such establishments. This whole notion that all attractive women go out to bars and clubs is a flawed one and doesn't account for the roles personal interests, psychology, profession, class, race and ethnicity play in what we define as 'attractive women'. You are the one who determ…
/r/seduction29/02/20 02:17 AM
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Thinking in terms of "leagues" and hierarchies as if they are as natural as sunlight is incredibly naive and laughable. Thinking in such terms is a form of objectification and subconscious 'pedestalization'. Delineating women (or any group of matter) can needlessly hinder one's social intelligence. As soon as I stopped idealizing models and strippers as ideally attractive, my interactions improved exponentially. Why? Because I accept the reality of individual women as humans. Being model or stri…
/r/seduction27/02/20 01:31 PM
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I agree, the pickup business is a consumer cult. Practice and experience matters more than investing in a $2000 bootcamp in the long term. Exposing yourself to different types of women in a variety of social circumstances is the way forward. Learning social intelligence posture, body language and effective verbal communication is something is an easily attainable skill set that doesn't require sinking a shitload of money into. Unless if you are inhibited by clinical psychological disorders/condi…
/r/seduction27/02/20 01:20 PM
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Does it really have to be a dichotomy? Open relationships and polyamory are always an option. Casual and committed relationships should never be thought of as total opposites.
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:53 AM
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What is 'true' masculininity and femininity? There are many masculinities and femininities.
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:42 AM
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'Femininity' and 'masculinity' are fairly arbitrary and relativist constructs. For a religion that is as diverse and fluid as Hinduism, I wouldn't be quick to paint their conceptions within the lens of a Western binary. Especially as part of a culture, where gender fluidity existed.
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:41 AM
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I was invited based on an application I made, after which I prepaid a $NZ105 entry fee.
/r/seduction23/09/19 01:19 PM
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If redistribution is a shared and mutually agreed upon interest of a worker's cooperative and worker run economy, it is not involuntary.
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:37 AM
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Wrong. Capitalism is the private ownership over the means of production. The voluntary exchange of goods and services is a characteristic capitalism, as it can be with democratic socialism, social democracy and anarcho-communism. Capitalism is the involuntary concentration of wealth, while socialism concerns itself with the voluntary redistribution of wealth and ownership over the means of production. The article concerns itself with the ideals of commodity fetishism incels impose on women, whic…
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:13 AM
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I find the notion that partying and so-called status are highly questionable. I go to a university surrounded by a very cosmopolitan city and social status and partying does not have the same connotation with attraction, dating and sex as it might have on the few American university campuses with 'frat houses'.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:29 AM
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Was a part of one for a year. It initially started of with solid meetings and content but then it eventually watered down into generic self-help content, with fewer members showing up to meetings. I left after they invited RSD Derek because (a) I find the dude to be a prick and (b) I found the idea of a pickup group devoted exclusively to RSD content to be pretty pointless and would rather prefer a more generalized pickup forum for my city.
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:05 AM
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It largely depends on how are you using it and why you are using it. If porn is inhibiting you from investing the effort into meeting women (whether through online dating or cold approaching), then yes, cutting back or refraining for a definite period is a step in the right direction. If you are watching it to explore kinks, appreciate it for its production and artistic merits or for the sake of voyeurism, then yes, it is a good thing. However don't fixate on making it your prime source of sexua…
/r/seduction13/07/19 11:58 PM
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If it was a rape fantasy or any kind of S&M roleplay, he would of explicitly stated it for context. BDSM is a virtually non-existent topic in RSD's content (whereas in contrast, it is present in The Natural Lifestyles' content).
/r/seduction13/07/19 11:33 PM
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Ugly is a very subjective term.
/r/seduction13/07/19 11:25 PM
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See below comment.
/r/seduction13/07/19 11:24 PM
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Why would think that is the case? If you are empathetic with women and interact with them like human beings and not as superficial walking stereotypes and objects, your likelihood of attraction increases. If you are using coercion and abuse to get sex out of women, then your likelihood of attraction decreases. Therefore, being aware, confident, vulnerable, honest and showing a sense of boundary are more potent attributes for attracting women than superficially rigid, toxic masculine attributes. …
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:43 AM
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I have had sex at least 40 times and I know damn well that verbal and non-verbal consent makes for a hugely differing experience. It stems from self-awareness and basic empathy and makes sex a mutual activity, rather than a self-absorbed activity. What makes you assume she was into it? How were you exactly they were 100% into it at the time? You also have to bear in mind that women are individuals and therefore experience sex differently. There is no such thing as "normal way to have sex" - that…
/r/seduction03/07/19 01:06 PM
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The fact that he established that he 'hated' the stripper, negates any BDSM roleplay from this context. You just made a claim that all strippers are submissives who 'respect' and 'want' dominant men', which is utter bullshit because strippers are individuals, not stereotypes.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:46 PM
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UPDATE: Two women have made informal complaints about me to the university - both of them anonymous. One of them is a student and the other is not a student. One of them has referred me onto local police. Both of them have accused me of stalking them and taking photos of them in the nearby park adjacent to the university, which as an avid Instagrammer, I certainly have not done since my feed seldom features people. My defense I formulated was that I frequent certain parts of my city (including t…
/r/seduction03/07/19 08:15 AM
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I believe being a feminist/ally and being successful are sexually successful with women are mutually compatible. I have had my own share of sexual experiences with women whilst identifying with the feminist cause and I see no incongruity. James Marshall from The Natural Lifestyles is an excellent case in point. If you are reading body language, empathizing with women, using verbal/non-verbal consent and refrain from believing simplistic, pseudoscientific conceptions of womanhod, you are a femini…
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:50 AM
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How do you know that yes was not coerced? If she turns a no into a yes, then it is highly likely that yes was forced upon her, which what still technically qualifies this as rape. There is no such thing as consenting to things you don't want to do - that is oxymoronic. Consent = a definitive YES. Lack of consent = a definitive NO. The absence of a hard NO and the absence of physical resistance does not necessarily negate this as rape.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:49 AM
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His description hardly fits the mold of a BDSM scenario. Also, spoiler alert: strippers are unique individuals. Being a strippers =/= being a kinkster. Being a stripper =/= being a submissive. Your comment is nothing more than grossly, simplistic and damaging stereotyping of sex workers. ​ Nobody is advocating written contracts between parties having sex in the sex-positive feminism.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:29 AM
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It is definitely rape from his descriptions. No consent was involved when he tossed her on that bed. There is a whole archive of video clips of RSD instructors teaching things that are textbook sexual assault that is currently circulating around. Unfortunately many of the links are getting deleted due to copyright claims.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:21 AM
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It still is rape whether or not he was explicit about it. If she was not in the mood and let him fuck anyway, that is still technically rape.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:15 AM
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It needs to be known among the seduction community (especially considering this video is unlisted).
/r/seduction02/07/19 05:18 AM
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Nope. I have only done some rather innocuous cold approaches. It's probably likely the complaints are from the library because I have done at at least four approaches in there this year.
/r/seduction01/07/19 04:53 AM
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I have been doing some daygame approaches on campus - most of them very infrequently. All them have never involved any physical contact or overtly sexual dialogue.
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:39 AM
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What makes him so compared to every other coach and product?
/r/seduction17/06/19 12:16 AM
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There is no way of really telling if he cloaks himself in animations and anonymity. I'm not really bothered with giving my time of day to anyone who doesn't have actual infield of themself.
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:23 AM
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Every individual women is unique. Not every woman likes being jackhammered and not every woman likes being jackhammered. There is no one-size-fits all sex routine with women. Awareness and presence to a women's needs matter mores than routine technique.
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:09 AM
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It's okay to fumble on things like penetration - sex is not and does not need to be perfect. When your lower expectations and orient your focus to the present, that is when sex becomes fun. Fumbling basic sexual penetration is something I too still experience, even after fucking over 40 women. Every women's physiology different, so at least some degree of fumbling is inevitable. I wouldn't stress about it.
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:06 AM
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Maybe you should better your reading comprehension skills.
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:01 AM
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What did you think you just read?
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:46 AM
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He claims to have built immense wealth.
/r/seduction15/06/19 10:46 AM
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Gyms are not exactly ideal places to be approaching women. The real pressing question should be where else are you meeting women?
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:44 PM
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It's rather weird STD testing seems too benign of a topic for RSD (and other coaching companies for that matter) to bother talking about.
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:51 AM
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If read my post history, it is self-evident that I'm a male user with a long history with this subreddit.
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:06 AM
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Sorry, I conflated higher functioning Asperger's Syndrome with severe autism. Yes I have Asperger's Syndrome, although I am not certain where I precisely sit on that side of the spectrum. I am mixed race (Indian & European) and 5'7" and reasonably attractive by social standards, although I do not resemble the mainstream archetype of a good looking guy. Getting laid at least once a month is the result of having a regular sex partner in my personal circumstance, not seeing new partners with month.…
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:04 AM
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You find out for yourself. Leave your cynicism at the door. Otherwise I'm done with this discussion.
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:21 AM
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It's not a matter of "proving men and women are equal", it's a matter of proving gender as a social construct.
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:19 AM
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Also, this: https://us.sagepub.com/en-us/nam/gender-society/journal200793#description
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:18 AM
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Anne Fausto Sterling is the perfect figure to check out, who is both a specialist in biology and gender studies. http://www.annefaustosterling.com/ https://web.archive.org/web/20150924070249/http://www.pearsonhighered.com/assets/hip/us/hip_us_pearsonhighered/samplechapter/0132448300.pdf https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bo7o2LYATDc
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:14 AM
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Except that we humans are very neuroplastic, diverse and adaptive. This claim is dubious once you factor in social, cultural and economic factors that support the practice of non-monogamy. Once again, you're assuming a heteronormative paradigm and you're falsely construing that pro non-monogamy = anti-monogamy, which it is not. Non-monogamy is a sociosexual orientation analogous to sexual orientations such as heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality etc. And also once again, you're viewing no…
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:52 AM
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If you want to be taken seriously, give me peer reviewed shit. Not articles, listicles, blogs or anything that is highly susceptible to personal bias. That documentary you linked is about the nature vs nurture in gender roles. It does not seek to claim that gender roles are 100% innate.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:46 AM
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I would rather get to know them as individuals, not as monoliths.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:36 AM
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Women's ability to work in STEM is a result of social and economic circumstances, not biology. There is no laudable evidence that proves women are not suited to STEM professions. That article contradicts your claim with the case study of Algeria having more female STEM graduates as a result of economic circumstances. The study is about the statistical phenomenon of gender disparity, not the innate biology and psychology of women's learning abilities.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:33 AM
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Documentaries are not credible sources. They are no less susceptible to bias as the news sources, blogs and vidoes you linked below.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:12 AM
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I am refuting your statement that open relationships are 'sub-optimal male strategy', which you say in an implicitly objective manner, only to contradict yourself by saying it's only optimal for me when it's in my best interests.
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:59 PM
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I get laid at least once a month. I answered your 'BRO DO YOU EVEN LIFT?' meme question.
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:53 PM
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You were essentially using that as an argument against non-monogamy because you assumed that the 1:17 ratio is the default model of non-monogamy which is not true for non-monogamy in contemporary human society involving various people of all genders and sexual orientations. Non-monogamy is a conglomerate, not a uniform relationship model.
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:02 PM
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I did not go to those pizza evenings with the specific intention of getting laid cos spoiler alert: I have a social life outside of seduction. And yes I do. ​ ​ ​
/r/seduction31/12/18 11:49 AM
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No feminist authors to my knowledge ever made such a ludicrous statement. If so, you have either taken the quote out of context or the author you have cited is not a feminist author. ever said such a thing and your reading of feminism is a strawman. Feminism does not argue that men and women are the exact same gender for a generalized perspective. With that being said, it has definitely been scientifically proven that the braitn is a unisex organ and separate female and male brains do not exist.…
/r/seduction31/12/18 11:44 AM
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Polyamory is not a monolithic relationship configuration. Subsets include hierarchical polyamory, egalitarian polyamory and solo polyamory. A couple in an open relationship is an example of hierarchical polyamory, whilst a triad is an example of egalitarian polyamory. It is perfectly possible to combine these too. Solo polyamory is not dating because such as relationships are negotiated to be poly relationships minus the shared life infrastructure and cohabitation which characterizes egalitarian…
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:15 AM
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There is nothing inherently flawed with ethical non-monogamy. Non-monogamous relationships work with the right people with the right mindsets. Certain people are cut out to be in non-monogamous relationships, while others are not
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:10 AM
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We people people on the autism spectrum are not a monolith. It is wise do not make generalizations about a demographic people who have vary from low functioning Aspergers Syndrome (which is me) to higher functioning forms of autism. There is not a lot of nuance in what you're saying, you are just making generalizations. It has been proven extensively that monogamy and marriage is not a naturally occurring phenomenon in our species and it was a byproduct of sedentary farming and urbanization. The…
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:06 AM
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I don't really anticipate on getting married anytime in the near future. Casual non-monogamy and solo polyamory are my end goals from learning cold approach seduction. This could slightly alter as as I reach my late 20s through to my 30s (i.e. I may opt for other variants of polyamory such as polyfidelity), but I'm certain I will steer clear future. I am presuming you are alluding to the topic of divorce settlements in marriages favouring women, which as egregious as it sounds, is a flaw of soci…
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:46 AM
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I don't really believe it's useful and wise to piggyback on archetypes or stereotypes of feminists conjured by the Internet. All of it is a mere caricature of feminism. I have met plenty of feminists in real life, mainly through going to feminist pizza evenings at my university. There is was definitely nothing insular and antagonistic about them towards outsiders. They come from all walks of life and don't necessarily fit the stereotypes and archetypes you have listed. You may find them to be fr…
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:07 AM
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She asked whether I support feminism at some point in the interaction. As mentioned above, it naturally segued from the other topics we were discussing about sexual orientation and physical touch. We only really discussed feminism within the context of relationship/interpersonal dynamics.
/r/seduction30/12/18 11:49 PM
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It was from his Limitless Seducer online course.
/r/seduction30/12/18 11:45 PM
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I believe he means 'cougars' which either can or cannot be MILFs.
/r/seduction10/01/18 11:16 PM
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Thanks man! Night clubs have been a mixed bag for me, on one hand I hate having short sporadic sets and being cockblocked constantly and on the other I just love goofing off in a semi-packed environment.
/r/seduction18/12/17 10:42 PM
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I have been scrolling through Will Freeman's articles and watching his videos as of lately. There is undoubtedly a good deal of value he offers on picking up women in relation to lifestyle. Yet I am pretty skeptical this advice simultaneously since his pickup advice does not extend his experiences beyond Toronto (his home city) and Chiang Mai (his current city). Pick up instructors who have traveled to numerous countries and experienced numerous are obviously far reliable for advice with their s…
/r/seduction17/12/17 07:53 AM
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As mentioned before, I never mention the subject of polyamory on all of my dates. Polyamary is the specific end goal I have in mind and don't believe it's entirely necessary to disclose this on first dates. Generally, I leave the relationship talk until after sex, unless they explicitly bring up the question, which is fine. I state what I am looking for concisely and leave it to them to educate themselves. Different women will respond differently, it's unreasonable to soon that the majority of w…
/r/seduction24/07/17 06:48 AM
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Again, here you are making baseless assumptions and generalisations about women. Different women are open to different relationship configurations and models, regardless of how knowledgeable they are on the subject of ethical non-monogamy. There is no reason to make an outright assumption that all women are ultimately looking for long-term monogamy, which is essentially gender stereotyping. Now, with that being said there is some demographic correlation as to whether a woman is or is not polyfri…
/r/seduction23/07/17 12:54 AM
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Bit of a sweeping generalization you made there. Yes, it's true women (not girls) like to have fun, but that fun can entail a myriad things different individual women. The talk about family deaths wasn't something that was deeply gilded into our conversation and had more of a thematic basis on how we connect with other people. This was something tangential to her boyfriend, which she invoked from the get go of the interaction. I have been polycurious for as long as I have been learning seduction…
/r/seduction21/07/17 07:03 AM
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Polyamory is a state of mind, which does not necessarily entail being in active multiple sexual and romantic relationships. Also polyamory in practice entails a lot more than just mere sexual encounters and partners. I disagree with your salesman analogy. We did conjure up a good deal of personal connection, talking about recent deaths in our families and our shared musical interests in Aphex Twin and Bjork. I am firm believer in being honest and upfront and I don't believe I was giving too much…
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:47 AM
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What was the "shit test" I failed? I believe she was being pretty frank with her intentions and it was inevitable she needed to a respite from sexual activity. My dryspell was a combination of things; juggling daygame, nightgame and online dating, as well as tossing that up with my education and professional pursuits (oh and getting distracted by escorts, which I recently tossed out the window). I'm working on cultivating other leads. The problem I am facing is that I'm not accumulating enough a…
/r/seduction20/07/17 02:13 PM
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I hate using this analogy but daygaming in Auckland to me is like hunting moas or kangaroos. You REALLy have to prowl hard to find gorgeous women.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:18 AM
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I'm an Aucklander and I can attest that it can be shit, more or less. Especially during the winter. It is not bad to daygame all year round, but you really have to dig hard to find gorgeous women. Most of the women I see walking about are average looking yuppies. Most of the one's I find attractive are foreigners, e.g. an Aussie women from Melbourne I approached twice and a Slovakian women I also approached twice and number closed. The majority of gorgeous women I have met have been from oversea…
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:16 AM
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See my above comment.
/r/seduction19/07/17 02:53 AM
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Leave something value offering, such as "woah I just went to this Mexican place and had the best nachos ever! The the chipotle peppers were so hot, they reminded me of that time I was in a Hawaii and ate a delicious chili dog and with some chili fries!". The point is to offer her a sample of your personality and a snippet of your every day life. Asking questions as "what are you doing?" or "how are you?" don't set you apart and force her to invest with little to no insight about you as a person.
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:59 PM
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The Natural Lifestyles are by the best seduction teachers around in my opinion. They are unique because they teach it from a spiritual and holistic speech. You will learn a great deal about meditation and mindfulness which just as fabulously to seduction, dating, sex and relationships as other areas of your life (for me it's performing music as a classical musician).
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:50 PM
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I'm just going to start of by asking whether you consider it necessary to refer to your girlfriend as an "HB8"? I believe in embracing whatever sees you fit, provided you are leading a healthy and active lifestyle. It is okay to be asexual and I don't believe you should feel pressured to fit in the rest of us allosexual folk. Perhaps you are someone is purely aroused by sensations rather than the physical forms and character traits of women. Perhaps you may mutual masturbation, enjoy oral or mam…
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:34 AM
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That really depends on whether the two of them are non-monogamous. That is something you will have negotiate on the next occasion you see her. There is no harm in asking her whether it's okay for you to physically involve yourself with her - being honest and upfront is essential for any kind of non-monogamous relationship.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:24 AM
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Update: I went on with a date with her last night. We connected very thoroughly on a personal level and discussed a great deal about relationships, living circumstances, movies and music. She was especially interested in the subject of polyamory, which cropped up on Facebook when she asked me what I wanted from her (which I responded with a straight up answer of 'I'm exploring and practicing non-monogamy', or solo polyamory to be more precise'. She believe she cheated on her boyfriend because th…
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:08 AM
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Just did it. She was anticipating I would do so, but mentioned she needed time to grieve and recover. It is likely we will be going on a date next week.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:45 AM
1

Once again totally irrelevant. Her credibility doesn't matter as much as the subject matter at hand, which has in fact been highlighted by several other commentators.
/r/seduction03/07/17 01:14 PM
1

Whether or not she is an anti-vaxxer is irrelevant to the subject matter. This video is solely concerned with the everyday usage of language to subordinate or belittle women by patriarchal society. This perhaps, is most inconspicuous and inadvertent examples of sexism that lingers in the seduction/pickup community, with coaches blatantly using it in their learning content and marketing.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:50 AM
2

I'm following her Instagram and going to keep her permanently on the match list. She said she has no plans to come back here in the near future, but I might add her whenever I'm about to head abroad.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:43 AM
2

Roosh is an abominable, loathesome piece of shit who does not the time of day on this subreddit.
/r/seduction27/06/17 09:31 AM
1

Had sex with them before the escorts.
/r/seduction24/06/17 10:51 PM
1

All the sexiest, intelligent and charismatic women I have met are feminists. Amazing personalities, amazing company and amazing sex.
/r/seduction24/06/17 09:49 AM
1

I was spending NZ$80 per head (for 30 minutes). I spent NZ$60 on five of them - which is the cheapest you can go here.
/r/seduction24/06/17 09:31 AM
2

Because there is a lot of false advertising that goes on. A lot of lower end escorts (Asian and non-Asian) post minimal photos with no facial shots on their online adverts. Arranging to meet them is pretty much a game Russian roulette. Another reason why seeing escorts (especially the cheapest ones) is a bad idea
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:09 PM
3

I don't live in the US.
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:20 AM
1

Exactly. But the question I am asking how I unlearn the habit of seeking them over Backpage.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:24 AM
2

I am currently doing Skype coaching with Jacob Prince and on Liam McCrae's Limitless Seducer programme. I'm focusing on the practical aspects of approaching, dating and laying girls Jacob, whereas I'm focusing on the seduction-career-health-life balance with Liam.
/r/seduction22/10/16 07:29 AM
1

No, I don't have her mobile number. I have added her on Facebook but she has yet to accept my friend request. I have not made any plans involving her and me as of meeting her for the first time.
/r/seduction12/08/16 11:26 PM
1

Is it worth the effort attempting converse with her on future occasions? Maybe I haven't build enough rapport with her yet. She also seemed somewhat more receptive when I met her at her work for the 2nd time but then again, she was on her job, and what's more I can vaguely recall her insisting I tip her at some point (which is courtesy in strip clubs). I have decided refrain from 'gaming' or attempting game strippers from now on for this very reason; it seems they have 'altered' or 'morphed' per…
/r/seduction11/08/16 09:10 AM
2

Well done dude! Must of been a frustrating several years for you up until the age you are now. I'm 20 years old and still have yet to lose my v-card. However, I'm witnessing day to day incremental progress and I'm certain I will lose it at some point this year.
/r/seduction04/07/16 07:55 AM
2

What's your question?
/r/seduction30/06/16 07:08 AM
2

20 year old year old here. I have only had one girlfriend when I was 15, who broke up with me because my sex drive was higher than hers. I made out a girl for the first time in 5 years 4 weeks ago and made out a with a girl for the 2nd time last weekend for an extended period of time. I have been studying seduction for approximately 6 months now and my goals have now been established and more clearly defined. I have recently been out of a crisis point where I was contemplating the extent to whic…
/r/seduction30/06/16 07:07 AM
1

Do what I will be doing and go out and approach as per usual, as well as contact other women you've gamed through social circle. I already arranged to meet up with a female friend of mine (who I have seldom seen since the end of last year); here I plan to physically escalate on her and lead her onward into a casual sexual relationship.
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:58 AM
3

Same fantasy as the majority of younger guys including myself have. Experience, maturity, as well as the sexual appeal of youth with age.
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:54 AM
1

Same fantasy as the majority of younger guys including myself have. Experience, maturity, as well as the sexual appeal of youth with age.
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:54 AM
3

Are you independent of outcome when you go up and approach women?
/r/seduction20/06/16 01:06 AM
1

Her you go: cafes, bookstores, libraries, sex shops, malls, parks, squares, chamber music concerts, poetry readings, wine tasting events, dance classes, gyms, furniture stores, restaurants, food expos, comic book conventions, beer festivals, outdoor music festivals, operas, musicals, comedy shows, theatre productions, outdoor markets, fashion shows, piano recitals, book signings, art galleries, museums, sports matches, political rallies.... woopity doo.
/r/seduction18/06/16 05:42 AM
2

Hmm... you are definitely making yourself susceptible to oneitis if you constantly stick around with her too often. Seeing her on two consecutive days is already one day too many if you are interested in establishing an FWB relationship with her. I would recommend seeing her once every week or once every 9 days, that way you have established a clearly defined boundary between casual and serious monogamous relationship. It's important to eschew certain types of behaviour that would constitute tha…
/r/seduction18/06/16 05:35 AM
1

I think the real reason why I found that situation awkward yesterday was because I wasn't actually there to the study - in fact I very seldom need to study in the university's main library. I'm a music student and we have our own self-contained library in the music faculty, which I use periodically for borrowing scores and sheet music, which about all I require as far as library use goes. I don't do much in terms of written work given I study performance and composition and spend most of my 'stu…
/r/seduction13/06/16 11:10 PM
9

Excellent work dude! By the way, what do you mean by you closed her 3 times? Did you fuck her 3 times?
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:35 AM
2

As a concert musician/orch dork, can "classical music" work as background music? My instinct tells me some French Baroque or Impressionist chamber music would work perfectly. Also, what if you don't have your own place and you're living with your parents? I'm 20 years old and this is my current living situation.
/r/seduction04/06/16 11:15 AM
1

From what I have gathered from their videos, those countries seem to foster a great deal sexually open-minded and deviant, adventurous women.
/r/seduction26/05/16 12:02 PM
1

Okay, finally jumped on the rail again and talked to a girl on the bus on the way home. Just asked her some random questions like whether she speaks French and German, whether she is a morning or afternoon person and whether she is the type of person who observes the passage of time. Didn't anticipate anything when she got off at her stop, but it was good exercise in spontaneous conversation. I also approached a girl I knew of in one of the two harpsichord rooms in the music faculty before I lef…
/r/seduction26/05/16 06:43 AM
2

I have heard Central and Eastern Europe are by far one of the best places in the world to pickup girls, if not the very best. The seduction coaching company The Natural Lifestyles host an annual residential in Budapest and the annual tour through Serbia, Bosnia, Croatia, Slovenia, Hungary and Czech Republic.
/r/seduction26/05/16 12:39 AM
1

Yeah, another alternative I'm considering is going out bars only occasions when I'm with friends only and never solo. Presumably I would have a greater likelihood of pulling in a situation where I'm seen with at least two friends as opposed to a creepy dude going solo. In the mean time, I'm aiming to ramp up the amount of day time approaches I'm doing, which has depleted since my mid-semester break.
/r/seduction21/05/16 04:01 AM
1

I only get an opportunity to nightgame once per week, which is always on a Saturday.
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:54 AM
1

I'm the artsy and creative type and I find I'm totally incongruent with a generic nightclub scenario, which is characterised by a mixture of 18-24 year olds and yuppies, accompanied by shitty pop rap music. I'm haven't done ang EDM clubs before, which is something I'm seriously considering. I went to an indie bar that was playing 90s pop music from a set of female DJ's (cleverly titled 'Not All Men') and I had an amazing night dancing with the tiny crowd of hipsters I met outside another indie b…
/r/seduction20/05/16 10:22 PM
1

EDIT: I will amend that number to 9. The last time I went out was last Saturday, which was with friends of mine.
/r/seduction20/05/16 10:13 PM
1

I'm involved in my music student's association - if that counts. I'm also involved in my university's book club and French club.
/r/seduction17/05/16 08:12 AM
1

I'm at the end of my 1st year studying a Bmus in classical performance and I'm already having enough difficulty finding time to daygame, although the written academic workload in classical performance is appalling when compared to say, law or medicine, given that a great deal of time is spent in solitary practice, interspersed with rehearsals and theory classes.
/r/seduction17/05/16 07:47 AM
1

How busy are you with your life? Are you in employment? Do you study full time? Are you career driven? Perhaps these things diverting your attention completely from your sex life to the point where you're utterly neglecting it. I would suggest taking some time and learn to meditate and work on staying present to the moment, you will become less stuck in your head and feel a greater presence in your body.
/r/seduction14/05/16 06:59 AM
1

By correct emotional frame and multiple-relationship paradigm would you say a FWB relationship would be easier to preserve in a context where one has multiple FWBs and perhaps even an open monogamous or polyamorous relationship going simultaneously. My intuition tells me that one is less likely to catch feelings if he is immersed in a state of abundant sexual partners.
/r/seduction11/05/16 08:35 AM
1

How can a FWB relationship be short lived? Surely it's possible to elongate with the right emotional frame and multiple-relationship paradigm for both parties.
/r/seduction11/05/16 08:08 AM
1

Fellow aspie here as well. I have only gained a dozen matches over the past few month, a few of which I haven't matched in a while. I seldom get matches, despite the numerous tweaks I make to my profile periodically.
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:53 AM
1

How do you increase your value?
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:52 AM
1

I don't have any experience with FWBs (let alone sexual and romantic partners - I'm a relative newbie), but I would suggest flirting/dating other girls to inhibit any development of oneitis. Make another FWBs or two, or perhaps develop an open relationship with a girlfriend.
/r/seduction10/05/16 05:04 AM
1

My initial comment was in response to you, not the OP (whom I was going to later offer advice in another comment), if that clarifies any unnecessary confusion.
/r/seduction10/05/16 04:58 AM
1

Dude, you sound pretty callous for an anon taking time out of his day to offer genuine advice to fellow sedittors by calling me a manic douche bag. Perhaps that's your initial impression of me given know zilch about who I am personally, but such a response is something I would expect of a 4chan anon.
/r/seduction10/05/16 03:14 AM
1

There is a famous PUA happens to be aspie and he happens to be Owen Cook/Tyler Durden from RSD. As an aspire myself, I respectfully disagree with your notion that we aspies have to orient our focus more toward social proof and calibration, although paradoxically I'm somewhat in concurrence that I have been learning the game for 5 months and haven't advanced beyond intermediate level (getting an insta-date or k-closing). I have several instances of daygame, where I went out into my city's CBD ove…
/r/seduction10/05/16 12:13 AM
1

I have done cold approach night clubs several times this year, but I have been focusing on social circle game in recent times at uni. I have done a few cold approaches on campus so far, but I'm considering taking this further from today onward. Have you been to any Auckland clubs?
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:09 AM
1

What do you mean by 'uppermost, simplest thoughts'? Last week I was in the mindset of getting things done into my day to day life and using my time as efficiently as possible: practice, reading, changing mobile plans, paying attention to my uni work etc. Can this be a deterrent to game in one way or another?
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:43 PM
1

Wow! You got a makeout. That's pretty impressive for a beginner. I'm 5 months into learning the game and haven't gotten a make out so far.
/r/seduction26/04/16 08:01 AM
1

Are you friends with benefits with her?
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:51 AM
1

Point taken.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:39 AM
1

I wasn't really that concerned about not closing on her tbh. We are friends atm, but I'm anticipating on escalating into a potential friends with benefits relationship with her.
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:55 AM
1

But in this context it was confusing to me, because I assumed her lack of response was due to her preoccupation with last minute study. I sent those text with the intention of setting up a date for that weekend.
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:24 AM
1

That's the only one I could pick up in hindsight, but her lack of response was pretty ambiguous, given the alleged negligence toward her academic studies she told me about.
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:22 AM
1

Hmm... interesting hypothesis. What indicators/hints do you believe I was giving that implied a basis for an LTR? I personally believe it was the external circumstances with her studies and employment (verified as I saw her printing genuine documents in the computer lab) that led to her freaking out about me. Also, how would you sexualize it more, especially in the initial interaction? I had thoughts of walking her back to her place (according to her, she lived on the same street as the bar), bu…
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:53 PM
2

I just had a date with another girl I met at uni (which was a few hours to being confronted with the rejection). She had to leave the meetup early, so I didn't go for any close with her. I also went on a massive nightgame rampage last Saturday night, which was totally killer in spite of the lack of pulls I sought after.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:44 PM
1

I did a massive approach rampage last weekend and I went on a date with a girl from my uni tonight (I just so happened to approach the former girl after a post-concert gathering). This was a mere learning experience that I'm reflecting on for the betterment of my game.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:32 PM
2

And being an aspie, I'm not naturally calibrated to pick up on comforting lies.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:30 PM
1

But what confused the fuck out of me was the whole "I'm studying for tests response" and a week after the supposed tests were over, she would find the time during the mid-semester break.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:25 PM
0

How? I couldn't decipher?
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:15 PM
1

I'm a music major (classical performance) so I don't a considerable amount of written shit - most of my time is occupied with practice and composition.
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:02 AM
1

My concern was up until today being an evil douchebag who infects girls by making out with them.
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:35 PM
1

I have started practicing my instrument again, if that counts.
/r/seduction18/03/16 12:14 AM
1

I have recently inquired about gaming solo vs gaming with wings and it is still something the subject of field testing. I have been out with wings once, but that didn't really make a difference - although to be fair, me being denied entry into one venue because of invalid ID was setback.
/r/seduction15/03/16 05:12 AM
1

I have stopped going out during the daytime solely to daygame because after some repetitive experimentation over my 3 month summer holiday period, I have found that cruising city streets to game is counterproductive and a massive time sink. It's for this very reason that I have chosen to designate my daygaming opportunities on weekdays when I'm out at uni in between or after classes (for the past week, I have done most of my approaches in a park adjacent to the campus in the late afternoon after…
/r/seduction15/03/16 05:00 AM
1

Well that occasion was purely circumstantial, because her friend was passed out so it was inevitable that I wouldn't pull her.
/r/seduction15/03/16 04:44 AM
1

I did that, but most of them were heading to some venue.
/r/seduction04/03/16 06:27 AM
1

Yeah, I'm pretty it was only 10 minutes off my time wasted.
/r/seduction04/03/16 12:25 AM
0

The real practical reason/excuse for why I hadn't been going out nightgaming regularly over summer, despite the fact that I had shitloads of free time on my hands, was because I didn't have any proper form of ID on me. All I had was an expired passport, which worked for three clubs and a strip club for the first time, although there were several venues I couldn't get into, which put me off nightgaming for several weeks. It wasn't until mid January on a Friday night that I got a call from one of …
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:49 PM
1

I didn't receive any messages from her on OkCupid questioning why I left abruptly, which pretty much verified what I mentioned above about her being an anti-social NEET who didn't really give two shits about dating and guys. She pretty much came out to the CBD for the sake of it and it was the first time she had been out of her place for aeons.
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:19 PM
1

She just responded with okay and left without giving much time to respond. Continuing a conversation/interaction with her just seemed pointless to me.
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:14 PM
1

No. I'm from Auckland, New Zealand which is smaller than LA.
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:20 AM
4

It was rather straightforward, given that she admitted to me that she wasn't on OkCupid for flirting, dating, let alone, interacting with people. I basically sat there tapping my fingers on the table for 30 seconds and then I just told her I had enough and left swiftly.
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:19 AM
11

I have been online since October and I haven't had any success. I have been on OkCupid and Tinder since October and joined POF and Blendr last month, as well as a dozen cloned "fuckbuddy" sites, which were anything but useful and populated by less women. I managed to go out on a date with one girl, but I decided to terminate the date 10 minutes into the interaction because she didn't seem all that physically attractive and was incredibly socially awkward (she was pretty much a NEET who stayed ho…
/r/seduction02/03/16 03:33 AM
1

How often to girls swipe right, generally speaking? I have been swiping right for every girl regardless.
/r/seduction28/02/16 04:46 AM
1

Is there any option for other subredditors to review each other's accounts on there?
/r/seduction28/02/16 04:45 AM
1

Have done that, but I have used Tinder as an additional supplement.
/r/seduction28/02/16 04:43 AM
1

Are you Russian?
/r/seduction26/02/16 07:29 PM
1

As a general rule of thumb, the later I reveal my name in a conversation the better the interaction is.
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:03 AM
1

Absolutely crucial in attaining success with women. As a 20 year old virgin, I can relate being a classical musician studying a Bachelor's majoring performance given the significant portion of mine to practice; honing and refining my instrumental skills and manifesting myriad of other musical skills I wish to attain (early music, composition and orchestration). I guess my special fixation on music makes far less susceptible to neediness, although the question of money and uncertainty crops every…
/r/seduction10/02/16 09:38 AM
1

Nope, not in the literal sense.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:35 AM
1

Props to you man! Well done!
/r/seduction07/02/16 03:33 AM
1

I was totally outcome independent, hence the push/pull tactics I employed. I didn't try and get up close and personal with them much and I just focused on matching their wavelengths in energy levels (they seemed to dancing non-stop from the amount of time I can recall going back and fourth, push/pulling, leaving and reentering the club).
/r/seduction07/02/16 02:35 AM
1

I was awkwardly trying to avoid falling into the nice guy mindset, but I paid pretty much as an act of courtesy without much anticipation for a return favour. Either way, money + girls = a no-no.
/r/seduction07/02/16 02:32 AM
2

My sister had told me beforehand that going out alone was a pretty terrible idea. Didn't really take her seriously, but now I have made it a point to be going out with wings from now onward. I went out with friends of mine last weekend who were interested in watching me demonstrate my gaming skills, although they weren't 'wings' in the strictest sense since they had girlfriends, although I did see one of my friends chat up a few strangers and girls he knew of through high school. I eventually lo…
/r/seduction07/02/16 02:20 AM
1

I didn't have one.
/r/seduction05/02/16 11:54 PM
1

Get creative and try large parks with secluded areas, bathrooms, alleyways, abandoned buildings, empty hallways and even your car if you happened to drive (just make sure you're drinking to a minimum). If you're living in NYC, you can check into hourly hotels - a seddittor left a link with a top 10 list of these establishments in NYC. Speaking of parks... how many sedditting NYers have pulled chicks into Central Park out of curiosity? That place must be fucking enormous and extremely secluded du…
/r/seduction05/02/16 10:48 PM
0

Have a great one dude!
/r/seduction05/02/16 10:44 PM
2

There was a stripper I was gaming and was rejected by last weekend. She gave me her first name and surname and I managed to find her Facebook. I have been pretty tempted to add her as of lately.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:10 AM
-2

There was a stripper I was gaming and was rejected by last weekend. She gave me her first name and surname and I managed to find her Facebook. I have been pretty tempted to add her as of lately.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:10 AM
-1

Well... it was a strip club anyway so I was destined to be blown off.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:07 AM
0

Typically I don't mass-approach when daygaming. I average at least two sets for each time I go out into town during the daytime. I try to keep daygaming subordinate to my primary purposes for going out, which may include buying new merchandise, checking out record stores, trying out new guitars at a music store, reading books in parks, photography, visiting art galleries, checking out some public event, eating lunch somewhere. In my past experience so far, I have found going out solely to daygam…
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:44 AM
1

I can relate. I'm a 20 year old in a similar situation for you and most of the women I have approached have been older than me. I have approached a few 18 year olds but I have been reluctantly to approach anymore due to the difference in maturity. I have an 18 year old sister so I have a vivid picture of how 18 year olds behave and interact.
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:56 AM
1

I have Patrick Bateman's opening monologue.
/r/seduction01/02/16 04:37 AM
1

Okay, how do I not understand strip clubs? I understand you go there to pay for lap dances and drinks, but I went there for neither, albeit I paid to enter the venue. I went there solely to sarge the strippers.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:53 AM
1

Okay, thanks for the heads up. Now I'm assured strip clubs will be off my nightgame.
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:57 PM
1

Learning seduction was to me, a natural stepping stone from NoFap. I had been doing sporadic streaks with NoFap since 2013 and they have amounted to nothing but constant relapses, regardless of how many motivational posts and videos I stumble on, and what practical measures I took to prevent myself from watching porn (such as removing my smartphone from my nightstand - which were pretty futile). It then dawned upon me that I was attacking the symptoms rather than the problem. It was on my 20th b…
/r/seduction19/01/16 10:38 PM
1

Midway through reading The Game. I'm anticipating a segment on this.
/r/seduction31/12/15 07:15 AM
1

Well that's great to read. I went to a strip club several weeks ago for the sole purpose of gaming the strippers in the establishment and I wasn't interested in dances at all (to me, it's no different from watching porn or pics of hot chicks on your computer/phone). It was about 1.30 am and the only problem I really ran into was the larger customer to stripper ratio, which meant all the strippers were either with patrons or dealing with other shit. I managed to game the bar girl upstairs, althou…
/r/seduction31/12/15 07:13 AM
1

Picking up strippers is a whole different ball game from picking up girls in clubs and bars.
/r/seduction31/12/15 07:01 AM
2

How the fuck can you afford a grand piano, let alone fit it in a room that has little to no room for a couch?
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:08 AM
2

Exactly. What do you think?
/r/seduction30/12/15 09:56 AM
1

What? No.
/r/seduction30/12/15 09:55 AM
1

Well I aspire to work as a freelance musician as a living, as a performer, session player, composer, arranger and copyist which certainly has a shitload of females in the profession, which is great. The only thing I'm ambivalent about is the fact that work hours are extremely varied and thereby flexible for freelancers, which can be a good and bad thing for calibrating daygame and nightgame to such a lifestyle.
/r/seduction28/12/15 04:48 AM
1

How do you find these "self-limiting beliefs" in any such way? All I'm trying to do is both maximize great results and not attain it at the expense of my other life ambitions and activities.
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:46 AM
1

I find this talk on quantity pretty annoying and cringeworthy. It isn't the numbers which matter, it's the quality of your interactions.
/r/seduction21/12/15 11:27 AM
1

http://aucklandlair.co.nz/Forum/MessageBoard/MessagePost/Feed.aspx
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:34 AM
1

Later?
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:30 PM
1

Definitely. I find it especially helps when you make an entry one day and go back to it a week or so later to review your progress. Although I did lose track with the number of girls I approached when I nightgamed last Saturday. :/
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:19 PM
1

I have daygamed on several occasions in recent weeks and I nightgamed for the first time last Saturday (didn't pull but it was a great experience nevertheless). I have been following your advice and have attempted to integrate daygaming into my daily routines (i.e. going out to take photos of architecture or visiting the library, bookshops, cafes, record stores etc). I have found going out solely to daygame can be pretty frustrating, especially on a typical weekday when not many girls are out an…
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:09 PM
2

Natural Lifestyles, Ministry of Attraction, RSDTodd, RSDTyler, RSDMax, Johnny Berba Coaching, David Tien.
/r/seduction12/12/15 12:02 AM
1

Have you considered joining Auckland Lair? What are you doing atm with your life anon?
/r/seduction10/12/15 09:31 AM
1

How is your game?
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:32 AM
3

Definitely a spambot. If they have a Kik account listed on their Tinder, than it's definitely spam.
/r/seduction09/12/15 04:00 AM
1

Hey bro, how's it going?
/r/seduction07/12/15 10:04 AM
1

Good point. I should really put more effort into making the simple yet bold move of going for the number. Looking back in hindsight, the girls weren't really that attractive to me at the time and I did it purely for the sake of reference experience (I'm a newcomer to game and currently working on attain these).
/r/seduction06/12/15 12:05 AM
2

Escalate in increments. Last night, I made the mistake going for the 'arms around' too early in the interaction on both of the girls I was gaming and both resisted. I thought this was standard fair in gaming and not necessarily an integral element in the intimate sexual escalation.
/r/seduction05/12/15 03:13 PM
2

Great stuff bro! Have fun.
/r/seduction02/12/15 10:44 PM
2

Pro-tip: don't get a gf. Work on inner game and natural game and interact with a whole bunch of women, maybe get them into bed.
/r/seduction29/11/15 11:31 PM
1

Not from Bangalore or India for that matter, but I have been there thrice in my life time so far and I'm half Indian and half white. What is the seduction/pickup scene like in India, given the imperative role of religion, culture and ethnicity in sexual and romantic relationships? There is a huge demographic there from what I heard in a Sasha Daygame and James Marshall video; apparently both of them are heading there next year to do seminars and bootcamps!
/r/seduction29/11/15 10:45 PM
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I use a Samsung Note 3.
/r/seduction29/11/15 04:32 PM
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The biggest mistake for me was not keeping my phone sufficiently charged for a particular approach I did today. I used a shitload of battery power today from listening to music. I'm probably going to keep my twilight screen mode constantly on to ensure I don't blast through the power usage, although I'm suspecting it was certainly the Tinder GPS that churned up a lot of the power. The girl told me her full name so I could look her up on Facebook but apparently I couldn't search her (she told me …
/r/seduction29/11/15 07:24 AM
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Oh, the girls taught us a particular German phrase one of the guys wanted to know. It went some thing like this: "Sie zu meinen Schwanz lutschen wollen."
/r/seduction29/11/15 07:20 AM
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More or less, I have been to the same park twice. Yesterday, I decided to change things up a bit and traverse parts of the CBD where I wouldn't usually traverse. I usually go on walks to my local park and around my neighbourhood on days when I normally don't go into town. The weather has been overcast here lately, I'm going to make it a point to go out on more sunnier days now, despite the advice I have been given from videos insisting one should go out and approach at least one woman daily.
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:01 AM
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I'm 20 years old. I prefer women ages 20-30, mainly redheads and darker hair shades. When I see a women something like a black skirt, with stockings, heels and a white blouse, they have my undivided attention.
/r/seduction19/11/15 09:14 PM
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That's nightgame but I have considered this before.
/r/seduction19/11/15 09:08 PM
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Because none of them are women, let alone my age or attractive.
/r/seduction19/11/15 08:34 AM
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Yeah, I've thought about that before. I was running late to class one time and there was this cute redhead in wearing a blue dress and a black coat who walked up in front of me, who I was immediately considered approaching for about 20 seconds until she made a left turn into the science building, at which point I gave up. My lack of approaching at my university is really a mixture of two things: not enough attractive girls I find (which is really contextual with time of day) and that common anxi…
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:08 AM
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"Rather than going out to approach women, now I mainly focus on living an awesome life and living a life that I am proud of." That sounds pretty vague. Could you define what constitutes an awesome life to you and explain why you don't need to approach women? How do you go about seduction? "And I talk to women as I go about my life naturally." So let me guess... you don't to "daygame"?
/r/seduction03/11/15 07:14 AM
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I don't get it, are you saying that pickup in and of itself is a bad mindset or are you specifically referring to the mindset of "going out to game"? Because if you're against the whole concept of pickup, why the hell are you on this subreddit? Whenever I'm in town or at uni, doing random approaches to women is hardly at the top of my to-do-list and I'm primarily focused on the locations I'm heading to and my affairs in those said locations - which I guess explains the whole "approach anxiety" m…
/r/seduction03/11/15 07:10 AM
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I'm in neither at the moment. I haven't had a gf since I was 15.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:11 AM
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Thanks for replying. I guess my real question is, can casual flirting, relationships, sex and polyamoury obstruct a "serious ambitious career". I guess I have a tendency to observe other people replicate their behaviours and mannerisms in a kind of homogenizing way.
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:48 AM
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