OkCupid

letsgetrandy · 2015-10-02T15:46:30+00:00

Keep your profile lighthearted. Don't get too serious. Any sentence that starts with "I" should be a joke. eg: "Pierce Brosnan was the worst James Bond. Jazz music is my favorite. I can always tell when a movie doesn't use real dinosaurs."
Don't whine, bitch, or complain. Huge turnoff.
Don't do what everyone else is doing... Don't say "laid back" or "easy going", don't talk about sports, getting high, drinking beer, or fishing.
Give people a reason to write to you. Say some off the wall things, maybe a few controversial opinions. They need something to write about.
No shirtless photos. No bathroom selfies. No booze/party photos.
When contacting people, you have just 8 words to get their attention. Women get a lot of messages, and when they look at the list, they see your cover photo and the first 8 words of your message... don't waste it on "hi, how are you?" etc.
Don't answer the stupid questions, like "what is 92394 backward?" It's absolutely meaningless, and it reduces your match percentage with people arbitrarily. If you've already answered stupid questions, go delete them. The only ones that matter are the ones about religion (if that's a deal breaker) and sex. Answer them, mark them as high importance, and start talking to the people whose match percentage is above 85%.
Don't write a giant list of tv shows, movies, bands, and books in the what-you-like section. Nobody wants to read that shit. Just be concise and general: "I like comedies and horrors. Like to read, but not into fiction. Usually listen to jazz and bossa nova, but occasionally dabble in EDM. Anything else you want to know? Ask."
Don't talk about sex. Not in your profile, not in your messages. Everyone wants sex, it's a given. Demonstrate that you have more going on for you than just that.

Title	OkCupid
Author	jsrd4
Upvotes	0
Comments	1
Date	October 2, 2015 1:43 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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