Why is it that there is so much discussion in the seduction community geared towards overcoming self-limiting beliefs, yet external factors affecting one’s ability to successfully date or have sex with a women is seldom talked about?

I am talking about scenarios where for example logistics beyond one’s control, such as friends, crowded environments, alcohol and loud music limit your chances of finding a sex partner for that night. I have been going out at night for the better part of two years and have found in my experience that there are simply too many things working against me. With the vast majority of interactions I have had, meeting strangers is less of a priority than interaction with friends or a social circle. I don’t see how it is realistic to work against this without infringing upon other people’s personal space and leeching value. It seems rather self-entitled to follow or stick around with a group of people because you felt like it.

I personally don’t prefer night clubs for meeting women because of the chaotic social environment. I am not personally into my city’s night life scene so I don’t find it’s worth frequenting night clubs. However I do prefer the relatively quieter social environments of ‘lounge bars’ because of their ‘spaciousness’. I have also been to strip clubs on a few occasions because of their similar attributes to ‘lounge bars’.