Went on a date last Thursday with a German language student. Met at a cafe for coffee and chatted for a good 30 minutes about her psychology studies, movies, music, books and I talked about my musical studies and interests. She seemed rather uniquely curious compared to most other women I have dated, asking me an array of questions on what I think about x, y and z. We also chatted about German cities and places I was planning to visit in Europe.

I decided to show her around my university campus, with the conversation weaving into a similar pattern. She seemed very frenetic, analytical, tired, yet also pretty restless. Finding the appropriate moment to escalate was pretty tedious because there was not one place she was content on staying for a prolonged period. My goal was to take her into a big city park and physically escalate in the forested section of the park and hopefully talk her into moving into the thicket of the forest and fucking on my 'sex blanket'. I have pulled this off a few times before with a Chilean girl earlier this year and a German girl I met over Bumble, albeit there was no full penetrative sex on both occasions. She wasn't really down for this since she had ticked that very same park on her bucket list of Auckland places to visit. I decided to take her to a cemetery further up the road which had a patch of public forest in the gully below, however the thought of hanging out in a cemetery wasn't really palatable to her, so we ended up wandering through and going to yet another park nearby. She decided to go back to her apartment after she we attempted to walk down a grassy slope (it was moderately rainy that day). I was keen to go back to her apartment, however it wasn't ideal since there was minimal physical escalation (I only got around to hugging her in the end).

Any feedback would be much appreciated as always. Please feel free to share any stories and suggestions you have regarding dating and escalating on women who have a very 'frenetic' and 'analytical' predisposition. The screencap here shows her initial message, which in retrospect seems rather peculiar yet is also somewhat stale and doesn't subcommunicate any sexual interest.