- cruising down streets at night looking for places to pick girls up
- come across hipster bar
- they are celebrating their something-th birthday party
- loud hipster band playing
- bunch of hipster kids outside
- approach qt wearing black dress and violet trench coat with glasses and dyed redhead
- open her with compliment on violet trench coat
- is really warm and receptive to me and we make a good conversation
- she allows me to initiate subtle kino on her
- make rapport with her
- ask her whether she writes blogs and poetry since she looks like the type of chick who does that stuff
- play guessing game
- eventually tells me she is a medical student who flunks her lectures
- befriend her friends
- she gives me helium balloon.
- go off down the road to Sal's Pizza
- she buys bread
- she offers me one for a bite and proceeds to eat the whole thing herself
- we go off to bar
- her friends are undecided as to whether to enter because of possible door charge
- eventually go in
- go to bar and buy glass of rose
- all friends dance to 90s hipster tunes in the desolate bar
- she tells us she is leaving because she needs to do shit the following morning
- we obtain each other's numbers
- hug and kiss good night
- text her 15 minutes after she leaves bar
- no response
- okay she must be asleep
- text her two days later
- no response
- text her another two days later
- still no response
- text another two days later
- no response at all
- call her up
- tells me she is busy studying for tests because of the flunking classes she told me about
- >give her a break
- go to computer lab at uni the following Monday
- see her at computer
- see her printing of resumes and shit
- tells me she is still busy with job applications and study, although it's mid semester break
- send her a text two days explicitly telling her that if she is not interested in seeing me, she should respond to this text and say so and I will fuck off forever
- no response
- see her in public square downtown after meetup with friends after a symphony concert
- approach her
- say "hey anon"
- "omg just leave me alone/fuck off!!"
- lady jogging/working out asks her if everything is alright
- decided to fuck off for the time being
- walk up street
- see her at bus stop on the next street 50m from the intersection
- walk up to her and keep a distance
- asks me whether I can read signals after sending six texts and getting no response
- told her she gave me no signals whatsoever
- asks me whether I'm on the autism spectrum
- tell her I genuinely am
- make it clear to her that I'm not here to fuck with her and I only want to clarify shit up
- doesn't respond at all
- tell her whether she wants me to fuck off
- assume the worst and fuck off for eternity
I have been learning the game for 5 months already and I have done various stints of daygame and nightgame, both resulting in unsuccessful pulls, although I have begun doing more of the latter in recent times (I didn't have any proper ID up until two months ago). I have developed a sound knowledge of what constitutes needy behaviour from all the RSD videos I have watched, however this was one particular scenario where I was inadvertently and needlessly displaying needy behaviour that resulted from sheer utter confusion. I was given a lot of IOIs in the initial interaction which later confused the fuck out of me when she wasn't responding to my texts. I interpreted the lack of responses as her being preoccupied with her catching up on studies and studying toward tests, however this learning experience has prompted me to develop better resilience toward flaky texts -regardless of how many IOIs and how receptive a girl is to me in an initial interaction. What genuine feedback can you anons give me, in regards to this episode and dealing with ambiguity, communication and flakiness? I suspect that she getting wound up at me on the street tonight was not merely a case of me being dick/stalker/creep/douche, rather her work/study circumstances, but alas she may be using that as as a euphemistic form of rejection.
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