Approaching at the Gym

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-05-30T04:16:58+00:00

Gyms are dangerous hunting grounds. It's a sexual harassment charge waiting to happen.

I'd wave them over if they're giving you choosing signals. Just too much risk at a gym as a man.

Indirect approach is best at a gym setting. She comes to you, too much risk otherwise

quinnmcd · 2019-05-30T04:41:21+00:00

“Don’t shit where you eat” it’s not good to approach women at the gym, because like you said there’s a good chance you’ll see them again.

If you do want to approach a technique that was recommended to me as a more “college approach.” Start off by saying hi or smiling as you pass by and every time you see them start making light conversation. You’ll slowly get to know them and will able to get their number. As always it’s important to make eye contact, show some interests and look for IOIs. It worked for me with some of cute girls that worked at the desk at my old gym.

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-05-30T05:36:30+00:00

So, the general rule about headphones is, it's womens non-verbal attempt at saying "FUCK OFF".

If a girl at the gym wants to talk, she will make it a point to be in your proximity, with her headphones even "temporarily" off her ears, while she glances at you.

As far as women glued to their phone, my experience is that women like this are the ones that don't take the gym seriously anyway. They're at the gym because it's a social event. Approaching one of them is a pig-in-a-poke.

alchamest · 2019-05-30T06:05:39+00:00

Its tempting at the gym to date i have not hit on people at my gym, However I chat to everyone there, guys,girls, young, old, hot, not.

Its a fun place just to have a laugh and some light fluffy conversation. Talk to everyone then it wont seem weird when you say hi to her or act social.

Bills811 · 2019-05-30T06:19:04+00:00

Definitely stay away, they’re just trying to work out. They’ll check you out, you’ll check them out, but anything more isn’t really ideal unless they come up to you like others have said.

tomgjo · 2019-05-30T06:47:33+00:00

Just stand by the weight or treadmill she’s on, and critique her on how she could be doing better 😂😂

Title	Approaching at the Gym
Author	Reaver4k
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	May 30, 2019 4:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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