Approaching in the gym.

hunterpua · 2018-12-19T17:14:23+00:00

I personally never do that because I really focus when I work out but I've helped out others who have successfully gotten girls from the gym.

My advice for a gym is to be more socially intelligent about it.

Does it ever occur to you why you're supposed to get a girl's number within a few minutes of meeting her and having a conversation on the street?

And I don't mean what it says about your personality or whether it shows you to be alpha or not. I mean do you know the practical purpose of doing that?

The practical purpose of approaching a girl you're attracted to on the street and getting her number or even attempting an instant date is that if you don't do that, you'll likely never see her again and never get another shot.

That shit just doesn't apply in the gym because a gym is a place that people come back to over and over.

In fact, I would argue that if you try to get a girl's number or ask her out on a date the first time you meet her in the gym its very needy.

Think about it, you take a chunk of time off of your workout or move your workout late a few minutes which essentially shifts your entire schedule for that day just to hit on some sexy stranger?

Not only that but you're likely to see her again in the same place on a different day and she knows this! So its really weird for you to behave like theres no tomorrow during your first conversation with her.

If you want to get girls in the gym then learn to actually flirt, don't just make small talk, don't just throw out random jokes, learn how to build attraction with a girl without showing intent or confessing your attraction towards her.

Learn how to push-pull, tease, qualify, roleplay, all that good stuff and when you see a girl you like in the gym have a couple of minutes where you flirt and build her attraction for you but then get on with your workout.

Do that over a few days of bumping into each other at the gym then when you guys already have a damn good connection built up, that's when you ask her out and by then the date would almost feel like a formality or just an excuse to make her feel less dirty when she sleeps with you at the end of it.

I would liken gym seduction to college seduction or workplace seduction, in those settings I do have personal experience and in the majority of cases I didn't need a date to build attraction, I didn't really even ask the girls on a date, I just said, "Hey lets go some place after class/work" and almost always that 'some place' is my place and we just end up having sex.

A gym scenario is awesome if you actually know game because you can make all your moves there over the course of a few days. You can even physically escalate under the guise of spotting, teaching her something, or stretching her out so you'll make going on a date completely useless and by the time you guys do go somewhere together that's not your gym its likely going to be your place or her's so you guys can have sex.

Me and my friends have a saying that goes like, "If a girl is forced to spend time with you then even if she starts off hating you, its guaranteed that you'll end up having sex with her."

That's all you need to get a girl, have game and spend enough time with her to use that game to seduce her.

Don't get mislead by ceremony or tradition. The date is not where you make something happen with a girl, anywhere and any time you are interacting with each other as human beings is when you make something happen.

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Dajano · 2018-12-19T20:51:12+00:00

I Just approached a good Looking indian girl and #-closed her. She was looking wierdly at one lat pull machine, while I was stretching out nearby.

I finished my stretching and approached her and asked her, that I could easily tell her how to use it, so she wouldn't look at it like, it was a state of the art invention anymore

We then exercised and had a short conversation, with slight tease, conveying personality and such. At the end, I asked her, if she just had arrived, she said no, and it was actually her last exercise and she had to go, I then went for the close

Shortly i saw another dude closing another girl haha

This was not my local gym though.

ozamotazbuckshank · 2018-12-19T16:55:07+00:00

Unless she gives a clear indication that she is open to it, don't do it.

dalecooper56 · 2018-12-19T18:26:56+00:00

Just approach her and do some game. Fuck the over-complicated or negative opinions expressed by the other comments.

LBWoor27 · 2018-12-19T18:08:16+00:00

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Title	Approaching in the gym.
Author	heres_johnnie
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 19, 2018 4:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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