Attention is the only tool modern men have

omargrunt · 2018-01-12T02:55:11+00:00

We also have direction and guidance.

ALargePianist · 2018-01-12T06:15:13+00:00

Been thinking this for the last few weeks. Attention is powerful, especially in today's world saturated with cool shit to do and look at. It's part of what is creating this "attractiveness wage gap". Attractive people get more attention, and so they feel encouraged and also ported doing things hat will make them more attractive, while unattractive people don't get attention and are left to their own devices to cope.

I've taken extreme note of the power my attention has, but often find myself giving it to the person who "needs", or as I can tell from the amount of destructive habits they appear to have, it more. Hell, sometimes when giving attention to someone I want, someone who clearly wants attention will do whatever shit power play to make the focus on them. It's nauseating, but I don't know how to politely refuse them what they need, when attention is free. It's just so damn limited

Title	Attention is the only tool modern men have
Author	Denver_Luv3
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	January 12, 2018 1:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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