I really like this thought (excuse me for not accurately describing it in my own words): seduction can be seen as a game, in which you should try to draw her to you / make her be attracted to you. This is i.a. achieved by playful teasing and joking in short intervals, quickly succeeded by moving away from her so that she wants more.

So you should restrict your own expression of being attracted to her, so that the tension of the game will be kept alive. However, I feel that this can lead to some tricky situations: as a result of not expressing your feelings for her, the girl will! The girl gives you her number (instead of YOU asking for it), later she says that instead of texting you can also call her (instead of YOU), later she proposes to meet eachother (instead of YOU) etc.

I see this as an unfortunate situation.

If this happens, I would feel that she is kind of leading the relationship. As a result I would feel powerless to also make a move, being afraid that she now has the power to say no, making it awkward because I have become just a weak man who doesn't take action.

What are your thoughts on this? Thank you!