Average -> Hot?

STD_Tyler · 2020-06-01T05:00:47+00:00

Inner game matters A LOT. If you are confident you have less approach anxiety, you are not nervous while talking to girls, you feel you are the price (not fake feelings), you talk to them like a boss, and they feel that 100%. And yes a strong inner game and confidence can start by looking good and dressing good. You can't keep talking to yourself positively and suddenly walk in the street like Justin Beiber.

2020-06-01T07:06:48+00:00

Girls dont like unsecure men.. more secure of yourself more chances you have to hit the jackpot! Work on your personality as well..

relentless_pma · 2020-06-01T07:52:05+00:00

I dont know how long you have been active here, but I would start reading a lot of threads. (that is what I am doing). There is a lot of valuable in this subreddit and chances are there is not 1 thing that needs to be improved but multiple things (could be both outer game and inner game). When you start reading other threads you will find questions and answers who also fit your personal situation.

Do you have any idea why you feel more insecure then a few years ago (because you say you look more attractive then you did in the past).

Mainly because I can’t make friends my age. Anything I could do to improve?

Do you have friends? Or do you mean making new friends? Otherwise this would also be a good goal to focus on just because it is nice to have friends in life.

ernst_starvo_blofeld · 2020-06-01T14:47:59+00:00

How much improvement can you do? If you take it too far you can start with surgeries and other extreme measures. If you can't meet girls at this point, maybe there is something mental and not physical.

I think she has to be attracted you somewhat. I don't think you could magically make someone like you.

I think the confidence thing is to keep trying and getting rejected. You may not want to cold approach but you need a good social circle.

If it bothers you in any way, rejection, or whatnot, you aren't confident. If you approach a girl you have to truly feel you are extremely valuable and it is her loss if she rejects you. Lamborghini don't feel bad if people can't afford their cars.

Theory and practice are two different things though.

quinnmcd · 2020-06-01T16:33:47+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Title	Average -> Hot?
Author	habbyshouse
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	June 1, 2020 4:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gue2ca/average_hot/
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