You ever have one of those bad nights out where nothing goes your way?

You get AMOG'd, cock blocked and rejected left and right.

Everyone else seems to be having more fun than you.

You are blaming everyone for your short comings.

Stop. Blame yourself.

By looking at yourself and seeing what you are doing wrong, you can turn that shortcoming into an opportunity for growth. The only way to do this is to stop blaming people for your problems, and own them yourself.