Baggage

Blackhawk2479 · 2017-01-13T17:51:56+00:00

You shouldn't be seeking a relationship - invariably you will make poor choices so soon after an LTR, so don't try.

Instead, concentrate on having fun, putting yourself first, self-improvement, hobbies etc and let everything else happen organically. Don't go looking for anything serious until you've left the baggage behind.

t1mman · 2017-01-13T19:31:59+00:00

You can look at it as a “baggage”, that you have to carry, that slows you down and shit

Or

You can look at it as “experience”, that you tried things out, they didn’t work but you grew from it.

jongtu · 2017-01-13T18:42:45+00:00

Hey mate.

I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and got onto Tinder right away. Im pretty upfront with most girls on it. When they inquire what I am doing I just tell them I am out if a long term relationship and not looking for anything in particular but if something happens then sonething happens. Most girls appreciate honesty and from what I have found is a lot of women on it are inthe same situation.

As to your other question. Yeah mate. There's no harm in starting a relationship with people you know already and get along well with at the places you go. However I wouldn't approach people there will the sole intention of finding someone.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-01-13T19:05:29+00:00

I prefer to be honest and be upfront about how recent I am out of a relationship which is basically telling the other person I have baggage.

Here's the thing. It is none of their business about how you just got out of a relationship. Not for a stranger.

You're doing that for yourself. Maybe because you're insecure about it. I don't know.

But you have to handle this shit yourself. It's not for anyone else to help with.

Dumping it on random strangers is selfish.

Title	Baggage
Author	Zappadu
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 13, 2017 5:43 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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