Hi folks

Hit a bit of a low point recently. I've been trying to better myself, but my confidence is low and I'm struggling with approach anxiety. I've recently noticed my hair thinning and balding quite a bit and on friday night a girl I was talking basically said 'I wouldn't want your thinning and balding hair'. She's the first person to ever mention my hair and it really messed me up at the time. It's particularly bad for me because my head is weirdly shaped, my hair hides this, so essentially with hair I'm pretty decent looking, without hair I'm pretty ugly.

I don't really have a question, I'm just wondering has anyone been in a similar position, what kind of mindset should I adopt here to pull me through? I know looks aren't everything, but even with hair I haven't been with anyone in over 2 years, now I'm faced with the prospect of losing it and I'm just thinking 'holy crap, my sex life is over'.