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3	I experienced what it's like to be a very attractive male. Or as I like to call it- My tinder experiment with a red pill twist. Read Daring Greatly by Brene Brown. All about how to grow emotional courage. I'd also recommend Mark Manson's models for a simillarly modeled approach that's centered on women, but Daring Greatly is a pre-req to Models.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 02:59 AM
10	I experienced what it's like to be a very attractive male. Or as I like to call it- My tinder experiment with a red pill twist. Is she post-wall and do you have a solid stable income? If so, that's why it worked.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 02:57 AM
1	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. Wasn't talking down. Trying to offer advice to a brother who is going down a dangerous path. Relationships aren't fulfilling because of the sex. You can get sex from a hooker. Relationships are fulfilling because of the connection you make with another person.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 06:56 PM
5	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. I am always open and honest with the women in my life. I rarely walk up to women and say things like "I want to fuck you" because that is overt communication. That's not how women communicate. They communicate with emotions and sub-communication. When I approach a women I am clear with my intentions. She knows that I am there to get in her pants. I know she knows. There is no need to say so overtly. She respects this. You should examine why you believe why you can't be honest with women. If it's…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 06:33 PM
2	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. They are also of much higher risk to do crazy shit in the name of getting married / having children. Dread game only increases that risk. It works if you are an economically unviable mate (or much younger than they are), but if you have any kind of success it's very risky. You attract what you are. If you are manipulative, so will be your lovers.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 04:45 PM
13	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. Depends on what you mean by game. What there needs to be more of is how to establish a consistent, attractive frame. Pickup techniques/routines have no place in TRP. Edit: I also loathe talk like 'getting the upper hand'. That's the absolute worst mindset to have. If you play games with women, you will only attract women who play games. This will lead to disastrous relationships time and time again. If you are open and honest with yourself and your intentions, you will attract open and honest wo…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 04:41 PM
7	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. But why would you? It's not worth your time. Go find someone you legitimately enjoy instead of playing a game with an older woman. Unless you get off on manipulating people. That's just your thing then.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 02:37 AM
7	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. Beta shaming has been around for thousands of years. You can't have a social hierarchy without the bottom wrung being shamed. If the beta improves, the requirements to be alpha will be that much higher. It will always be the top 20%	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 02:36 AM
81	She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring. Thank you. There's is far too much focus on women in this sub. The focus should be on what we can do about it. Yes. Life is unfair. We are the disposable gender. GET OVER IT. Go do something productive with your time instead of complaining. edit: concern trolling blah blah I know. Point stands. Do something with your life.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 02:32 AM
1	Internet, social networks, smartphones are A TICKING BOMB and largely created the 'disposable male' No. Post modernism is the idea that we can't know for certain what morals are right and wrong. Everything is subjective. It was a revolt against the black/white ideals of the modernist 50s (50s-ish) The word you are looking for is nihilist. What I am is a Buddhist. There's no meaning, but that's doesn't make life any less wonderful or amazing. Life just is.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 07:47 PM
0	Internet, social networks, smartphones are A TICKING BOMB and largely created the 'disposable male' Nobody starts with inherent value. That would require that life had meaning.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 05:28 PM
-1	Internet, social networks, smartphones are A TICKING BOMB and largely created the 'disposable male' Were disposable because they only need our semen. Men have been disposable since the beginning of our species.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 03:53 AM
1	Only be kind to people who appreciate kindness. You're bundling all relationships into the same pile and that's a flawed idea. Male/Male and Male/Female friendships DO work on the same underlying principles. Male/Male and Male/Female sexual relationships DO work on the same basic underlying principles of attraction and seduction. Also, you also realize your "TL;DR: Don't be kind to women" is exactly why this sub gets a bad misogynist rap right? I get what you are saying dude but, cmon. Think before you type.	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/14 02:57 PM
3	Men are the romantic sex Your description of 'men' and women in relationship is spot on. However the 'man' you describe is not a man, he's a boy. A man: Sets boundaries Puts himself first Self-Validaties Is Courageous Is Honorable. Then 'men' you describe sound nothing like that. But he’ll put up with anything for his woman, and put up with anything from his woman. He’ll fight for her, he’ll change for her, he’ll work for her, he’ll do anything she wants, because he loves her and wants her to be happy needs her to valid…	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/14 04:52 AM
3	McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened. One, let go of the anger. Maintain frame. Two, use the opportunity to set boundaries. Tell her that her actions are unacceptable. If she does it again, deliberately crossing boundaries you have set, next her. I disagree with drrrr as there's no reason to next a girl who may think that's acceptable behavior. Especially if this is a new relationship and this is how she's acted with BFs in the past. You have to teach them .If she knows is unacceptable and does it anyway, she doesn't respect you and…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/14 03:48 PM
5	As a beta, should I fuck fatties, single moms, post-wall women, divorced women, and ugly 4-6 butterface women to keep the ole penis in action? This is the best way to do it. IMO. Just never settle. Only accept someone who is up to your standards. Then constantly raise your standards.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/14 03:56 PM
4	As a beta, should I fuck fatties, single moms, post-wall women, divorced women, and ugly 4-6 butterface women to keep the ole penis in action? I was in the same spot. Some advice: There are plenty of single, childless, post wall women who are sexy smart and fun and will fuck you. However... If you get too close you will get burned. They will dump you after they have used you for sex. Post-Wall women have had their share of alphas and are looking for providers. You cannot provide. DO NOT GET ATTACHED Spin lotsa plates, have fun, don't fall in love. There are lots of amazing post-wall women out there. Don't bother with single moms though…	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/14 03:53 PM
2	How to Black Knight I think you are the one who needs to look up the definition of suffering. My use is correct.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/14 11:37 PM
3	How to Black Knight Has nothing to do with societies expectation of you. If you continue on the path of self-improvement you will come to a point where amusement or advancement at the expense of others will no longer satisfy you. There are deep seated reasons for that and you'll have to find your personal philosophy / spirituality that answers them. Start looking inward for answers, instead of outward for validation (you are trying to get reactions out of women. It's an adverse form of female attention seeking) Bei…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/14 07:56 PM
5	How to Black Knight Taking enjoyment in other people's suffering is pathetic, no matter their gender. Be a better man.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/14 06:23 PM
4	You're in your mid-twenties, interested in LTRs only, inexorably disgusted by crass/alcoholic/entitled sluts, can only feel attracted to ladies (as opposed to "Wo-Men"). How do you deal? Seems like too much work. I'd rather just filter for religious girls.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/14 05:10 AM
8	You're in your mid-twenties, interested in LTRs only, inexorably disgusted by crass/alcoholic/entitled sluts, can only feel attracted to ladies (as opposed to "Wo-Men"). How do you deal? Church seems the right way to go here.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/14 05:03 AM
3	A quick note on "Amused Mastery" Fuck it is essentially Buddhism with modern language. Hearing it from a 21st century Brit make the ideas stick better than a 2500 year old indian.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/14 05:01 AM
1	Advice for a former omega guy Everywhere.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/14 07:58 PM
0	Why contempt towards women is baseless - Vox quote that every reader should internalize. There's a lot of things in TRP that can be applied to humanity. The hamster being the most prominent. It's called cognitive dissonance. Everyone does it to varying degrees.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/14 03:52 PM
1	Quite possibly the best article I've read on the fundamentals of red pill philosophy. As a new member this blew me away and I finally understand the workings of this place. Hunger games. Nice guy wins. Of course she's been through hell by the time she chooses him, and in the end she doesn't have much of a choice.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 06:42 PM
1	Want to know how not to act? Want a good laugh? Check this out I understand your point, but masking ones loneliness by constantly escaping into Videigames is not being happy alone. It's escapism. You have to base you happiness on yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 03:20 PM
8	How can women be better? The men of the sosuave PuA forum. Pook was a contributor largely known for advocating self improvement. I highly recommend reading the book of Pook. http://bookofpook.neocities.org/. Start with "If life seems hard and unhappy, read this!", "Be a Man!" & "Toward Manhood!"	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 03:24 AM
32	How can women be better? Agreed. This sub can focus too much on women's faults sometimes and not enough on our own or how we can be better. Less anti-feminism, more masculism	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 01:44 AM
72	How can women be better? The fault is not in the women but in ourselves that we have failed to be men -Pook	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 01:08 AM
3	A dearth of research using female animals in neuroscience and medicine facilitates the persistence of the myth that gender is a social construct. Solid post. Hate to burst the OPs bubble, but sexuality and gender are both innate and learned. It is biological and cultural.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/14 01:06 AM
1	Manly men and womanly women Thanks	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 11:17 PM
1	Manly men and womanly women Feminism is a push towards androgyny.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 11:16 PM
0	Manly men and womanly women No, but I'd shy away from it anyway. It's a manifesto, and as such it's not exactly objective. Id suggest "against democracy and equality: the European new right" by tomislav sunic. It's a better introduction to the ideas brewing in Europe.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 11:10 PM
0	Manly men and womanly women Most men want what you want. But as women are the gatekeepers to sex, their priorities take precedent.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 11:02 PM
1	Manly men and womanly women Can you link me any books on sexuality relating to the ride of a consumer society?	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 11:00 PM
1	Short FR: don't be the doting fool Love your FRs man. Keep me coming.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 10:51 PM
2	No More Mr. Nice Guy and NoFap? There are two options you have in life 1) Follow your dreams 2) Follow other peoples dreams. Decide, then Do. (Credit to Pook)	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 09:42 PM
3	Want to know how not to act? Want a good laugh? Check this out Nope. What happens is that you base your happiness in your partner. When you are not around your partner you dive into depression / anxiety. It comes out as neediness and jealousy. These behaviors only drive your partner away, so that the relationship inevitably ends. You must base your happiness in yourself. Loneliness is not a result of being alone, but not enjoying your time alone. I speak from personal experience. I was an omega loser. I lived the fantasy. I was friendzoned, orbited for thre…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/14 09:23 PM
10	Post-wall woman in r/okcupid tries to scold men that they should stop excluding older women like her in favor of younger ones, then she admits she did the same in her 20s. I loved Sherman. I thought it was hilarious.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 06:38 PM
2	Why the Manosphere Will Become the 4th Branch of Government Yes and no. The Manosphere won't become the 4th branch, or anywhere close to it. That's just the author being egotistical. But, the internet as a whole certainly fills that void that the media is fulfilling. The Manosphere and TRP are apart of that, but they are not the whole thing.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 02:46 PM
1	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. As someone whose lost 80lbs and used to be obese, drop everything else and make your priority losing the weight. No woman will ever be able to replicate the feeling you get from looking in the mirror and not hating yourself. Read Alan Carrs Easyweigh to lose weight to help you break the mental chains, then choose a food plan that works for you. He recommends raw/vegan but I like Paleo. Steak is too tasty to give up. :#. Can also do keto or just cut out sugar. Whatever.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/14 05:48 PM
4	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. 80lbs lost on Paleo. Never counted a calorie. I'm never hungry and I don't binge eat or stress about my diet. What you eat is more important than how you much you eat.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/14 05:42 PM
3	Tumblr SJWs on what happens when a man "hits the wall". $900,000? Holy shit.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/14 12:40 AM
4	What is the rationale behind spreading Red Pill Wisdom? Men can do great things when they put their minds to it. But in today's society they have been pacified. By women. By Videogames. Porn. Sports. By lots of things. By spreading red pill I want to unlock the potential of those men I unplug to make the world a better place. I also believe that for society is pretty fucked up. I believe that if we are going to have any realistic chance at promoting real change in government we need a large ideological shift in the populace. This is not accomplished …	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 05:06 PM
6	Think you (or your friends) captured a unicorn? Think again. I think the thing that will keep this sub relatively safe is the TRP Endorsed tag. It's active leadership that most subs don't have.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 04:30 PM
2	Ultimate Beta Movie --- Her Fantastic fantastic movie. There are a bunch of things that TRP should eat up. So much of the movie was about male and female gender roles being swapped, or rather men becoming feminine and women becoming masculine. Look at the dress of the characters (Amy is always rakish and plain, while most of the men wear Highwaisted pants), the careers of the characters (Videogame programmer vs love letter writer), their roles in the relationships (Amy being the breadwinder while Charles is the homemaker) …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 05:37 AM
1	Ultimate Beta Movie --- Her That's pretty much it.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 05:22 AM
2	Ultimate Beta Movie --- Her It's a very well written movie. The ending is a little weak (I wouldn't be surprised if it was added after a test screening), but overall the best movie I've seen since Gravity.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 05:17 AM
1	Sleep with sluts, but do NOT get into a LTR with a slut (?). Men grow with each woman they sleep with. They learn and become more experienced with women and are thereby better at understanding women and being in relationships. This makes them more valuable. Women's value decreases the more men they sleep with. Men's value increases.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 05:10 AM
3	Ultimate Beta Movie --- Her About to go see it tonight. Really excited. TRP + Sci-Fi? Perfect!	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 04:23 PM
12	Apathy? Thanks Buddha ;D	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 01:53 AM
8	Monday Field Report post I made out with and got the number of an HB7 last night. I've never done that before. I was limited to 5s and 6s for most of my life. Quick backstory. I was obese and an omega. Lost 80lbs I'm now merely an overweight beta most of the time. But when I'm at Karaoke, I'm an alpha. I have an incredible voice (I can do fantastic Freddy Mercury impersonation) and not surprisingly, my SMV is at it's peak right after I finish singing. Also unsurprisingly, I pretty much can only pull at karaoke. I try ot…	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/14 09:46 PM
6	Satire project for school. Need help making fun of feminism. This has train wreck written all over it. Pick something easier.	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/14 07:55 PM
1	Making the transition from BP to RP Go big, but don't just blurt out "lets sleep together". Show her that you want to put it in, don't tell her.	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/14 05:25 PM
1	What are TRP Major/Careers? Whatever your passion is. Figure out what you want out of life. Figure you what your grand quest is. What is the problem you want to solve? Want to cure cancer? Global Warming? Fuck, maybe you just want to be the richest goddamn motherfucker on the planet. Fine. Figure that out and then choose a career based on that. A career won't get you laid, but a dream will help you maintain LTR. In the captain / first mate dynamic, you have to steer the ship towards something. Edit: this isnt easy to do an…	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/14 04:35 PM
1	Divorce aint so bad I'm on the "spin plates until career is set" path, so no worries.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 02:58 PM
5	Divorce aint so bad It's more the "I know where I want to go and can't wait to get there" than "I don't like being 26"	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 05:30 AM
1	Divorce aint so bad Just started. Graduated in a business related field, realized I didn't want to do anything in a sales related field, went back for a phd to be a counselor. I like to help people. Specializing in masculinity and want to start a private practice / non-profit that focuses on adult men. (Basically spread TRP). I'll graduate around age 32. If I start the non profit right after I graduate I'll have a stable career with a fair cash flow (~50-80k but I'll have the status that I run my own org) when I hi…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 05:27 AM
5	Divorce aint so bad So I should man up huh?	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 03:46 AM
3	Divorce aint so bad When I'm making near minimum wage?	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 01:45 AM
3	Divorce aint so bad It's for a psych doctorate. It's required for my career.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 12:34 AM
16	Divorce aint so bad Takes time to get a PhD brother.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/14 10:17 PM
17	Divorce aint so bad I can't wait till I'm 35+ and actually have a solid career. I'm working on it (26), but damn. Being a young poor guy in a city is tough. :#	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/14 08:17 PM
4	Men – if you're not a feminist, it's fine, except you're wrong and I hate you for even trying. Most RPers should agree with this article and it's definition of feminism. She's defining feminism as the belief that women are at a disadvantage in society and therefore women/people should do something about it. If you ask most people, feminism is the fight for gender equality, not the fight against women's inequality. It's a good article. I agree that we should define feminism this way. It's much easier to be anti feminist when you're not fighting against the concept of equality which is so d…	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/14 07:15 PM
2	Does anybody else get "depressed" reading TRP once in a while? What I get depressed about is that the kind of love I want women are incapable of giving. It's a sad reality.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 06:48 PM
1	Does anybody else get "depressed" reading TRP once in a while? There are 7 billion people on this earth. There is a 1/3500000000 chance you will ever be the best. Even if you are, someone will replace you instantaneously. Learn to be the best you can me. Striving for more is a fools game.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 06:43 PM
1	Thank you TRP! Spreading this message seems extremely difficult without coming off like a rogue. There's plenty of circle jerking on trp. Make a snide comment about feminism in any thread and watch the upvotes pour in.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 05:23 PM
2	Thank you TRP! Spreading this message seems extremely difficult without coming off like a rogue. You have to frame it correctly. Don't call it sexism, call it gender differences. Game ; courtship. Negging ; teasing. Dominance ; leadership. If you control the language you control the debate. If women don't respond well to your RP talk, use different semantics next time. Edit: using proper language is critical in framing discussions with women. There's a big comment in the comic post (search all-time of TRP I'm on my phone atm) that talks about how you should communicate difficulties in your …	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 05:18 PM
2	Thank you TRP! Spreading this message seems extremely difficult without coming off like a rogue. When the community talks about frame, this is what they mean.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 05:13 PM
1	Thank you TRP! Spreading this message seems extremely difficult without coming off like a rogue. So you're saying I don't have to lose my fat gut and just adopt a better attitude?!?	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 05:11 PM
1	"What is Masculinity?" I think it's a start to a good discussion, but you're not going to find any great answers here as none of us really know what masculinity is. There's no real way for us to confirm or rebuke you. I dislike the subjective nature of it. Getting what you want is so open ended gaff it could encompass all of human behavior. I like the definition based on ability instead of behavior. It's an interesting take. Good post.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 03:22 PM
2	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip This is fantastic. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 10:43 PM
3	"Anytime you feel the need to ask if a woman likes you, all you have to do is ask her to do something that isn’t convenient for her. If she is not willing to do it, she doesn’t like you." The 3 "T"s. That's the simplest version of how to seduce a woman I've ever seen. Bravo. Really good teaching tool.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 10:23 PM
2	"Anytime you feel the need to ask if a woman likes you, all you have to do is ask her to do something that isn’t convenient for her. If she is not willing to do it, she doesn’t like you." There's some great stuff in here. When you feel anxiety over your actions, you will seek to lower the anxiety by creating a fantasy world in which your anxiety can’t exist, and then you come to believe the fantasy is reality	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 10:12 PM
1	The Dunning-Kruger Effect Huh? What he linked to was just a visualization.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 09:34 PM
2	Alpha careers Don't tell them you're a geologist then, tell them what you do.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 05:53 PM
11	Alpha careers All-Pro NFL/MLB/NHL/NBA athlete would be the most alpha. Make millions of dollars by dominating a competitive sport is damn alpha. Throw in the social status from being a celebrity as well.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/14 02:08 AM
0	No fat chicks. Eh. I like big bootys. Ideally big booty / slim waist, but if forced to choose between big booty and tummy vs slim waist and no butt, I'll take the curvy chick any day. My mom was also obese, so what I find desirable is partly a Freudian reflection of that relationship. Edit: LIKE KIM KARDASHIAN DAYUM THAT GIRL GOT BOOTY.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/14 09:09 PM
3	Video Games, Porn/Masturbation, and Watching Sports: The Downfall of the Modern Man Find more goals. It's about the journey mate, not the destination.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/14 05:50 PM
2	My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPill Oh I've already gotten to work. :)	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/14 01:31 PM
2	My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPill God I want nothing more than this moment with my ex. It's shallow but idgaf.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 11:54 PM
1	Nice guys = Sluts Yep. They both ooze neediness, with different results.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 11:32 PM
10	Video Games, Porn/Masturbation, and Watching Sports: The Downfall of the Modern Man Because you have goals dreams and ambitions. Women are a plus in life. Not an end goal.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 11:27 PM
7	Video Games, Porn/Masturbation, and Watching Sports: The Downfall of the Modern Man You have to find something that motivates you enough to get out of bed in the morning. This is hard. It requires a lot of self reflections.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 11:24 PM
2	The Dunning-Kruger Effect Can you give me a one sentence summary of the Dark Enlightenment?	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 11:09 PM
6	Help me understand why women are incapable of love. Yes, I've read the suggested reading. Saving this for future conversations. Great comment.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/14 09:35 PM
4	Improving HAVING sex Shit. I have some work to do. Edit: Slide your thumb into her pussy (thumb nail facing upwards), while the rest of your palm is under her cupping her ass. Get your thumb in a couple of inches, push down (make sure you have trimmed nails), and you should feel a rough/ridged area. Wait wait wait. Thats going for the G-Spot. I thought the G-Spot was on top? I'm very confused.	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/14 11:01 PM
3	The basics explained, and our direction for 2014. http://dalrock.wordpress.com/ RP from a Married Christian. Boom.	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/14 10:53 PM
1	Beta, frustrated and willing to try It's better to regret a failure than to regret not trying at all.	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 08:22 PM
-1	Briffault's Law in Action No. Whats your real question?	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 07:59 PM
2	Read Nietzsche. Related: https://twitter.com/NietzscheQuotes For all your daily Nietzsche Needs.	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 12:26 AM
1	10 Reasons Why You Should Live Without Apology Actually, working out and practicing gratitude are two of the best ways to conquer depression. (And yes, I mean real depression, not "I feel shitty" depression). There not the the only way, or the best way (therapy), but they will certainly help.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 11:58 PM
2	10 Reasons Why You Should Live Without Apology Eh. The whole "Depression is because of bad brain chemistry!" is largely bullshit. Psychiatrists aren't necessarily pushing the drugs on people, but if you get a client who comes in and says "Hey I'm depressed I want zoloft" then there going to give it to you because $$$$$$. Depression (in many cases) is the snowball effect of low-self esteem. I can't be the person I want to be > I can't succedd at this > I can't go to the interview because I'll fail > I can't send in my resume > I can't look fo…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 11:52 PM
2	10 Reasons Why You Should Live Without Apology Good shit, but can we please not have a break every other fucking line. dear god it's making me go up a fucking wall.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 11:47 PM
1	Why am I listening to you guys? You're young and have no experience with women. You have less to deconstruct. You're also young and impressionable. So yeah it's you'r youth, for varying reasons.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/13 08:33 AM
5	33 year old woman sperm jacks well off 28 year old guy. There is an very outside chance that this is my ex-gf. Age/Job description/timing match. I may have dodged a bullet. Wow.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/13 08:11 AM
13	Men who brag on this subreddit about being a player or being promiscuous haven't burned out yet, and will. That's where I'm at too. Flirting is fun and exciting right now. I get a massive high from pushing my comfort zone. But like any high, you have to keep doing more and more to get that high. I used to get a rush from just approaching a girl, now I really have to do something bold to feel the same. I'm gonna enjoy it while it lasts.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/13 03:18 AM
-3	The FR I've been promising This is fantastic. Thank you. Will be using as a guidepost.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 09:15 PM
4	Not really seeing the point of relationships. Anyone wanna explain what the advantage of them are? If you want kids, marriage has a purpose. But outside of kids, there's 0 reason to get married.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 09:14 PM
9	Definitely a repost but it deserves it to cap off the year: Ultra-feminist spends a year and a half as a man and subsequently has all her preconceived notions about men turned upside down. A must read. https://twitter.com/Cavsanada/status/412601169098203138 The reason she couldn't take it any more was because she had to spend every day pretending to be someone she was not when she had an easy way out: just stop the experiment. Very very few people could do what she did (male or female). You're right about pulling the wool over the eyes though.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 03:08 PM
1	How do you guys deal with onitius? Fair enough.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 05:40 AM
4	How do you guys deal with onitius? Possibly. As far as I've understood it frame is how you act in a certain situation. Your frame around your boss is different than around your girlfriend. When you fail to "maintain" frame you act differently than normal. The idea that you have to act a certain way constantly around your girlfriend to maintain attraction instead just acting how you feel like acting is what I see as toxic in a long term relationship. Essentially, you can only keep up the act for so long before it wears you down. I…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 02:55 AM
1	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." No, real talk. Every man has shit he is going through. Problems he faces. Skeletons in his closet. Scars that still hurt. It takes a shit ton of courage to talk about this to anyone. Even more to tell someone like a gf who could reject you and lose her attraction to you because of it. Male shame is a very real problem in society that very few are willing to shine a light on because it is so drastically anti-masculine.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 12:58 AM
1	"Half the people in this world are female, and they all seem to think they have the only pussy!" Why not? How do you earn something that is freely given? Being worthy of love is a decision you make yourself. You either decide that you are or you aren't. This doesn't mean someone has to show you love all the time, or that everyone will love you, or that you can demand love from someone. But when it is shown, you deserve it because you exist. No other reason. All life has value. Edit: how do you earn liberty? Free will? The love of a child? Natural rights? Not everything in this world is earn…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 12:51 AM
0	How do you guys deal with onitius? Why can't you actually listen to what she has to say and then call her on her shit if it's actually bullshit? If someone comes to you for support and advice, why is your first reaction to mock them for having human emotions and needing help? Why don't you have any compassion? Because it doesn't get you laid? Come on.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 10:51 PM
8	How do you guys deal with onitius? I just... I don't see this as a healthy was of having relationships. I want deep relationships with my girlfriends and friends alike. That's not possible to do if I'm constantly maintaining frame and not letting myself be vulnerable around my friends and lovers. It doesn't build attraction, no, but women are just one part of life. There's passion of work, friendship, gratitude and joy. I think this kind if "you have to maintain frame all the time or you will never maintain LTRs" line of thinking…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 10:31 PM
4	How do you guys deal with onitius? She dumped you. It sucks. The only thing you can do is move on. Stop thinking about her. Focus on your life, work, friends and meeting new women. You said you didn't want a girlfriend. Your relationship was based upon that. You then tried to adjust the boundaries of the relationship and she refused. She realized the relationship won't work with that dissonance so she ended it. Remember, she may just not want a BF right now, and as much as she likes you (even loves you) that won't change. You ask…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 10:26 PM
0	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." I have. I have a different definition of masculinity that isn't tied to the perceptions of others.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 05:01 PM
-1	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." Being more attractive does not make you more of a man!	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 04:00 PM
-5	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." You are tying what it means to be a man to your social position. This is the most unmanly thing of all.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 03:58 PM
3	LTR Game: Maintaining Frame Where can I learn more about stoicism?	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:56 AM
10	TRP has given me everything I ever wanted.... I think. Read the book "Daring Greatly" by Brene Brown. It's not RP, but it will help. Look, your problem is that you got into this relationship by not being yourself. Who you think you are and who your girlfriend thinks you are are two different things. This gap is causing your suffering. The way to solve this then is two fold. One, begin to open up to her. Help her understand who you really are. Don't overshare, don't unload everything on her all at once. But share some emotional vulnerability with her…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:50 AM
-4	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." No. There's too much good content here. It's like a diamond covered in shit. It's worth getting my hands dirty, but I'm not gonna like it.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:14 AM
1	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." But I don't really see things changing for me or for any of us. You can change the societal norms sure but you can't change what woman are attracted to This is 100% correct and what we REALLY should be discussing in this comment section. The purpose of trp should be to discuss the polarity between what society tells us and the reality of male life. The video discuess what society is telling men to be. Emotionally dead, violence, seek status and power, etc. But what should we be seeking? Self-val…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:06 AM
0	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." Because most men are too ashamed to talk about how much pain and suffering they deal with on a daily basis. They feel as if they let it out they will be seen as "Less than". Which, in the eyes of women, is true. One of the problems of modern masucilinty is that emotional resiliency is one of it's main sticking points. You're supposed to have control of your emotions. You're supposed to be strong emotionally, not just physically. Everyone suffers. It takes true courage to tell others you are.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:04 AM
-6	x-post from r/psychology "There is something Absolutely Wrong With What We Do To Boys Before They Grow Into Men." No, this video is pointing to a very real issue in today's world of male shame. The very thing they are talking about is that men feel that they cannot be themselves, that they must put on some type of act to "prove" themselves to others. Not just women, but their fellow man. This type of "ITS THE FEMINISTS FAULT, BOOO!" attitude is why I loathe redpill. This sub has so much great content but is incredibly misguided at the same time. Being a man is about having confidence, valuing yourself above…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 06:02 AM
7	"Half the people in this world are female, and they all seem to think they have the only pussy!" It took me a decade to realize all the harm my faith did to me. The idea of Grace, that you are inherently flawed and unworthy of love but God decides he will love you anyway, is incredibly toxic. Fuck that. I'm worthy of love because I exist. All humans are. It's not even a logic / existence of god problem. If you want to believe in a higher being that's fine. But don't place your own self worth on something outside yourself. You should treat people well because you have compassion for them as …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 05:21 AM
1	A question on relationships that I cant seem to find an answer to anywhere else. Great. She's the one right now. I agree with you. Think about how much you've changed since you were 12. You feel like you're a completely different person right? Now take that and triple that difference. That's how much you will change by the time you are 24. Then by the time you are 30 you will change that much again. Then by the time you are 40 you will change that much again. Then by the time you are 50 you will change that much again. Even though she is perfect for you right now, she will n…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 05:06 PM
3	I am going to fuck your girlfriend If a girl doesn't care enough about her relationship to stay faithful, why should I? Because you are of higher value than her. I have a problem with saying "Lol it's not my problem!" Because we're all human, we all share in the same suffering. You are a cause of another humans' suffering. You could easily walk away and that situation would not occur. (Note that I said a cause, not the cause). If you are cool with that, then go for it. I'm all for subjective ethics. We cause suffering for other p…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 04:44 PM
1	I am going to fuck your girlfriend Why is it only one or the other? Why can't both parties be responsible?	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 06:18 AM