So I went out alone last night, not because I'm a loser, but because I'm getting out of my comfort zone. Or at least trying. Anyway, I had a lot of fun, but I ended up just bro'ing it up the whole time. Again. I met a bunch of guys, and we hit it off. And that's my comfort zone. And unfortunately, even though I went out alone, it still sabotaged my efforts to meet girls.

Here's my question: how do I get out of this comfort zone and not fall into the trap of just talking to guys? There's definitely some fear/anxiety here. I mean, should I be going out and basically only be talking or trying to talk to women?