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BuyerOfCoins/r/seduction28/08/17 10:10 AM
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These guys saying 'pay for dinner' - have you EVER been on a date? This is a common scheme on online dating apps. Match with girl, she suggests dinner, you go to dinner, you pay and she gets away as quickly as possible. Win-win for her! Here's what you do: suggest to go for drinks or a low budget activity first. Less expensive and you can gauge her interest. If she refuses this you know you dodge a bullet. However, always shoot your shot, the fact you ignored the conversation is kinda strange as…
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:24 PM
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Obvious advertisement is semi obvious
/r/seduction08/06/24 06:08 PM
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Yeah it will kill the vibe, however they will look like a clown whereas you will be getting more respect. This is also depending WHAT they give you shit for. For example, if its about your shoe laces being untied and you start being 'yo I dont like that you insult my laces' being all serious, then you will be the one looking like a clown. However let's say you are bantering back and forth and they say something about your mom that is very insulting, you call them out on it no matter if its a gro…
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:17 AM
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Yeah it’s a hard situation, I get you. You’re already bantering and teasing back and forth and then the other party makes a remark, perhaps about you, that is a bit on or over the edge. What I would do is just call them out on it, I’d say something like ‘yo that’s a bit too much man’ or something like that. If they still continue ‘I literally just said that you’re going too far with that’ and then if they STILL continue then its not a friend or someone you wanna hang with and move out of the con…
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:49 AM
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'Hey it was nice meeting you at <place> you really know alot about <topic>'. Or whatever on the second bit of that sentence. Perhaps a little joke about something that you two laughed about
/r/seduction04/06/24 08:27 PM
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Prove what to who? The only one you have something to prove to is yourself.
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:59 PM
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That's an insanely bad idea - always good to make someone’s life even more miserable by telling them they look bad and miserable /s
/r/seduction27/05/24 11:39 AM
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Learn to be happy with yourself. Also, get hobbies and you can get them by asking yourself what you enjoy, trying different things out. Tennis, football, just the gym or the chess club. This way you also get more social contacts.
/r/seduction27/05/24 10:19 AM
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This sounds very dangerous, as if you want to live through your own depression again THROUGH her. Maybe she doesn't even want to be 'changed' in the way you describe. Anyway, just go for it and tell/ask that you want to go on a date with her and go from there.
/r/seduction27/05/24 10:18 AM
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I honestly only read the first part and last part and when you started talking about phases in dating I felt very 'eh'. Maybe I missed a bit of your story then but from what I read you're following some rules that don't exist. Sure, there's phases in dating but there's no need to know this by heart or follow some sort of guidelines. The main issue here is that you're starting to feel you can't be yourself. If you're dating and you cannot be yourself, then who are you? You're playing a role, an a…
/r/seduction25/05/24 02:04 PM
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Night game is a quantity game, not big conversations but just going for it after a few seconds of 'talking' or dancing
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:59 PM
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You're right, it's not a question one should ask at all except jokingly when you've known eachother for a bit. Honestly I would not even waste my time on this chick. Been there done that. But IF I would reply I'd reply with some sort of joke I would think it's funny and still perhaps could fire up her interest. Something like: 'Good question, I'd treat a lady with respect, hold the door, drop my coat for her to walk on when it rains. So tell me, do you know where I find this lady that I can do t…
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:57 PM
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Because it's a very (un)validating question and it makes the guy come accross as a simp even though he's just answering the question. It's a mind game question.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:51 PM
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Most likely you're doing something that they don't like in the approach part. You must either be saying strange things, going DIRECTLY for the number without any other type of conversation, making only 'friendly' talk with no sense of attraction building, or something else we cannot see from here. Other than that, girls these days are very pretentious themselves and very spoiled with attention so I would not be surprised if it could also just be that for some of them. But yeah girls are weird ma…
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:47 PM
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Your story doesn't add up. You say you didn't have conversation, only exhanged names. Now you suddenly did have conversation with her? You're being very confusing man.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:44 PM
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You don’t even know her. Maybe you like her physically but you don’t even know her so saying she is your type for a serious relationship tells me you haven’t met many women
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:37 AM
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Real 'bruh' moment here. You only exchanged names and you already want a serious relationship with her? You seriously need to get out more and talk with more women. Approach her and talk to her, that's the first step. Don't fall in love with someone you don't even know.
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:38 AM
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Approach her directly. NEVER EVER dm someone that you saw in real life a few times (but never talked to irl) but then instead message her online, never ever do that. It's creepy as hell. Now you might think that you dont want to approach, but you have to now, you got no choice. DO IT. Even if you get rejected you will get your answer. Make a genuine compliment, for example you really like her hairstyle/earrings/dress whatever - it's important to compliment her choice, not something she can't hel…
/r/seduction21/05/24 09:58 AM
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Definitely a case of e-whoring or blackmailing when he would send nudes back
/r/seduction15/05/24 01:29 PM
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You do you, as far as I can read he only wants to be around her. Kinda creepy and doesn't sound like a boyfriend but just someone who wants to get in her pants. Go for it! She will tell you if she doesn't want.
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:09 PM
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Yes, you’re a trash person and a piece of shit
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:11 PM
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She’s probably interested since you seem to have your life in order. Married, most likely a house, all stable.
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:08 PM
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Good job! One tip: ALWAYS close. Either for the number or anything else but always try. Keep it up!
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:06 PM
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It’s also a form of attention, a nice form for both you but also her. The thing is, to me it seems like this is one of those girls who enjoys you being her far away friend and nothing more. Someone she can talk to like a best friend. If that’s what you’re okay with then keep going, otherwise push for the date and if she rejects, barely contact
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:08 PM
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This reads like some bad porn script. Why are you coming here with made up stories?
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:57 AM
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You don't have to take everything you hear seriously my man. When they say 'I'd smash' they are not smashing her, why do you think that?? Your problem is most likely that you take everything really serious, also on dates. If you take that above statement so serious already even though it's just banter, you got to realize the difference between that and serious talk.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:53 AM
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Don't move JUST for girls
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:50 AM
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First girl seems like she's just looking for attention. Been there done that, if she comes back then thats that but leave it for now. Either way, she's not relationship material.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:48 AM
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Text if you want to. The idea that texting is just for setting up dates is old now. Besides you already have hooked up and are getting to know each other more and more. If she texts you alot it’s fine to show interest back. Match her energy until you’re back.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:53 PM
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I would say it is definitive proof
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:00 PM
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You literally say 'sorry' in your example
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:27 AM
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You’re investing way too much energy in a girl you randomly bumped into in nightlife, painting her as your perfect partner. She’s not, move on to the next one.
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:36 AM
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Bro I have no idea what you’re saying. What I take from this is that she’s in some kind of cult, if so stay far away
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:43 PM
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Seems you're already making good progress by working on yourself - hitting the gym and so. No need to feel defeated. It looks like you're counting your 'defeats' instead of look at what you already got. I think that's the first step, to respect yourself. Right now I don't think you're in a state where you should be looking for girls, cos to me it looks like you're looking for validation from them. First find the respect for yourself, THEN go looking for girls. I hope this helps for just a bit :)…
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:13 AM
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It's good you realise this, very good. It's the biggest step to overcome - realization. Now that you realise it you can work on it. What Winds_Howling said is spot on. Banter a bit before moving to more serious things. You can move in stages like: Banter More serious but still banterish Bantering Going for the number/moving to whatsapp This can be achieved in just a couple of texts or with some girls it requires more. My general rule is to not spend to much time on apps itself. If the conversati…
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:43 PM
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I'm not confused, the way she behaved when she had the boyfriend still. It says alot.
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:40 PM
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If she cheats WITH you, she will cheated ON you
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:55 PM
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What is this way of talking? You’re overly trying to be cool because in your reddit post itself you don’t talk like this. Just be yourself. Texting is mostly for logistics and a bit of small talk but sometimes you also use it to get to know each other, yes these days girls are like that. Mutual interest for that is required. Pointers for you: Ask open questions, your texts are so damn closed. That ending line just killed the conversation and now you have to double text her to get it going again.…
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:53 PM
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Whatever your feel most comfortable with. 'Excuse me' is fine if that works for you, same as 'hey' or any other opening word. I wouldn't stress too much about that right now. When you approached 1000 women with different openers you can gauge which opener would work best. For now, don't bother changing up what you feel works.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:31 AM
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Yes I have. You have to meet more women because your perception of this girl is that she’s perfect, an angel. Maybe she is your soulmate but the way you talk makes me think that this is the first girl you’re with. Also makes me think you value her more than yourself and that you’re unworthy (in your eyes) and that you, for some reason, need her in your life to be happy. Realize that you’re worthy of having a good time with this girl. That your time on this earth is limited and that you can be ha…
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:11 AM
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??? Why would you get a case for talking with someone???
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:07 PM
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You didn't interact with her at school so is seems a bit creepy to do this. However it's still doable. You got a good instagram? Like big with good photos? Then go for it, but in a way that is NON creepy (which is HARD to do since you never interacted) in your shoes I'd go for something like 'Hey you were in my 'maybe you know these people' list and I remember you from school, did you also go to <school>?' something like that, adjust to your own way of saying it. She's gonna not respond OR say j…
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:04 PM
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If you have an issue with the girl meeting other people on the event, then this type of 'event' dating is not for you. Why should YOU be allowed to meet girls there and she is not allowed to meet other guys? Don't get me wrong, I totally understand you, but look at it objectively. You don't own this girl. Having said that, just go with the 'meeting new friends' vibe if that's what the event is set for. You an always go for more from there. You don't necesarily have to fuck them right after the e…
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:02 PM
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From what I read she’s literally saying she wants to go watch a horror movie. She’s nearly inviting you. Just say something about that you wanna go see <this> movie and if she wants to join you. If she says yes then say ‘great, it’s a date :)’ or some similar, so she knows its a date. If she says no, then leave it for a while
/r/seduction21/04/24 10:33 PM
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Since its not the first date, cinema seems good. The only problem is you cant talk with her much so do it before and after. Before the movie flirt with her a bit. What comes to my mind on the fly is making a joke saying she can hold your hand when a scary scene comes up etc blabla. Stuff like that. During the movie what comes to my mind is grabbing her hand, in a non scary scene, making a joke you got really scared of <insert thing>. Really this needs to be in the moment. Really try to go for th…
/r/seduction21/04/24 03:29 PM
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It’s good that you recognize that. However to not end up in the friendzone I’d really suggest to start flirting more and eventually go for the kiss. Stretch this too long without any type of sexual interaction and she’s gonna think you want to be just friends, resulting in her friendzoning you (most likely)
/r/seduction21/04/24 12:49 PM
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How can someone who seemingly doesn't think about you make you care more? I know how you feel, but it's very toxic. The road you're walking is a thin line between domination fetish and respecting yourself. Respect yourself or you will be fucked for the rest of your life if you go down this road. You have to realize this person sees your text and decided not to take 5 seconds from her day to tell you she will reply later.
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:34 AM
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If that's true, why was there no kiss close yet? What made you or her not do it?
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:29 AM
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You say you have to double text but I doubt that. I seriously hope you're not double texting after an hour or so alone. SO if that's not the case then... Here's what you do: invite her out for an activity and if she says she has no time, drop her. Mate there's way more girls than this one alone. But, if you're REALLY out for this one then you are going to have to be more aggresive, this means that the next time you feel you have to double text you will have to be like 'look, I am interested in g…
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:21 AM
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Your conversation seems pretty bland but she is asking questions back which is great
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:16 AM
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Dont do that, that's really bad advice. You'll come across as a simp with no options and it'll make you very unattractive in her eyes. Tbh I read this whole thread of comments and it all is pretty bad.
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:15 AM
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She apparantly texted YOU. So that already shows interest. The roller blade thing seems fine, she just doesn't have that. If you still go roller blading and the conversation ran a bit cold, you have to think of a date that she obviously WILL be able to do. You seem activity orientated so you think of something, send her the roller blade photo and say something like 'Hey I was thinking <insert invite>' and then invite her to do something fun such as play pool/arcade or so. Then for a second date …
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:09 AM
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You need to work on your inner game and get out more. Not all women are like that. Find different social groups cos the ones you hang around now seem very toxic. That, or you're getting your girls from the nearest psychiatric hospital.
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:19 PM
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OP, don't do this. You'll be seen as a stalker. This reads like some weird porno
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:26 PM
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I understand what you’re saying. Also in this world, everyone is ‘busy’. Everyone is doing something. Someone may be going to a funeral, another just had to get some tomatoes. They take time for the things important to them at that moment. If you’re genuine, interested and interesting to them at that moment in time, great conversations can happen
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:34 PM
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Day game is always harder than night game, but you reap more rewards. Keep it up brother you're getting there. Always remember to be genuine :). That you're too intimidated for the 9s is understandable, but like a muscle this will also grow and at one point you will say fuck it. I hope one day you will also see it is not about the 1-10 it's about 0 and 1 (0= not attracted, 1= attracted) and that beauty is not something to be intimidated about. In the end everyone has to go to the toilet and take…
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:12 PM
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Of course man! It's always really nice to read things like this :)
/r/seduction30/03/24 11:57 AM
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Good going brother, keep it up! I don't have any specific advice on this. You seem to be on the right track tho!
/r/seduction28/03/24 11:07 AM
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A comment like this is not seen alot on the internet. Kudos to you and no worries, its all good. I shouldn’t have put that emoji and said to take reading classes in the first reply. It was too much. All the best to you :)
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:59 PM
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Your interest in her already dropped that’s what you said. Having other things on your mind does not matter as they are completely seperate things. Here’s what I’d do: reflect on how you feel about her right now. Take 10-20 whatever minutes to reflect on that. Is this someone you want to lose? And if you don’t, is that because you love her for who she is or is that because you don’t want to be alone and keep her on that leash?
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:53 AM
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Break up with her instead of leaving her on this leash. You obviously have no interest in her but she has in you. She’s gonna be hurt but she can move on too
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:49 AM
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Imo this is a very stupid idea since you’ve never met and I assume you randomly added her and she added you back. BUT Since she added you back there might be a 1% chance. Just message her about something interesting you noticed about her. Does she have anything you like too on her profile? Football/basketball/a film/series or whatever little thing you can break the ice with. If it’s not. Just open with something similar to ‘Hey super random but I think you’re super cute so I thought let’s talk’ …
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:46 AM
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That’s the problem you’re facing, rejecting any and all advice. How are you supposed to grow if you can’t take criticism. Reflect on that for a bit.
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:43 AM
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In this case, why not double text? Maybe her not texting back has nothing to do with you. The point is how long has it been since you two texted. We can only guess at this. At least leave a few days in between before you send this text. If there’s still no response, move on for good.
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:41 AM
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You’re also Thor
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:39 AM
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My advice to you is try not to get so offended by something not related to you. There’s a lot of self help articles in this sub. I suggest you read them after you take those classes.
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:38 AM
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The only way you can really escalate over text is asking her out. Sure you can get a girl more invested in you through text but you’re the only one that can see if this happens. Does she text alot? Ask you questions? Etc etc. The common mantra is to just use text for setting up dates but this is old. You can slightly flirt through text too these days. BUT if you’re doing that then also make sure to set up a date or you’ll be endlessly texting. About the creepy part. It’s only creepy if you keep …
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:35 AM
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I’m glad you can look into OPs head and tell us what he is referring to 🤡. He literally says he wants to be closer to a red flag guy. Reading classes would be a nice addition for you.
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:27 AM
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You didnt read my comment obviously 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:24 AM
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It's a hard step but you'd be happy taking it. Try small, going to the gym or even the supermarket and being in the vicinity of other people. Then in a week or two take it to the next step and join a club. You'll get there :)
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:01 PM
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Yeah don’t force yourself on someone. Instead, read a bit of her signals and escalate, meaning that you move closer to her. Touch her a bit more. Then look at her or whatever and move your head closer etc. Stuff like that. No need to jump her immediately
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:10 PM
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Good luck brother. Find something you like. Be it gym, martial arts, swimming, basketball or whatever. Preferably something where you also meet with other people occasionally.
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:08 PM
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So you want to be toxic? I don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. These are COMPLIMENTS they are giving you. Yes if you just simp on them and don’t escalate then that’s your fault. You can be nice AND be seen as a potential partner. You’ve got to work on yourself before going on dating tour imo. There’s no reason to become a red flag douche
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:06 PM
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If you talked to her every day you could have easily called. But reading what you said in another comment about the ex, it’s your choice.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:14 AM
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Tinder is ass. Just go irl like you said
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:15 PM
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Your first step is to stop dmming people that you do not know. This will only bring you down. STOP. following that you should work on yourself. Go to the gym and/or get a hobby that involves other people. If you have trouble having conversations this will help. You know what else helps? Volunteering with elderly people just to talk with them and do some activities. Old people love talking most of the time. This will boost your conversation skills AND as a bonus it makes you seen as a good person…
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:59 PM
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These things just happen and it takes some time. It can take days, maybe a week or two weeks before you’ll feel your old self. and stop beating down yourself for not approaching. More to life than approaching only . Try to do some things your like to do and work out.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:53 PM
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Completely agree, don’t come here as often as I did specifically for the reason you mentioned in your last bit. It’s so unfortunate. Quality of this sub has been going down for some time now. remember when I found this sub. it was great, it helped me so much in self improvement. Unfortunate to see where it is headed.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:42 PM
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Then you got to change your mindset. Yeah, you can use a combination but in my experience I’ve seen guys use apps not as a last resort but as a first option - they never take their chances irl anymore.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:50 AM
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Ditch the apps and go out there
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:09 PM
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I completely agree with communicating. But I also feel as if it would have to come from the woman herself, know what I mean? If I have to make a statement to her that she needs to be interested in me, I would feel like that if she would ask something about me it is not because of her interest in me but because I ‘requested’ her to.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:04 PM
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Reading some weird ass responses to this question, damn guys what are you repliers even talking about? It's obvious from what I read that she is also interested in you imho. Just gotta give that extra push. Show interest, kino - ask personal questions and maybe some statements on her. Compliment what she's wearing perhaps or something similar. Should be doable. Quick little thoughts from my side but I am eager to see what others will say.
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:03 PM
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Can confirm. If he plays it well he can get a fwb. Question is if he wants to from a moral standpoint.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:50 PM
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This exactly... however suppose a girl does not do these things but you’re attracted to her. Don’t wait it out but just approach. Better to at least shoot your shot than never do it.
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:03 PM
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You’re going with the mindset that you at least want a makeout. Let’s say that won’t happen, you’ll have ‘failed’ in your mind while that is actually not the case. Make the goal to have as many (positive) interactions as you can. Be the fun guy and make talks with a bunch of people. Men and women both. Having said that, it is a numbers game. If you approach a bunch of girls, even when doing it badly, I am quite sure at least some of them are interested in at least making out. Hardest part: appro…
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:40 PM
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‘Wear that on our date this weekend’. Problem solved - stated your intention now watch her reaction.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:03 PM
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Ok so let’s say it is, then 75 of that 90% are things you can work on! Work out, hair, your overall look etc. Then the 15 would be genetics, sure. I’d agree with that somewhat. I don’t agree with it being 90% at all though, but yeah.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:05 PM
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He has a nothing to lose vibe
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:56 AM
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Be completely honest with her then. At this point she’d need that
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:30 PM
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Your last sentence shows the whole problem. You don’t think you’re ‘worthy’ of her and you want some tricks to get her to have sex with you. That’s the whole vibe I get from what you said. First you need to work on your internal values and actual feel worthy. You should be the one trying to see if SHE is worthy of YOU.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:47 PM
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Uhm you just do what feels right. If you can get horny right off the bat, she jumps you the moment she comes through the door, then I don’t see why not
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:42 PM
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Because this guy seems to have internal issues with regards to confidence. He won’t be out approaching if he has an ‘easy’ out such as dating apps. At least that is how I experienced it years ago. Never did approach because ‘there are apps and swiping is ez’ but now that there is an overflow of men on these apps and women mostly craving attention and confirmation they’re hot. It won’t go anywhere for alot of men thus crushing their confidence even more, when it does not have to be like that.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:39 PM
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Dating apps are not straight to the point. They actually are far from that. Alot of people you see on there are just craving for attention and are using those apps to get more instagram followers. Also, girls usually don't come a guy's way at first at all. Guy's usually have to make the first move and then it goes on.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:54 AM
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Red flag. Not girlfriend material but could be nice FWB if she can drop the shittest act. She's trying to make you feel bad. However this DOES mean she is interested. You can joke about it and say something 'ha that ain't shit. I just got hit on by 7 guys and I rejected 5 of them' or something. But if she KEEPS GOING with those dumb ass tests, maybe just drop her because that is a waste of time and effort on your part.. Jesus christ, she should be in a mental hospital.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:14 AM
5

My opinion is to not use dating apps unless you already have a solid rotation of girls and want even more chance. Go out and about. Talk to everyone. Talk to hot girls. The man with the nice mustache. Do NOT rely on dating apps for your ONLY 'chance' with girls.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:11 AM
25

Actually, you are the loser here. Painting is spitting facts. You saying that he's a loser for doing that makes you, not only the loser, but making yourself publicly known as inexperienced.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:10 AM
1

I really really really hope this girl connects with you in real life too. Otherwise you pretty much wasted 2 years of your life on someone you do not even know. Good life lesson at least.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:07 AM
1

He wrote it for himself? Is he going to take himself on a Valentine date?
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:23 PM
2

It’s like a muscle. You have to train it bit by bit. It will take some time for the muscle to grow and be able to take more weight (more conversation, in this setting).
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:22 PM
2

This whole sub is loaded with gold secrets. You’re just not searching enough. Read the sidebar stuff.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:21 PM
250

Just make it out as no big deal and it will be no big deal. If you start being awkward, the rest of your time there will be awkward.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:24 AM
3

So what is your question here? You made one single joke to a girl and you’re wondering why you did not smash? I’m confused.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:06 PM
1

Wait, you are busy or she is busy?
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:03 PM
3

Respond with ‘You haven’t seen my biggest vein yet’ trust me, be in your bed in no time.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:00 PM
1

Talk about it with her and if she keeps resisting, cross her off your ‘I wanna date this girl’ list and find someone else
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:59 PM
1

I don’t understand. You said she’s getting married or maybe she already is by now. First thing to do is set up AN ACTUAL DATE with this girl - if that’s even an option here since she’s GETTING MARRIED. But hey, if you don’t try you’ll always fail. Don’t discourage yourself and setup the date.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:56 PM
0

This seems like an attention whore judging from what you said. However, she did reply so I say give it a shot. You have nothing to lose. Don’t let her string you along now but set up a date within 3-5 messages. If she ghosts again or says she has no time - drop her
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:54 PM
0

What the shit? Cut that bitch out of your life right now. You don’t want anyone disrespecting you like that.
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:15 PM
1

The ‘problem’ that can occur with this is that you’ll enter the friendship mode. This means old times with her would come back to you and you’ll act like a friend. Be wary of this. The only thing you need to add is some escalation to show your interest and gauge hers (slight touching, flirty comments and such). Good luck :)
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:55 AM
1

Double text worked for me a few times - mostly didn’t - but the times it did work we actually went on a date. No point in not trying as you’ll never see her again anyway.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:58 PM
1

You’ve been dating for two weeks. That’s barely anything. Look, I don’t even know what you want to tell her (don’t tell her you love her), however, it seems you’re into her without even ‘knowing’ the true her. Tell her that you want to get to know her better because you enjoy your time together, she’ll probably understand that phrasing. Do this in real life not over text preferably.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:55 PM
2

Text her for a meetup at your place - date and time- or any other you can escalate and have sex. She either seems down or she wanted attention.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:51 PM
3

How is her paying for something a big mistake though? I assume you’re both adults with a job that pays something. You’re overthinking things and making up mistakes on top of actual mistakes man
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:56 AM
23

Where did you get the idea you should not be yourself? Get rid of that toxic idea ASAP
/r/seduction22/12/21 11:12 AM
1

If you see her irl on a short notice you can ask her out then. If you don’t see her irl at all then yeah shoot your shot
/r/seduction28/09/21 11:27 AM
2

Obviously it will scare alot of people away as it does not fit the ‘normal’ picture people have in their heads about marriage, adult life etc. Yes there will be people out there willing to step into such a thing but you have to understand their point of view. Now there’s a tremendous amount of factors to calculate in, it’s basically lucky of the draw when meeting people and escalating.
/r/seduction09/03/21 06:05 PM
1

Where did I say or insinuated the word 'manipulating'. 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction29/01/21 10:23 AM
1

I recommend not projecting your own beliefs on others like they are facts. Sure there's some girls like you out there, but most like being talked too as I learned from experience.
/r/seduction29/01/21 10:21 AM
1

Do things that you fear. Not only approach (do this, alot) but also other things. Afraid of heights? Go climb a wall! Things like that. It will train your brain that fear does not equal death and yeah, AA feels like that is going to happen if you approach.
/r/seduction28/01/21 10:00 AM
2

Good that you are talking to different people. Breaking barriers. Nice! However try to see if she’s actually willing to talk or wants to leave and continue working. I get a sense that she actually just wanted to get back to work instead of talk. That said, should’ve gone for the # close there and get your result. Next time! Good job though :).
/r/seduction28/01/21 09:56 AM
2

You already got oneitis man. Find other girls, you’re already putting this one on a pedestal before you have even seen her. Anyway, if you visit this gas station again and it’s kinda quiet, find an opening where you know there won’t be customers at her desk for a few minutes and go for a conversation after which you close.
/r/seduction28/01/21 09:54 AM
7

Just approach her when she’s resting/doing stretches and compliment her on something. Don’t be that creep that only watches the whole time and does not say anything. You can check out a hot girl, duh, but then at least go talk with her afterwards. Just got to find the opening.
/r/seduction28/01/21 09:51 AM
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Because it conveys the message that you have nothing else going in your life which is unattractive. If you reply immediately every single time a girl replies, you become more and more unattractive to her. You send her the message that she’s your #1 priority and you are thinking about her all day with your phone in your hand. Obviously there’s nothing wrong with replying immediately some times, but try to make sure you’re busy all day and not thinking about her, replying to her every message. Onc…
/r/seduction28/01/21 09:49 AM
1

I approached a shitload of girls. I had days where I ran into 10 girls who shot me down, obviously this is depressing, but you got to remember your own value. The next day I may have had 6 approaches where I got 4 numbers and a close in the future. You’re just starting a conversation with another human being. Nothing wrong with that. Besides, you’re 16 if you start approaching now you will enjoy and reap the benefits in the future too. Not only with girls but in your general life too :). The pow…
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:31 PM
2

I approached multiple of them and found about five of them worth pursuing more. Four of them led to sexy time and a good connection. Still in touch with one of them simply because she’s a good friend now.
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:28 PM
1

Try to find a time where she may be stretching/relaxing. You can start up a conversation about what she’s doing at that moment. Starting with a compliment. For example, I know my back ain’t that strong, so I’ll make a comment about her back if she’s doing a back exercise and a reference to mine, perhaps asking for tips and starting to banter from there. The most general start of the conversation can simply be that she looks like she goes to the gym alot and she looks fit. From there do a questio…
/r/seduction24/01/21 08:01 PM
1

Yes exactly hahah. Keep on seducing.
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:41 AM
1

Glad to!
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:41 AM
1

Definitely man! There’s hope for everyone if you can pick up your balls :)
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:41 AM
3

Thanks man! Apprciate it.
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:39 AM
1

Exactly what you said. Don’t make excuses. Just be socially calibrated.
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:38 AM
0

Yup exactly
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:38 AM
0

Exactly what I said, you just made it true by your comment. Out of EVERYTHING I said, you pick that one particular word to comment on. Really, your comment just made what I said even more true to be honest and I don’t see why you feel so attacked by what I said. Hating on each other. Just because you get a girlfriend after some years does not mean you did not have meaningful relationships with others. A girlfriend is someone you really click with. Not just for fun.
/r/seduction24/01/21 09:37 AM
2

Just say you’d like to meet up some time when you’re not working. When you’re on that break you mention and having fun.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:50 PM
3

He’s begging her to validate him. Just reread the dm he sent. It screams ‘I’m a nice guy so notice me. You’re so hot I worship you’. I’m surprised she even answered that tbh. Then again, she may have wanted attention at that time.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:48 PM
2

Right on point. Taking the number is always better than giving your own.
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:30 AM
5

Giving her your number has a high flake chance. Girls don’t chase in the beginning thus their care level is low. Also they can be scared of engaging contact. It’s just not what girls do. This means there’s a high chance of never hearing from her again. Don’t understand how the ‘give her your number’ advices are upvoted. It’s rubbish. You do you but I wouldn’t give a girl my number unless there’s a real special occasion.
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:29 AM
2

So because you were forward and ‘a friend’ had ass photos on his phone it means the door is closed? She has too much bagage friend, close it down this aint the girl.
/r/seduction07/07/20 12:57 PM
1

To me those texts you sent a perfect. No need to worry. I’d somehow transition in setting up a date within a few texts.
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:48 AM
2

Good job man. One tip, if you decide to continue with the girl then at max do a fwb and don’t start a relationship with her. What she’s doing is a pretty hard red flag relationship wise
/r/seduction29/06/20 08:41 PM
1

That’s a great example of how not to open
/r/seduction20/06/20 04:38 PM
1

I see! Thanks for your reply mate :)
/r/seduction19/06/20 08:06 AM
2

Kudos to you for doing this. I read every single post of you. I’m wondering how many hours per day you put into this? Not putting you down bc I think this is amazing, but how do you manage to do this every day while keeping your ‘normal’ schedule
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:15 PM
2

I believe you misunderstood ‘mastered’ and meant ‘done first’. Also we can’t really discuss what’s going wrong with this because you’re giving zero info.
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:05 AM
3

Sorry to say but that’s a not working method in my opinion. Only 1 in 1000 women would do that. Having conversation you can show who you are even if it gets awkward: you acknowledge the awkwardness in the conversation and you both laugh about it. If I would’ve quit out when the convo got awkward then I wouldn’t have had half of the dates that I went on before.
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:53 PM
3

Love to read these. Very inspiring. I actually liked the reports where you gave more details a little more though. I’ve been lacking real hard in the approach department lately bc of this corona stuff and I hate it. Approach anxiety is back in full force :/. Should’ve gone for the number at the last one tho! Very promising interaction :).
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:04 PM
5

You're way off off the way I look at this sub. Sure the state of this sub has gone down recently, imho. However, for me it's always been about improvement. Improving on YOURSELF, not 'putting up an act' to summarize what you're saying. Everything is in perspective of course since yes, you can always use the info on this sub to make up some sort of act for yourself. Fake it till you make it kind of attitude (which actually can help some people improve themselves). The general consesus is/was self…
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:36 PM
2

Wait a few days
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:29 PM
0

Hahaha I laughed out loud. Actually, this would be a pretty funny opener to me if you can follow it up with something witty.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:29 PM
1

You're too attached
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:28 PM
2

Imho I think she's mentally unstable. Besides I believe you fucked up: 'I take the rejection as anyone should, and tell her its all good, no worries.' that was a test and you failed it. That said, it's probably a good thing you failed, I think you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:38 AM
16

This is very confusing mate. Please and thanks are two different words with different meanings used in different contexts, so I'm not really sure what you're on about here?
/r/seduction23/02/20 01:06 AM
1

You should definitely change your mindset. Everyone is insecure in their own way. Read the stickied topics on the sidebar 😉.
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:47 PM
3

It's only a disadvantage if you let it be. Turn it positive. Stop trying to change things you can't change.
/r/seduction22/02/20 03:28 PM
4

It's a learning process my friend no worries. At least you took the shot! I also still do the same thing as you sometimes when I'm nervous and compliment the girl on her looks. Try commenting on something that she chose, for example a dress she's wearing. You can say it fits her very well, which hints your attractiveness and compliments her choices.
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:58 PM
3

I applaud you for approaching her and getting your balls up. That's already half of the job. However, as you'll learn in time you don't wanna comment on her physical beauty 9/10 times. Like Kenic said was a perfect example.
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:51 PM
7

Even worse. You commented on something she can't do shit about.
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:46 PM
2

Username checks out
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:43 PM
6

I'm missing the 'seduction' value here. Having said that, I also don't get it in any other kinda context other than the supposed hint of whipped cream and sex?
/r/seduction14/02/20 07:55 PM
1

Let the conversation flow naturally and it'll get there. If the convo is okay, but not great but you still wanna pull through, simply say something like 'let's grab a coffee rn' if she can't then just say something in the sense of, let's do another time then what's your number? Obviously this is just one way to do it and the point is to let your own personality drive the 'let's go for.......' question. It'll come with experience
/r/seduction14/02/20 02:15 PM
1

Oh seems he deleted it. I was sarcastic because what he said offered zero value
/r/seduction14/02/20 02:12 PM
3

Thank you! Just happy to help. If you're gonna pull through with the rose thing you can put a little twist on it. I randomly thought of this: buy a bouquet of roses (if you cna find this non expensive otherwise a small one) and cold approach a girl like normal. Then if you have a great convo you can pretend the roses are for your mom cos you love her so much etc, but since you had a great convo this special rose is for her and then you take out a rose and give it to her. This makes it more genui…
/r/seduction14/02/20 01:10 PM
4

I'd try to just cold approach if I were you and try going on an insta date or a date sonewhere this day. Then on the date you can do the rose thing if you got to know each other. About your girl friends, the thing to keep in mind is that you don't ask a fish how to catch m. Same applies here even though it would seem logical and sweet (hell if a girl would do this I'd be flattered), however in a girls mind your already over invested in her simply bc of her looks. But like I said, try it dude! Co…
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:56 PM
1

Great advice! I'm gonna try this line
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:52 PM
3

Would be a little strange imo, don't think it would work but go ahead and try, I've never done it so I wouldn't know. Maybe I'm wrong and you'll meet your dream girl :).
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:50 PM
1

That changes things. If I received this from a girl I was into that would make me pretty joyful. However, he apparently said to you that he does not feel the same way as you do, as you say in your text so that still makes it a no no in my mind.
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:59 PM
1

Tbh you're way off here. What are you thinking you're going to achieve here? I seriously hope you're not thinking that you would win her over by sending this book of a text, if it would do anything is make her feel uncomfortable and not want to see you again because (reading from your text) she's not into you. This is the type of thing you'd send to your valentine on a card if you've been in a relationship for years and the fire is still going strong. You're probably going to send this text anyw…
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:55 PM
1

You really did not read what I said did you
/r/seduction03/02/20 07:29 PM
6

Harass? What's wrong with vibing with someone who's working, asking for her number and her then (politely) rejecting you? Unless you're a dumbass that continues trying to get with her it should be fine. This 'don't approach working girls' is such bull. I've approached working girls who I've gone on dates with and built connections. This whole don't approach them just is your anxiety talking making up excuses.
/r/seduction03/02/20 09:21 AM
5

Could you elaborate? I think alot of people would like to know how you got from no to many friends at a later age since most strong friendships are formed at school age
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:49 PM
1

I don't understand what you're asking here. First you say that you can't even imagine being with an older woman. So I guess what you're asking is how to approach them or something? You also then say you're not mature enough which leads me to believe your not attracted to them? I don't get it anymore. Anyway, let me tell you a little about older women anyways. Older women are more open to flirting, they're more confident with themselves. Most girls don't have that. They're still insecure asf and …
/r/seduction07/01/20 09:23 AM
16

Well tbh he should just forget about her. That FWB ain't gonna work out because he's clearly developing feelings for this girl
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:30 AM
1

You're still young! In fact, we may be even the same age. I asked because I read in another comment that you said you were very old, but in your 20s your life is still in its beginning :). Not comparing yourself to others is hard, I know, I used to do it and still do just sometimes. Truth is, nobody is perfect. If someone you admire has 1 thing you compare yourself to because it's such an amazing attribute, then they also have an attribute that is 'disgusting' if you know what I mean. Nothing wr…
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:23 PM
1

Comparing yourself to others will just make you feel more depressed. There's always going to be people more succesfull then you. I see myself as fairly succesfull, but when I compare myself to someone else, for example Pewdiepie the biggest youtuber who makes millions every year, then I'd probably feel depressed about not having that kind of success. Success is subjective anyway. ​ Using fillers may indicate you're not fulfilling your own happiness. May I know your age by the way? Just curious.
/r/seduction26/12/19 06:44 PM
1

Guys or girls that see you as inferior are not worth your time in general. They should see you as a fellow human being and treat you with respect. I can however see some kinda pattern. I wonder, and this is just a question, are you happy with yourself?
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:53 PM
5

Well this is most likely the cause of the place and time. For example, if you go to a bar or club you will encounter the party and cliche type of girl in 80% of the cases. The same applies to any other place. If you go to the library you'll (probably) find smart girls working on themselves 80% of the time. Now obviously I can't smell if this is the issue you're encountering, but I found that time and especially place are a huge indicator of the type of girls hanging around that spot. A tip is to…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:07 AM
38

When you have that confidence level, don't even think about getting girls. Work on your confidence and self worth first.
/r/seduction10/11/19 07:58 PM
3

You're pretty toxic in that thinking. Work on your inner game. You claim it's good but it's definitely not.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:21 PM
-1

It would be debateable if you were in a longer relationship but seeing that there's no real commitment... Yeah she's definitely getting destroyed down there. I'd say: move on with your life.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:16 PM
2

Just be yourself. I personally wouldn't text that much, only to set up a date but from her response I assume you must be in highschool or so. Either way you can turn her response into something useful for you. Something like 'Add tonight 7pm "drinks with jake2k8" to your list of chores wink face' or something like that. To me that's witty and funny, plus you take something she said and use it to your benefit really. That's just what I would do. So I'd say, take it as an example and make it your …
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:40 AM
2

Okay that means you want to get to know her. You're attracted to her right? Playing friends with her is wrong then, you're putting her and yourself up for failure and that's pretty toxic. Make your intentions clear. Just to be clear: you want to date her right?
/r/seduction30/09/19 03:01 PM
7

Rave events are actually pretty easy. There's lots of girls down to kissing there. The easiest way is this (honestly): go up to a girl and yell 'woooooo'. Yes. Literally that, I know it sounds ridiculous but you'll get the same reaction from her or another happy one. Then dance with her and go for the makeout after a little dancing.
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:58 PM
1

That's waaaayy to big of a text IMO. It's good to get pointers from it but keep it just a few words OP. Personally I'd do something like: "Hey name, coins here. Was nice meeting you at <place> yesterday, especially because of <witty/funny remark>. I'd like to know more about you. Let's grab a drink tomorrow evening at 8:00 if you're down" Or something like that if I semi-care. If I really wanna get to know this girl and know she's busy alot try to get some days she's available before setting up …
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:55 PM
3

You're lucky she didn't want a relationship. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:49 PM
3

If you're not already: you're getting close to the friendzone buddy. Either accept it and be a good friend to her, or you better shut down that 'Oh I am friendly and give you help so I can probably bang you later' attitude with her. She regards you as her friend and nothing else. Make a move before it's too late or don't and, like I said, just be her friend.
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:46 PM
1

It's pretty simple really. Book a hotel, have a great night, ask her to come with you for coffee upstairs, then it's 123. OR to have more 'security' tell her up front that you'll be bringing the best wine from <wherever, maybe your town> and you're gonna have some together at the end of the night.
/r/seduction22/09/19 05:23 PM
1

Gotta take some risks. If you like this girl go for it and show your intentions. Girls pull this 'I wanna be friends first' shit all the time. It's bullshit honestly. Trust me, they'll make a choice immediately if they really hit it off with someone. Treat this like a get to know each other face to face and a date in one. Make a move, no one will blame you. Make no moves, you'll at least blame yourself.
/r/seduction22/09/19 05:12 PM
5

I'm in Brabant, the Netherlands (its a province but if anyone's down and in this region hit me up)
/r/seduction21/09/19 10:14 PM
1

Some (actually I believe most!!) think it's good idea to send a text message 15 minutes after they sent the first one just because they think they will be forgotten or something. This is extremely needy and yeah it devalues worth it a woman's eyes (in guy's eyes also but more in a woman). Bombarding with texts is never a good idea.
/r/seduction21/09/19 09:42 PM
0

You don't ask the fish how to catch them. I also said, I appreciate that you try to help but your advice is not entirely good.
/r/seduction21/09/19 09:39 PM
12

Short answer: directness. Older women dig directness. They are more in touch with their sexuality and don't play around as much as younger females. They know what they want. So, be direct and honest with your intentions.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:16 PM
1

Yeah.. You should definitely not do this. It's great you wanna help but your remark about 'text her every morning and night' is not great advice. It gives signs of desperation and over investment. Getting to know her, then again, is good advice. Asking in depth questions is great.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:15 PM
3

This but I'd slightly change this/add to this. Tell her you wanna date her, if she says she's not interested in any way tell her you can't change how you feel and you really wanna date. This is gonna sound tough but if she doesn't want to, tell her that she can hit you up if she changes her mind, but you can't keep going like this feeling how you feel and leave.
/r/seduction21/09/19 12:47 PM
7

I laughed so hard at this, thank you lol
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:53 PM
5

Nice! Proud of you my friend. Now, this may seem like a lost opportunity but perhaps it's not. You can still go out for coffee with her and get to know her and perhaps become friends (unless you start falling in love which won't be good at this moment). Who knows, maybe she's a great person. That said, it also has benefits, maybe she has cute girl friends and this makes you have an edge with them already ;).
/r/seduction19/09/19 10:02 AM
16

I had a stroke reading this, but when my stroke was over I have to say that you're right.
/r/seduction17/09/19 12:57 PM
1

Try to get a time when she's available. It's always tricky to be the 'set-upper' because this means you're gonna ask for a specific time to hang out and if she can't at that time it's tricky to reschedule sometimes. You can try something as in her giving you some days/times she's available so you have some leverage instead of being like 'Let's get drinks at 19:00 - she can't - 'Okay let's get drinks at 20:00 in two days' - and so on and on. Seriously try to get some specific time so you can choo…
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:56 PM
34

Don't just meet women, meet everyone. Talk with everyone. Gain confidence in yourself and improve your lifestyle. May seem strange but it will all help you.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:16 AM
2

I'm 25 right now. I started this journey so to say a little over 5 years ago so when I started I was around 19 some where.
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:15 AM
1

Okay! grabs bag
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:14 AM
1

Thanks! And thanks for reading
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:14 AM
1

No problem! Glad this helps
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:14 AM
2

Nice! I'm glad this gave you sorta a boost. Yes it's actually great way to improve other facets of your life as well. For example if you do something that scares the shit outta you, whatever it is, afterwards you feel like you can do anything and perhaps try something else that scares you too! Since you're still in that state of mind
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:13 AM
1

That's awesome!
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:11 AM
5

Nice man! Good job on taking action and doing this. Proud of ya. Next time flirt a little more and make your intentions clear. Seems to me you talked with her about really trivial things. Anyway it's all a learning process so good job!
/r/seduction11/09/19 08:53 AM
2

Become a plumber or pizza delivery guy. I heard they fuck alot of leather couches.
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:22 PM
2

You've been best friends for a long time. You already get along great and like each other. It's actually a good thing you're going on an actual date and see if there's more between you. Don't worry, just take it as it comes. Maybe it'll be awkward the first minutes but after that you're most likely gonna have a great date. Imho more best friends (m-f) should go on a date since they get along really well already.
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:19 PM
19

Congrats man! I am very proud of you. Let this be the first of many :). I see you made alot of progress not only with girls but in life. Nice!!!
/r/seduction31/08/19 07:40 PM
2

Cliche as fuck, but just do it. That doesn't help much but it's true. You see, approaching gives anxiety. And, no joke , it feels like you're gonna die... And people don't want to die obviously. This exact feeling is why you won't approach and at the same time HAVE to do it. You NEED to progress YOU as a person. If there were some pieces of advice I can give you.. Work on yourself first. Do things you love doing and have a goal in life. Don't only focus on girls but focus on multiple things. Wor…
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:46 PM
6

Why in the world would you go for a girl that won't talk to you, won't interact with you, won't go on a date with you UNLESS she notices she's losing your attention for her. Then she dares punch you in the stomach (even playful, fuck off). Put her on the spot and be clear with her. Then it's her decision. And why in the world would you apologize??? But yeah I bet this is a classic 'I want what I can't have' issue since this Jess friend seems way more fun.
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:38 PM
2

This is what I thought exactly. I didn't even know the real age but I 100% thought this was a middle school thing.
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:36 PM
4

You'll probably get a few advice pieces here but I'd say that you need to see a therapist about this. We don't know the full context of the problem and aren't really qualified to deal with this. If you considered taking viagra I wouldn't bother since the root of the problem is deeper and having sex probably won't even be enjoyable to you. So, try and find a good therapist.
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:33 PM
85

Faking it can actually be a great stimulant to bring out the best in yourself. Trust me I know. It was one of the things that helped me build myself up more. Faking confidence showed me that life would be better being a more confident human being. So I started working towards the goal of actually being more confident in myself. So no, it's not bad advice. It's only bad advice if you don't act upon it.
/r/seduction27/08/19 09:45 PM
3

Yeah like Captain_w00t said it's hypothetical as in (to clarify) you probably won't be a pro karting guy on your first day, but with practice and gaining more knowledge about karting you'll get better and better! Same thing applies here. That is what I meant with steps.
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:43 PM
112

You ask 'what is the point'. This makes me feel you need to work on your self worth. You're valuable and you should do things that are fun to you, have meaning to you. Fuck girls right now, it's not your priority. Work on yourself, get hobbies, get a purpose in life <- these are the things that you need to work on first. Basically: you're trying to do level 7 right now when you're not even on level 2.
/r/seduction26/08/19 12:30 PM
2

In reality you shouldn't be having to not respond on purpose. If you're busy with something you're automatically not able to respond. If you're just chilling this most likely means you're on your phone to respond. Depends on your life situation I guess. Just conversate woth her a few minutes (and if it's real fun continue some longer) , then go do something for yourself. I mean, you should be getting to know each other in real life anyway.
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:59 AM
1

Yeah ghosting isn't needed at all. I agree with you.
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:57 AM
1

Yeah don't just dissapear but also don't text for an hour straight
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:56 AM
2

Well since you reconnected on a dating site and go out I think it's pretty obvious it's a date. Physically stating 'this is a date' without any joke behind it is really cringe. You don't fuck this up by wednesday by laying a bit low until the date. Don't OVER-chat. You can definitely chat with each other but not all the time. You basically just reconnected and if you keep chatting with her all the time it will seem needy. If you had a few dates and a good time you can increase chatting but not n…
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:14 PM
1

Well you know each other so she's probably going to be receptive to your invite. If she's the one that asked to meet alone then definitely go for it. If you don't ask her then you don't know. You could also go do something fun first and then invite her to 'watch a movie' or 'drink a coffee' after
/r/seduction22/07/19 07:45 AM
1

I have to disagree hard on this. Being direct and open with my intentions, making clear I think the girl is cute gave me way more success than being indirect.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:53 AM
2

Exactly this. If he decides to go in a relationship with her she wil definately start fucking other guys. Highest she should be is a FWB
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:25 AM
1

Sounds to me you're the on not being clear with her at all. Fair enough I only skimmed even only skimming I can see that you're not picking up on signals AND not being clear with her at all. She says she wants to be friends with you, you accept this, but in reality you don't want to be friends with her at all. That's just douchebag behaviour and sending alot of mixed signals to her. IF you really want to be her friend then that's fine, just don't go telling her you're her friend while secretly y…
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:01 AM
1

Honestly, it is kinda weird if you see them some times and you don't say anything. What Polarizingpotato suggested is a good thing to do if you actually want to go through with this, but I'd try to talk with her in real life.
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:16 PM
2

Now, I am not sure if the actual book was bad... Or if you got sucked because you read it :P
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:11 PM
6

It's good you're working on yourself and still approach. Seems you are looking negative. Look at it this way: right now you're gaining alot of experience with approaching, so when you're more confident with your looks, you already have experiences with the dos and don'ts
/r/seduction04/06/19 09:43 PM
1

I mean, it depends what she's like and looks like, there are girls that age that behave and look like they're in their twenties at taht age; they're mature. To me that is what matters most in these cases.
/r/seduction01/06/19 02:19 PM
1

Seems to me you're not that busy as you make it seem. If you really had things to do you wouldn't be thinking so much about her texting you. My advice is to go do something, lift weights or something. Leaves your mind doing something else.
/r/seduction26/05/19 09:09 PM
2

Ask her out for drinks or whatever else fun. You can think of. Only texting is a waste of time.
/r/seduction26/05/19 09:06 PM
1

The only pointer I got is, just do it! Really. That's 90%. Go up to someone and start with 'Hi'. Even if you fall flat at that point, you have gained experience for the one you approach after that!
/r/seduction24/05/19 02:23 PM
2

I don´t know what to tell you other than grow some balls. These girls TELL you they want you and that you´re their type, and you still don´t make a move. And even if you get rejected, you don´t die.
/r/seduction19/05/19 12:45 PM
2

Definately the wrong subreddit for this
/r/seduction19/05/19 12:44 PM
0

Amazing deduction skills
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:45 PM
1

Couldn't say it better. Exactly this^
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:45 PM
1

Extremely busy? Come on, high school. Anyway, ask her out for ice cream or something. Then after some time escalate and you can go from there.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:44 PM
1

Go on a date, escalate and have sex. Not that hard ay.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:42 PM
1

You need to become self sustainable. Right now you're looking for validation and happiness in other people than you. YOU should be enough for YOU. A girl is EXTRA happiness. Get a hobby, get good at something. Hit the gym. Get confident
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:40 PM
2

She thinks this is gonna be work for her, not a date at all. You set this up as a work appointment rather than a date
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:37 PM
1

Just kiss her. Seems she wants it
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:35 PM
1

Screenshot sent to friend 'So what do I need to reply to what he said Sarah?'
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:33 PM
3

You can try but don't expect too much. Even if you do go on a date and hit it off and gain attraction for on another, keep in mind : she gave a blowjob to a stranger right after meeting him.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:29 PM
2

Too little context to go on here
/r/seduction12/05/19 10:14 AM
2

Yup, this exactly 99% of the time
/r/seduction07/05/19 12:59 PM
9

Works for approaching 1/10000 girls in a club. For the other 9999 this is not accurate at all. Talking about war and politics? really?????. The only one of two accurate things in here is the IOI on a girl smiling to you. While I appreciate you trying to give some advice ; as the old wise saying goes: 'don't take pick-up advice from a girl'. In a club environment there is high energy going on. Talking about heavy topics isn't the reason why people go to a club at night. They go to have fun, let l…
/r/seduction07/05/19 12:50 PM
2

Too little info to get a conclusion my friend
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:59 PM
1

First step is to get busy living your life. Seems you're in need of more confidence. Get hobbies and things to do.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:57 PM
1

So if I read this correctly, you're saying you have to push yourself to have sex with random girls? Basically you're not attracted to them at all but you still push yourself to have sex with them? I only have sex with girls I have a connection - a click - with, if I don't then I am not attracted to them. So I still don't get it why you feel the need to have sex with girls you're not attracted to.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:55 PM
0

Depends what type of approach you're going for. The direct or indirect approach. I find direct approaches weed out alot of the girls that are disinterested (they can also be busy atm) , that said, you may also weed out (just a few) girls that would be more interested when indirectly approached. Make your interest known to her. A good way to approach would be to just do it and be open. 'Hey this is gonna sounds so random but I thought you were really cute and wanted to come talk to you for a bit'…
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:51 PM
0

Seems she lost interest because she thinks you lack initiative. Invite her out.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:48 PM
2

A tip to start is ask for trivial things and see that they don't bite (well 99.9999% don't). Seriously when I started and still EVEN more scared, I asked for the time and some nearby place a few times
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:43 PM
6

This is what happens when you take action! I'm happy for you 😄👌👌.
/r/seduction28/03/19 10:14 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:17 PM
3

Noo it does not mean that my friend. If you want to get laid you can still do it even if you don't! Only for an actual relationship I'd get my shit together. That said, every moment is ok to approach; even if you're homeless. You'll at least learn from the experience and your balls will grow.
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:17 PM
1

Yeah true true. I don't really mind if someone asks advice though. For me it's more that it seems like half of the guys that 'seem' to know their stuff on here are selling stuff instead of trying to actually help because of generosity
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:15 PM
1

Haha thank you! Started reading the sub a couple of years (5-6 or something) ago and somehow the vibe has changed a little. I've yet to actually pinpoint what's different but one thing is the field reports indeed. Anyways, I have just a few more field reports that I never posted. I may still post them now though :) .
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:06 AM
2

Yes! I wasn't even planning to go to this fair also even though I had tickets, didn't want to. I decided I'd go 1 day before the fair. Besides meeting this girl, I am glad I went.
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:02 AM
1

Tyvm 😉
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:01 AM
1

I guess if you approach a hot girl like an equal, in an environment where she's looked at like she's an actual angel, you're two steps ahead since you got the balls to actually act.
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:00 AM
2

Thank you! Do it, I'd like to read it
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:56 AM
2

Yeah, since I don't really have this right now. At the moment I have a small social circle which consists of just a couple friends. My career at the moment consists of a service-freelance based career which is not blasting off into the sunset so to speak. Still, I seduced this girl (and she me :p). That said, if I had my shit together career wise, I think it wouldn't have been better in the end game. Like I mentioned in a different comment ; I started liking her more , she didn't like me more. I…
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:55 AM
10

Haha who knows. She did want me hard again after though so I believe I am not that bad 😉. Nah, thing is that we wanted to have sex more and be more intimate. I developed feelings, she didn't have any, so we stopped and did not do it anymore. I wanted more than she did. Our situations changed also that was also a factor in all of this. Who knows. Perhaps some day in the future we will do it again when both our situations are normal (we're still very touchy with each other), not waiting for this t…
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:47 PM
11

Thank you, I am glad I went ahead and did not listen to the excuses!
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:43 PM
3

Sounds to me you got to work on yourself first my friend. Be confident in yourself first before going for girls. It's fine to admit things instead of faking you heard someone. In my head this situation could go something like this, just a simple converstaion: U 'Hey sorry I did not catch that my headphones are so loud, what were you saying?' Her 'Oh I said, have a nice weekend haha' U 'Ah damn, you too. Seems it's gonna be real beach weather. Hey how long till you get off duty?' Her 'Too long! <…
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:27 PM
1

I'd start with something funny/witty. For example something to do with the situation the two of you met each other in, or her education (Example: if she's being schooled as a psychologist make a witty remark about that in reference to yourself). After that, you can ask her yes... But I'd do: Let's hang out after the break. This way you don't ask her directly but simply invite her. Maybe a small detail, but it works for me (not saying asking won't work, it's whatever you're comfortable with mate)…
/r/seduction23/11/18 10:14 PM
13

Make out with the boyfriend. This way you can convey your alpha status to the girl. /s
/r/seduction23/11/18 10:08 PM
99

Do whatever you want. Seems you are keeping up a fake persona for this girl if you miss her too but don't tell her. Look dude in reality, the fact that you're scared of telling her you miss her is beta. Being alpha is doing what YOU want, if you miss her tell her. If she leaves you for that or thinks less of you, good riddance.
/r/seduction23/11/18 07:30 PM
15

Good job! You did it though! First times are always hard. Be more concious of yourself I'd say. Recognize you're speaking too fast in that moment and speak a little slower. it's hard at first but you can do it. You can practice talking to yourself in the mirror, it's weird as fuck at first right? Well isn't that the same principle ;).
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:14 PM
7

Being direct states your intentions immediately. IMHO this is the best way to convey how you see her in a confident way. I feel like, if I don't do it, I go around it and the 'succes' I have drops immense, girls feel this. If you're walking down the street and see an attractive girl you can approach her and be direct to what you see. Interesting dress? Nice hair? Great shoes or whatever? Tell her and start conversation. Different scenario: you see an attractive girl doing something interesting, …
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:11 PM
2

Your next text should be a setup to meet up with her in an OPEN environment. She´s clearly uncomfortable but seems open to the idea. It´s either that, or she simply likes the attention you're giving her and that's all. Trying to continue a conversation through text will end up being boring. It's like a hill you're climbing, when you're at the top you should acknowleg you should go for the hangout, if you don't , you'll end up only going down No reply or a ´I can´t´ type response? Don't waste you…
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:01 PM
12

Good thinking. So when you're 60 you'll want to be 20 again! Honestly dude. If you like being old that much, do old people stuff.
/r/seduction01/11/18 08:23 AM
15

I'd say #2 is out of the picture. Either go for #1 or don't go at all
/r/seduction23/10/18 10:25 AM
4

Watched this guy's videos some time ago. He's seriously a role model in this field
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:41 PM
2

Wouldn't fret. She's not interested and has all the power. Trust me I was in this situation recently. Basically you're not a challenge anymore. You're a certain element in her life, she knows you want her. Now here's the thing. She sounds like a great girl so being friends with her sounds good to me. However, if you can't handle ber being involved with someone else you need to lay off communication and concentrate on living your own life and meet more women.
/r/seduction25/09/18 08:39 PM
22

Holy shit this happened to me exactly this year. I met a great fucking girl, 10/10 in EVERYTHING (Yes, looks and personality all that shit). It was just 'meant to be' you know. Fast forward 4 weeks she doesn't know if she wants a relationship since she had bad ones, okay I'll give her time -> we have sex -> I become more 'needy' since I start to see her as a girlfriend instead of fwb -> she likes to be FWB instead of bf gf and tells me this -> I still want to be in a relationship with her -> she…
/r/seduction24/09/18 03:33 PM
0

Seems to me it is not at all a plug for your own event where you're affiliated with. Plug or not, if you're reading this dyor on the event. It may even be good, I wouldn't know.
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:59 PM
20

Exactly this, although I do agree that MEETING other girls and getting to know them IS a way of 'curing' oneitis, all the while reflecting on yourself. Not necessarily starting a relationship with the first girl you bump into, no, just get to know them and 'have fun' and eventually you will see the REAL qualities you dig in women and the type of women that also fall for you. Because, why would you love someone that doesn't love you back for who you are.
/r/seduction05/08/18 12:26 PM
1

I got the same issue really, with a girl I am really into that is. It's like the tension just fades away cause you (in this case her) gets to know you more, and there's no mystery anymore because now she knows you. Yup, same thing here.
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:42 PM
16

You're doing things systematically. It doesn't work for everyone. Actually LIVE EVERY approach you do. From what you wrote it seems you are doing these approaches in some robotic way. Aside from that, work on yourself. It seems you got some issues going on. If you don't yet, 'get a life' meaning, get hobbies and things to do. Right now it seems you are focussed solely on approaching and women. Women can smell that, it's true! Look, I get it. But the first step is realizing that rejection is just…
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:33 PM
22

Imo you can send a second text (non needy type) after some time, but if it's still read then forget about her. Anyhow nice job there, seems you found a very aware girl that doesn't seem to play games.
/r/seduction10/05/18 05:43 PM
1

I'd do something in the sense of: "I don't want to lead you on, when we are going to meet up, it will be in a date setting.".
/r/seduction23/02/18 04:09 PM
1

I read OP and it´s pretty interesting to think about the situation. Question to you, how would you tell her that you´re not interested in her ´as friends´, and not be a dick? They made out as OP says so there must be some type of sexual tension going on.
/r/seduction23/02/18 02:48 PM
3

Routines? I used to think routines were awesome. In the end it isn't, at least not for me. To me it is too unnatural and not fun. Good luck with the date ans good job anyway!
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:52 AM
2

He wants the D for himself
/r/seduction17/02/18 08:09 AM
1

Yeah I could have owned it and I semi did since I didn't know them. Made some quick interactions with lots of others
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:55 PM
1

Yeah I did something similar! Will fr soon
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:54 PM
1

I'm so glad I went! I will FR soon :)
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:54 PM
4

Hey can you elaborate more on the brunch spots with a party vibe? What type of events do you mean? I'm interested. Also, do you mean cold approach here?
/r/seduction31/01/18 02:20 PM
19

Very true! Only thing I have to add is don't always just ask questions but try to make statements as well. Otherwise you go into interviewer mode and that is either boring or frustrating. For example. Instead of asking 'why did you go to the library?' you could say something on the same level as the question: 'You must be a student otherwise you wouldn't be at the library' or more witty as 'Huh library. They have the internet nowadays' something like that.
/r/seduction02/11/17 12:34 PM
5

I DON'T know why (THE EMPHASIS) is PUT on | RANDOM WORDS | well actually - I DO - . You're just trying to sell your shit. Your post history shows it. Nothing wrong with selling your 'knowledge' but you are spamming it. Don't believe it is working out for you eh. Anyhow, the picture's message is true.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:16 PM
2

[NOT CLICKBAIT, NEARLY DIED¡¡¡¡¡¡)]
/r/seduction21/10/17 09:32 PM
9

She either friendzoned you hard OR she thinks you're already together (both in her head). Find out which one.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:22 AM
1

Just say hi. What is the worst that can happen. Ask yourself this: you want to keep feeling like shit when you do not approach or do you want to know who the girl is and know if she is someone you can be with? Also the 'don't approach, girls approach you' is very bad advice in my opinion. I heard it before but that shit never happens because girls are not built to do that sort of thing. It is a very easy getaway gate for people not to approach and satisfy themselves by using such a toxic excuse.
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:00 PM
2

And they are both wood
/r/seduction31/07/17 01:36 PM
37

He could always grab banana. If you catch my drift :').
/r/seduction31/07/17 08:21 AM
11

And this list is exactly why you should not listen to a woman when it comes to dating advice... Or any advice but that's up for debate. Seriously a fucking huge list of what you "could" do "wrong" ? I wouldn't date this girl. Sure she has some good points (which would be obvious to me). But shit, there's a reason a 10/10 is on a dating site.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:24 PM
1

Err okay? I guess snapchat's TMZ news is pua learning material now.
/r/seduction02/07/17 05:50 PM
7

Are you me? You just worded my thoughts. Seriously, if instagram was real life (whores, douchebags and needy guys) , it would be this video because it has all in one.
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:38 PM
2

0.o where in the world do YOU live.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:42 PM
2

Would like to know this too. You probably already know the direct opener (you're cute) will build some tension and make your intentions clear. But after that, I want to know it too. I try to get in some kino like high fives in there and tease her some.
/r/seduction27/06/17 09:10 PM
4

They owe you zero, squat, nothing. You're mad at someone because YOU do not approach any girl? I bet you're the type of guy that says, fuck this girl that just walked past me for not coming up to me and kiss me. You need to work on your inner game my friend.
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:37 PM
1

Well that ain't fair haha. Yeah 16 is a little too young for me anyway. She did not seem that mature and kinda childish (couldn't handle you're cute opener). By the way I have seen some of your fr's. I think I have some open on my mobile phone tab
/r/seduction26/06/17 06:27 PM
1

Exactly. If this is his emotional state after a shit test she gave him (yeah a simple shit test which he failed) he should work on inner game and confidence before trying to pick up girls. Op, you seem to have immediately jumped into defense mode when she declared that she probably didn't want a second date. I would have shrugged it off and either told her that I didn't know about that either (where she probably would have replied with why instead of you) and when you already asked the why quest…
/r/seduction25/06/17 03:58 PM
3

Meaning in, I approach a woman on facebook for the first time ever and I never met her? Honestly, don't do it. This is advice your may not want to hear but still. You will save yourself a lot of time and effort here. I know what you're thinking but you shouldn't do it. Out of the 1000 women you may message, 1 may be kind of interested ans the still drag out your time to friendzone you. Advice: approach during the day. 100x more difficult but 10000000x more efficient both for yourself and the gir…
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:40 AM
1

Bare minimum, simply go out!
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:32 PM
8

Wrong mindset imo. Don't wait. Do something productive and forget about it. Not just wait. Little twist in the road on what you said. Good subject though, great post.
/r/seduction18/06/17 04:33 PM
1

Since you have feelings for the girl and deep down don't want to be just friends (being just friends is ok only it ain't when you expect to get something out of it (probably the case here as in friendzone)), either tell her that you want to have a date with her and like her more than just friends or pursue other women. Seems to me you're devoting all your time to catching a single fish when you can catch others. This is also the answer to your question. If I see a dude clinging (as in doing ever…
/r/seduction01/06/17 10:39 AM
1

Hmm maybe start up with indirect openers and change to what your intention is in a few seconds. So you're already talking to the girl when you are stating your actual intention.
/r/seduction25/05/17 12:20 PM
1

Thank you! Yeah! Share your awesomeness :).
/r/seduction25/05/17 12:19 PM
2

Good to hear it inspired you! Being on that other side of the fence, there are still fences. But looking back at the fence I just jumped, it was alot smaller than I thought it was!! Yes just do it man :). Maybe indirect opener into a direct opening. It's easier when you're already having a conversation.
/r/seduction25/05/17 12:19 PM
1

Doing this has been an eye opener for me. Even though I felt awkward at times (especially first conversation) I still wanted to go through with it.
/r/seduction24/05/17 03:20 PM
1

My thoughts exactly
/r/seduction22/05/17 11:33 AM
3

Start at the basis man. You go from 1 to 100 but what you don't know is how you did it. You need to take small steps, not a huge one that luckily works. Analyze what you did those nights to get close with the girl. Then practice that with some girls, doesn't work? Find another way! Seems to me you need to just get some confidence in you. Try chatting up random people. Just a hey how are you doing, so how did you end up at this party, or some other random stuff is fine especially at night when pe…
/r/seduction20/05/17 09:58 AM
1

Good job Op but to me this feels more as a business agreement, would make mine fall down quick.
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:45 PM
1

Well, tinder.
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:43 PM
24

Seems you're already invested big time in a girl you never really met, but that's not your question. Does not seem you don't have time to do things? Stop texting for three days and you got at least three hours for a date (you said you text at least 1 hour a day). Also you can't expect to learn 24/7 you also need a break. Which in this case would be your date with her.
/r/seduction21/04/17 02:11 PM
1

This exactly
/r/seduction21/04/17 08:58 AM
6

So moral of the story: be a millionaire? Good it worked for you but you're investing hundreds of $$$ in girls you just met. Guess it worked out for you in this case but in a normal situation it would work opposite.
/r/seduction19/04/17 11:50 AM
7

Don't do something to someone you would not like yourself. What i am saying is this: would you like to be cheated on? You could say, if she doesn't do it with me then someone else, sure but hey that is my opinion. I would inform the boyfriend and leave the situation at that. After that it is gor them to decide.
/r/seduction16/02/17 11:06 PM
2

A compliment is just fine man. Dont make it about her beauty but about what shes wearing. Maybe her shirt or dress really fits her, maybe the coloir does. A genuine compliment.
/r/seduction18/11/16 10:45 AM
1

Whats with the negativity? No seriously? Did he do something you guys cannot? Hmm
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:05 PM
1

Aight man great job! Now continue this path!
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:31 PM
5

This is upvoted why? Seems like another prankinvasion chan though.
/r/seduction02/11/16 12:23 PM
1

That's a great list and will read thoroughly later. HEY, it would be a good idea to dedicate some text to "how to deal with <specific point>" when that happens to you. For example, when someone is on their phone the whole time, what do you do.
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:09 AM
1

Great post mate. Needed this one!
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:13 AM
1

You do care about her. You care about her opinion of you. Truth be told, tinder sucks if you don't have 100% confidence. I had women be all playfull with me on tinder and suddenly shut me down and be incredibly mean to me. Mate, I suggest cold approaching for you if you got the balls. If you don't yet then take up a hobby;do something that will make you feel like a boss.
/r/seduction22/10/16 10:26 AM
1

Good question, would like to know this too. I read that you should include him in the conversation but if possible just keep your interaction with the girl going. Though, if this guy is the type of guy to talk all time and overpower you should include him ask him questions but eventually leave somewhere with your girl. Just what I read though gh!
/r/seduction01/10/16 09:22 PM
6

You´re the kind of: "I met a bitch yesterday" "All women are bitches" Extremely toxic thinking.
/r/seduction27/09/16 12:35 PM
1

Great motivational post man! You are completely right.
/r/seduction25/09/16 09:14 PM
2

This is great, thanks for sharing :)!
/r/seduction24/09/16 03:27 PM
2

Its ok its a legit reason, honestly when I have alot of tests i dont have time either. Schedule a time in the week she said shes available and bring up that day and time to her. If she cant, then she should make up the time and date.
/r/seduction20/09/16 09:24 AM
3

One on one is best. You will get to know her and she will get to know you. However, on the other side, if you're good in groups, can lead the group you will gain alot of prestige in her eyes. I'd go one on one though.
/r/seduction19/09/16 07:23 PM
3

You're already going in for results, you shouldn't do that. Just approach her and go for the date instead of already expecting the date, kiss and sex.
/r/seduction19/09/16 07:06 PM
2

Confront her. OR Drop her. Why drop her? Ask yourself: do you want to be with someone that takes someone elses say as the complete truth? Without talking with you first? Nice friend too, dump that guy hes not a real friend. Sure he may think its fun but it isn't at all.
/r/seduction10/09/16 11:24 AM
5

More importantly, approaching women is super hard for most guys, and I feel like a lot of you guys are psyching yourself out and not making any progress because you are too afraid to take the first step. I even saw a guy who posted “I’ve been lurking for 5 years and I just did my first approach!!” It blew my mind – you wasted five years of your life that you could have been hanging out with girls because you got hung up on approaching? That’s crazy!! Instead of blowing your own mind with obsessi…
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:09 AM
1

I could write up an fr if you're interested? Honestly I just said what came up in my mind and let her do most talking (yes holy shit girls talk alot even when approached by stranger, at least this one did!). Built on topics through mentioned keywords in sentences.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:13 PM
1

Thanks and awesome! Yes its amazing right? You too man! I feel tired of not acting!
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:11 PM
1

Haha :p. Idk how but the topic in the conversation suddenly turned into fingering and sperm! Yes although this one was ok, when I see a gal in the distance THATS when I get huge anxiety since my brain has to think about it zi guess. Thank you :)
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:11 PM
1

Yeah I will! It felt really awesome and was so pumped. Me too! We had a good vibe.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:09 PM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:08 PM
3

Honestly I am average to good looking when I want to look good. Maybe its my feeling, maybe its what everyone sees. I KNOW that if I wouldve gotten this girl on tinder or pof or okcupid or whatever site, I would get zero response! Day game is the key!
/r/seduction05/09/16 08:53 PM
3

Geez look at all these haters. Haha fun to see that this post can be EXACTLY placed on these dudes. Haters, a few words to thou, read between the lines and take everything with a grain of salt. This is an amazing post. Alot of valuable information.
/r/seduction05/09/16 05:06 PM
4

Man, you got balls! Imo she responded positivelyBecause most guys do not have the guts to approach. Job well done!!!
/r/seduction02/09/16 01:32 PM
6

"I'm throwaway4pantsnpuss, nice to meet you." haha made me smile. Great approach dude, you had the balls. Next time try to be more direct and see if that works for you. Something as in "i like your clothing style" but only if you truly like her style.
/r/seduction31/08/16 08:14 AM
2

You're gonna get bigger replies than this one, but, looking at what you described it all comes down to this for you: 1. Build confidence (get hobby's, start saying hi to random persons and evolve in this. Generally feel better about yourself and your life). 2. You go out to have sex? Change your mindset. Go out and have fun. APPROACH, but have an idc mindset with this. If you do not shoot you will never hit your target. Hope this helped if just for a bit.
/r/seduction20/08/16 04:24 PM
2

Face it, you dont have your life lined up right now. You have to make sure you do before you start approaching. Feel GOOD about yourself before you want to share your happyness and joy with others. Get your life straightened out, set goals. These will help you to see where you want to go. Take a pen right now and write down 5 things you want to achieve in your life and a 0-10 # of where you are with achieving them right now. The friends at work, ask them if they wanna hang out later! Get hobbies…
/r/seduction24/07/16 06:18 PM
1

Ask yourself this: If it would be easy, would it still be fun or challenging to do? If it would be easy, you have nothing to learn any more. Dont say the same shit ooover and oover again. Thats indeed boring both for you and the girl. Keep it fun, entertain yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/16 06:09 PM
3

Good luck man. You can only win here
/r/seduction20/07/16 06:14 PM
1

Etiquette? No should have shot at it bro but without being a jerk. Most likely they approached those males since 30+ guys have their shit together: house, job and are where they want to be in life or getting there real soon. The previous, or those dudes got robbed.
/r/seduction14/07/16 05:29 PM
2

Look, either they are bored with you since they have more 'important' things to to or they are in their phones since you both are taking a picture or similar. Here is what I do when such a thing happens. I give a girl one chance to redeem herself. First one, I put my hand over the phone and say 'I believe the most exciting thing to do is sitting across you right at this moment', in a cocky funny way. The second time I just go to other people and talk.
/r/seduction03/06/16 02:12 PM
1

Exactly. Depends what is attractive in your eyes though. Your reply indicates you mean facial attraction. This is wrong. Be yourself but be it 100%!
/r/seduction28/05/16 05:30 PM
1

Yes but think of it like this. If you do not talk to them, you are selfish. Chat them up, 8/10 want you to. Hell, if I have a realization on my facial frowns and so when I am walking I am thinking 'damn I must have looked angry', when I am really not. Same with other people.
/r/seduction28/05/16 11:47 AM
7

"I read it in a study by a NASA Military Scientist from Harvard" Really? Shit I gotta read that! (LINK? :D). Great approach man. Keep it up, all I can say really you did amazing.
/r/seduction24/05/16 01:26 PM
3

Make it clear to X that you want to see other women too and just want to be FWB. None of this secretive bullshit please.
/r/seduction13/05/16 08:47 AM
1

Great advice not just applying to women but to all people. There is a little bit discussion possible here though. What about work and you have a colleague you hate? You can't really avoid him but your job is great and you don't want to leave. What I would do is just keep the relationship as thin as possible here. There are always situations where you will need to conversate with the colleague but then it still applies. Short: I'd replace women with 'people'.
/r/seduction12/05/16 06:46 AM
1

Yeah there is alot of gold here but alot of shit here as well. If you're able to see through the crap advice and take everything on the sub with your own twist you're in. The sidebar is a tip I could give.
/r/seduction08/05/16 08:20 PM
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Congrats man. All first things are the hardest but that does not mean that next time it won't be hard to. You were direct, that is good but you should build a little more rapport before going for the #. You have the balls mate. Good job and keep going!
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:30 PM
1

This... Wrong sub man. My take: forget tinder and approach in the real world.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:03 PM
63

Wow people in this sub don't read sidebarred posts anymore. I Remember coming here about 2-3 years ago and have grown so much just from those posts. Perhaps OP phrased it wrong. I would say "It is about having fun, meeting new people and being your true self whether others like it or not."
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:00 PM
1

Read the sidebar. Use the search function. TL:DR: Looks don't matter. It's about your own confidence. Answer is yes
/r/seduction29/04/16 08:56 AM
1

Be straight forward and say what you want to do with her. FwB, relationship or quit.
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:59 PM
3

Good job man. If you wouldn't have done it your oneitis would grow here. Now keep approaching!!
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:56 PM
2

Dont shit where you eat. Old saying here. That said, you didn't make your intentions clear obviously so you didn't game anyone.
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:55 PM
1

Any bigger cities close to you +- 15 minutes away? Practice there. Truth is, even if you get blown out you win since you did it and gained XP
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:54 PM
0

Spa/swimming pool. People usually shower there.
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:50 PM
2

TLDR: Say what you think + self promotion.
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:48 PM
2

Did we fuck up here or not? Mate you didn't fuck at all!
/r/seduction31/03/16 02:14 PM
1

Yeah I know. Thanks for your comment! I don't think I'm his only friend but I am he screwed it up big time.
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:15 AM
1

Yes, but I believe in second chances, not thirds. This was the last strike here. Thanks for the quote :).
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:13 AM
2

You're right. I should have confronted him on the spot which was my mistake. I was no asshole though through speech. I confronted him through text and told him to call me today. Thank you!
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:12 AM
2

Man! Way to go :D. Don't stick to this girl though but meet others too! Anyway, amazing!!
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:12 AM
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I read 'mdma'. Im out of here
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:15 AM
1

Weird but you got the date.
/r/seduction22/02/16 09:39 PM
1

Unless you're into married men and old ladies. In fact I dont see any girls the whole day there.
/r/seduction22/02/16 07:33 PM
6

Great initiative but I think that 24 hours is going to be short for your later missions. For example I work the whole day behind a desk and that basically means that it would be impossible to go out during the day. Anyway you could extend the time for later ones, when you're going to approach a cute girl for example. Keep it up!
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:54 AM
2

What do you make of this: 1. Either you want to keep this girl in your life, then keep the number and set up another date. 2. Or you want to ditch her and delete her # Honestly showing up with a random guy on a DATE would be a no go for me.
/r/seduction07/02/16 04:42 PM
1

What is with some of these comments? 'Dont direct approach'? What the fuck that's the whole idea hahaha! She's 90% out of my head, still thinking that she's beautiful THIS! She's out of your head now! What if you did not approach? You would be stuck in an endless loop and only think about her. Good man and YOU approached. Amazing!
/r/seduction05/02/16 06:07 PM
1

Awesome post. Really enjoyed reading it and thank you for sharing! This does not just apply to female seduction but to general too. Currently I am in a situation where I am rather uncomfortable with myself, work. This is because I just started and people here are different than what I am used to. They talk about stuff I don't know anything about to each other like theyre talking about the most fun thing you can imagine. I don't say the things that I think. Everything just comes so incredibly slo…
/r/seduction05/02/16 10:22 AM
13

How does this have 150+ kudos. This should be '12 tips of what not to do'.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:56 PM
16

Sweet dreams
/r/seduction08/01/16 08:19 PM
1

Noord-Brabant
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:13 PM
2

Haha you got me there mate! I guess so too. It probably was more fun just you being up there than with a girl you pulled up!
/r/seduction22/08/15 06:33 PM
1

This completely!
/r/seduction22/08/15 06:02 PM
1

First step taken man! Good job :). some girls told me to get off but fuck them Dafuq? They think they got the only rights on the dancefloor. Perhaps you could have escalated here and pulled one up to where you were. Anyway good job!
/r/seduction22/08/15 06:00 PM
1

As I left I told her one more time we should go for a drink. She declined, saying she does that enough already with her friends. I said it would be more fun with me, but I'll convince her another time. She laughed, I left. Every time I ask her, she has this very deep doubtful look in her eyes. I think she actually is putting in effort not to say "yes". Perhaps next time, I'll wear her down, however if not, so be it. She's cute, but not worth oneitis. Seems to me you're giving off the 'I will be …
/r/seduction22/08/15 05:58 PM
1

There will be more girls. That said, next time you meet her, tell her that you think she's cute and say 'let us get a drink some time'. This, when she agrees, gives you access to a date with her AND her number.
/r/seduction22/08/15 05:52 PM
1

No throwaway cause I don't care. Alot of people would actually skip this and ignore that you said that but, that is actually a good step. You don't care what people think about you. That is good! Despite that, I have a god awful perception of myself, to the point where I get sad when I look in the mirror. Many people in my life say that I'm very attractive, but I can't stop judging myself. You really should find out why this is. I cannot say much about this but hit the gym if you aren't already!…
/r/seduction22/08/15 05:46 PM
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Clueless what to say. Missed chance due to your own dumbness. She was flabbergasted that you actually dared to talk to her when 99% don't. That is why she sees you as cute... Well saw I guess. Next time don't miss the chance and just go for it. Perhaps with the same girl. I really wtf'ed to be honest.
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:32 AM
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Tip: If you're constantly texting you will already know the person before you actually meet them which in turn may give you nothing to talk about. Anyway, perhaps she's busy. I know the feeling when someone doesn't respond. A few years ago, it happened to me for days, and when I finally got the message I was so excited to read 'yes, sure' or just a smiley. What I'm trying to say is, YOUR time is valuable and you should use it. Don't wait but start meeting people! That's what she would want as we…
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:28 AM
5

We've been hanging out just us two lately,been friends for a couple of months but i want to let her know i'm really interested in her without saying it directly. Any tips ? after a short laugh No 'I think you're really cute and want to go have a drink with you sometime'
/r/seduction05/07/15 07:00 PM
1

This is sort of a repost for sure. Yes it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/340pe8/how_to_instantly_get_a_deeper_voice/ Good that you're trying to help people though
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:58 PM
1

Thats not your friend. Thats your enemy.
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:57 PM
1

HA! Stealing this.
/r/seduction01/07/15 09:46 AM
1

Yeah exactly! But can you view (like a receiver) the audio file when theyre on PC? If they dont have the app but I do? Would be a bummer if thats not possible though.
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:37 PM
1

I see. Pretty nice response rate that is. Can you listen to the voice message before you send it? I may give Pof another try however in my country it isn't really used.
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:27 PM
1

Upped this because I wanna know too. Also OP, one girl isn't setting an example for the whole pof community though. Really nice it worked for you though! Btw if you just sent a message you can expect a reply within 5 mins
/r/seduction29/06/15 02:39 PM
1

Good job but you could've gone for the kiss or really show her more interest. Next time say thats its you and her. Not a group of people as well you mutually know.
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:57 AM
2

Hey man. You look fine and like a fun guy! Since most has been said already, ill just mention a few points: Dont go to 'rate me' stuff. Those things are shit. Tinder is a really bad app imo. Dont use it but try working on your confidence and start approaching. Read up on this seduction reddit. Read the top posts first is my advice. Mate believe me. I was like you. I had 1% confidence and I thought I was ugly. Just being who I really am and reading on here makes me feel that I am attractive. It i…
/r/seduction26/06/15 09:58 PM
1

Very nice tip man. Will try this when I see a cute girl next time! Hope my mind doesnt get cleared like usual!
/r/seduction11/05/15 08:30 PM
12

Something I picked up on seddit and elsewhere is this: Girls don't tend to get 'feelings' for a guy through text while guys do. Girls do tend to get 'feelings' for a guy through physical interaction, same with guys. Anyway, you always do the right thing. Don't question your own actions. If you wanna do the texting thing then do it, if not, don't. Ask yourself this: if I get to know her now through texting, do I still have questions to ask her on our date? My tip is to get to know her through sch…
/r/seduction09/05/15 10:26 AM
7

Dont ask to sit. Just do it!
/r/seduction08/05/15 09:19 AM
3

Hi there buddy! I know the feeling. Sucks right? Well, DONT EVER LET THAT FEELING HAVE HIS ROOM AGAIN! It sucks and it you don't want it to come forth again. Take all the chances you can get. With this girl you, yes, should have. Perhaps she would have rejected you perhaps not. The chance is over and you should take the new chance that has arrisen. Yes! A new chance! Now there's two ways you could do this. The slow way: You basically invite her to do something. Go do something fun and you find t…
/r/seduction04/05/15 10:05 AM
2

One in a million girl encounter in a game. I hope that 'insecure' gamer guys don't start thinking that this is normal and they have a chance meeting girls on world of warcraft. Anyhow, when I read 'we went until 4 in the morning' I thought you had sex but you only had a conversation? Until you meet her in real life, don't get your hopes up. Edit: how old are you by the way?
/r/seduction27/03/15 10:43 PM
1

This. You cant mess up if you approach :). By the way tell us if she contacted you or anything!
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:25 AM
8

Very good man, though, its obvious she wanted it as well when she agreed to come over.
/r/seduction30/01/15 11:48 AM
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Go up to her and tell her you wanna talk to her because she is pretty. YOU want to qualify HER and not the other way around.
/r/seduction17/01/15 10:59 AM
2

This sounds really weird but, guess I cannot judge since I haven't tried!
/r/seduction15/01/15 11:22 AM
1

Alright man looking forward to reading your first fr! Approach!
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:53 AM
2

Open with: "Hey, I have a cable here that I have to reconnect with you". No but seriously i'd follow up with something like 'Was fun last night, let's go out for a drink soon'. Seems casual to me but: She knows who you are (if she didn't kiss 10 other guys that night which I doubt), you show your further interest, you set up a date 'hint' which, if she agrees, you can escalate on. That's how I would do it anyway :).
/r/seduction09/01/15 10:37 AM
1

Nice man :). Next time you talk with a girl a little bit more and you try going for a # !
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:57 PM
3

Good job man! Seriously a huge step you took. Keep approaching and approaching and eventually that feels natural. I noticed you said that you've been here for a few years. I also am here for a pretty long time already. IMO, the longer you wait for that first approach the harder it gets (all in your head) to actually approach.
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:33 PM
2

Real nice man! Keep it up! Must be a huge boost to self esteem.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:56 PM
1

Good job man! Just approaching is a big part already!
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:06 PM
17

You fucking badass! You took a huge step:approaching. Be proud of yourself! Its a step that myself and alot of guys still need to take!
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:22 PM
5

Attitude? I'm giving you my honest opinion about the text I quoted you on. No reason to 'strike back at me'.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:07 PM
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"I am not a dude. So in that manner I think differently than you do. I am not a hopeless romantic, nor am I desperate. I just don't look at women as a sex object." Basically you say that all guys (so on this sub too) are desperate, hopeless romantic and treat women like sex objects. I think you need to adjust this sentence. Not all guys are like this. Guess I could say that stereotyping bothers me.
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:59 AM
2

Love the reply haha! I like these kind of 'context' jokes. Too bad the first guy didn't get it
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:49 PM
1

Good step mate! Tho little tip: try not to ask but just do it after some talking. If they don't want it they'll let you know anyway!
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:47 PM
2

Fucking badass dude! Your year starts off great! Now don't make it just a great start but fill up the year with great things!
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:45 PM
1

Don't overthink this mate. Also, saying to go back to your place not to have sex ? So what are you going to your place for what you cannot do where you are right now? That is what comes to my mind anyway.
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:46 PM
23

The fact she mentions that says it all. Shes into you and wants it but you have to 'work' for it. Act casually like you're okay with that. Point is: if you play it right you will have sex tonight
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:55 AM
15

TLDR: Do it, but don't overdo it.
/r/seduction17/12/14 09:43 AM
50

Bro you are awesome!! I too have a fear that people see me approaching a girl.. I know its a weird feeling to have. Anyway, your balls are indeed growing alot. Advice is to always go for a number, always. You never see her again if you dont ask her or if she says no sorry. If she says yes you will see her again! Practically you can only win!! Good luck man looking forward to more fr's
/r/seduction14/12/14 04:53 PM
16

So true man so true. I tell myself this all the time but it feels like I stumble across a steel door that I can't open in my mind when I wanna do stuff like this. I think that when I finally manage to break down this door and just do it that things will really start to roll
/r/seduction13/12/14 10:00 PM
2

Thing is: i'm probably afraid to get noticed (for some reason) which is the point of going out solo
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:59 PM
4

Yeah I think it is a first step of something that rolls. Just gotta do it though haha
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:58 PM
3

True, I feel like whenever i'm with friends (rare ocassion) i have fun with them and stick with them cos it is easy.
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:57 PM
10

Most important thing is fun indeed! You pointed it out with getting out of the door which is hard.
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:56 PM
8

I see, well i'm not from the US but I can fit in your answer! Thanks man
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:55 PM
3

Really haha that's great, wow! Maybe i'll go next week when everyone has vacation hmm
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:55 PM
2

Tell us how it went!
/r/seduction12/12/14 11:02 PM
2

100x times this. Normally being alone for a couple of mins is good to think about stuff but here that's not the case. Approach the whole time and don't let your mind talk you out of something.
/r/seduction12/12/14 01:12 PM
1

Good for you man! I think that if you follow up on what you read here you will get succes somehow! That's exactly what you did, congratz!!!
/r/seduction09/12/14 02:32 PM
1

Great Fr and good job but... Gold skies always reminds you of the girl you had to get over? Uuh that song came out like 2 months ago :p
/r/seduction08/12/14 11:40 PM
0

Tell her you cannot continue like this. As a man you need to get your desires satisfied. Tell her you want to either stay friends or actually go for it. Now you are left in the dark.
/r/seduction03/12/14 02:12 PM
1

No clue what you said tbh...
/r/seduction02/12/14 09:24 PM
4

What do you mean? You are saying you want to create an elite group where elite people can share elite fr's and elite methods... That is the opposite of what this whole seduction thing stands for IMO. You say: "would like to see a NEW private subreddit more dedicated to FRs and techniques. I have FRs and techniques to share that I don't wish to share on this sub because it is too open. I'm sure others may feel the same way." What? You don't share your knowledge to people who can use it, then why …
/r/seduction02/12/14 03:18 PM
5

I don't think this is such a good idea..
/r/seduction02/12/14 12:28 PM
2

Deep stuff up in here. High quality method. Would bang.
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:13 PM
12

Good job man! You must feel awesome right now and you are!!!
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:12 PM
1

Find out if that guy actually is always a douche like that. IF he is then move away. Maybe he just heard his sister has a terrible disease and he just needed some talking.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:46 PM
22

I don't see the problem here.
/r/seduction24/11/14 11:31 AM
3

Proud of you man! Keep it up!!
/r/seduction16/11/14 06:24 PM
1

Women logic
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:47 PM
3

Why choose. Start a harem. That is what I would do.
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:37 AM
1

I wouldn't say it but just do it at that party.
/r/seduction31/10/14 11:50 AM
1

Please feedback on what happened. Maybe a small FR even if you don't feel you have to. You will help alot of guys.
/r/seduction29/10/14 11:04 AM
1

Nice troll post.
/r/seduction27/10/14 05:54 PM
1

Uhh what
/r/seduction27/10/14 04:40 PM
2

No offence but this seems more like marketing than a review. Of course it is possible but very unlikely that... Someone that has been on reddit for 42 minutes and makes his first thread, that it would be this kinda thread. It's pretty obvious to me what's going on here. Just sayin'.
/r/seduction27/10/14 03:31 PM
4

So you should just leave because 'Omg god PUA is here, better go away and have no fun tonight'... That goes against ALL principles that are told in this subreddit.
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:32 PM
1

Awesome FR. This is how an FR is supposed to be with the 'what can I do better next time' points. Great read.
/r/seduction20/10/14 02:09 PM
1

You can't be serious with those examples right?
/r/seduction18/10/14 09:50 PM
2

By saying what you meant you showed her your true self which was exactly what she wanted to know to feel comfortable. Good job anyway.
/r/seduction18/10/14 12:25 PM
9

Amazing. Thanks for this post! It is a great help. Thanks for taking the time to write this and inspire people!
/r/seduction08/10/14 05:33 PM
1

The fact is you want to go. If she doesn't want to come, you still go. If she does want to come you share happiness. Don't depend on her for happiness.
/r/seduction07/10/14 07:55 AM
3

I'm happy for you man! Awesome! You know, seduction isn't just about getting laid alot of times. It is about becoming a better person toward yourself and others.
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:32 PM
3

Don't get me wrong it is a good idea. It is just that when fresh and upcoming PUA's enter seddit, make a post and one of the top contributers post they will take over the advice literally without adding their own twist. There is not really a right answer when it comes to seduction since every girl/woman is somewhat different in response. IMO in the most radical situation, it will create 'clones' of the top contributers that have no own 'methods' and will need advice on everything that they do.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:54 PM
3

Uhm well tbh, I think the underlying point of this subreddit is that everyone is equal even though someone may have another skill set than I do. Just my thoughts
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:27 PM
2

Hard one hmm. I don't really know actually He's obviously trying to cockblock you... You could say something like "Yeah I am actually a very social person" if you don't know anything else to reply.
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:10 PM
2

Huh a loser cos you are going out alone? Why is that? Anyway, seems you are doing great on the social part. After you found the guys group then just bounce and talk to a girl or just invite a wingman from the group to join you if theres another girl too.
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:06 PM
2

Title practically means you kino'd a PUA haha. Anyway, learn from what you did wrong and work on those points!
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:04 PM
0

Pretty bad game! Change the game into "Approach 10 times" seriously.
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:01 PM
2

I'd like to add that the next time this will happen your feeling of the other guy being a threat won't suddenly be gone. Just recognize what recycla said above and you will know how to handle the situation next time. If you feel that after a while talking the guy just won't leave or let you interact with your date alone then just bounce to another bar or take a walk :).
/r/seduction05/10/14 09:21 AM
4

The first step is taken. Not only did you talk to a girl but you also took a huge social step. Next time you see her just ask her how shes doing and if she had a good day. Anyway, you did something that 'regular' people will never do. You broke out of your shell and how weird this may seem, you are starting to see the reality of your life now and that social 'rules' are not real. Anyway: GOOD JOB
/r/seduction03/10/14 10:29 PM
146

Hey good job man. Even though you were rejected you took a hige first step. A step that 80% of the people here don't take. Nice!!
/r/seduction02/10/14 03:32 PM
1

Asking advice on one girl is not allowed but... Idk why since I have not seen her or the chat log. Depends on what kinda pics too...
/r/seduction01/10/14 01:05 PM
2

What? Ooooh, you mean the bedroom cam to produce sextapes. Haha. No seriously, what?
/r/seduction30/09/14 02:23 PM
1

Bro... She's clearly showing interest so I'd know what to do :o... Why do these situations not happen to me haha!
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:40 PM
3

You made a mistake which is a human thing to do. Don't keep thinking about it in a negative way but learn from this mistake. Next time you want to do something like this you will probably do it the other way. And big tip: learn to say NO
/r/seduction28/09/14 11:17 AM
1

Did I miss your gender? I supposed you are a woman or...
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:10 AM
0

Seems she's pretty unconfident. She doesn't know how to handle or interact with someone who does what he wants to do and does not do stuff because society tells him to. Point: don't care what she says and wear what you want
/r/seduction24/09/14 08:51 PM
3

Tip: I have caught myself reading this subreddit too much... Why? Because I thought that this sub would someday have a miracle post show up that would get rid of my anxiety and would make me a god with women. But there is no such thread. Point is: Read and practice in real life situations, not read read and read more.
/r/seduction24/09/14 08:21 PM
1

Awesome motivational post! Glad you had such fun man :).
/r/seduction24/09/14 06:21 PM
1

Do what you like. Want to quit something on that list? Do it. Have 5 minutes time and you see that cute girl? Talk to her! It is your life. It is not like you HAVE to do this or HAVE to do that to make you feel better. Perhaps you like something that is kinda weird or you feel is weird to do. Who cares, you think it is fun so you do it even though you may get some weird looks. Enjoy life and don't care about opinions because life is way too short not to enjoy.
/r/seduction24/09/14 06:13 PM
4

Especially the last point. It is one that you have to do to achieve god mode... Literally
/r/seduction24/09/14 06:08 PM
6

Girls take a shit once in a while. Yes, even hot girls sit on a toilet and do that.
/r/seduction24/09/14 09:35 AM
19

Tbh... She liked it.
/r/seduction23/09/14 04:58 PM
2

I hope you don't think you are some master pua since in the way you talk I think you do. Of course you show your intentions.
/r/seduction16/08/14 05:44 PM
1

Interest is a must. What dumb advice does that guy give right.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:00 AM
5

This is bullshit advice and will only destimulate op. And it is still your OWN choice to give out personal information, I can't think of a place that has such a policy. Op, it is perfectly fine to talk to girls at their workplace. Make sure that you are not stopping her from work though (for instance if it is your turn then talk to her, your turn is over? Look behind you if there are more customers and talk to her when there is some time).
/r/seduction16/08/14 10:58 AM
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14? Really? What is next, 8 year olds?
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:45 AM
1

TLDR MEETS A OLDER LADY ON POF 29M MEETS 38F I HAVE A DEEPISH VIEW AND UNDERSTANDING ON ALOT OF THINGS COMBINED WITH A DONT CARE ATTITUDE TOWARDS HER WHICH IS KEEPING HER INTEREST CONCERNED I CANNOT TRANSFER THIS PERSONA ON A NIGHT OUT TOGETHER ON OUR FIRST MEET TBH, if you are going out with her, you are intrested and she knows it. Dude you are going on a date with HER. YOU are intrested in HER and SHE is intrested in YOU...
/r/seduction09/08/14 05:17 PM
1

This. What's wrong with your friends? Why videotape you (a guy that ACTUALLY approaches girls) for fun?
/r/seduction09/08/14 05:15 PM
1

Well if that is who you are, don't change yourself. What I am trying to say is, don't change yourself because someone does not like you for who you really are. Call her friends out on it and just ask them what they think of you and discuss it with them.
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:14 PM
1

So I met a girl on tinder, we had 2 really nice dates. I felt we had a pretty good connection, talking about some pretty personal things. She even invited me back to her house the first date where we made out for a bit. The second date we didnt kiss much only at the end when I had to leave. I asked her to come over the next day and she excitedly said "okay!" Well good for you! I'm happy for you that these two dates worked out. Next day I text her and she flakes but she says she will be free tomo…
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:11 PM
1

If you are having a good time, everyone is having a good time.
/r/seduction06/08/14 08:58 PM
1

Fr bro?
/r/seduction06/08/14 10:24 AM
0

At least this dude feels good. What right do YOU have to tell him not to live this life if he is happy with it. He's nit harming anyone in any way.
/r/seduction01/08/14 09:37 PM
6

Pretty useless. Also, girls with actual boyfriends? Pfft. Don't do things to others you would not like yourself.
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:13 PM
1

Take your bike mate
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:33 AM
1

I have to disagree with you on this one. I think ducks completely overwhelm swans. Let us make up a list. * Ducks are small. This means you can pick up (notice: 'pick up') a duck easy. Swans are big. A swan is heavier than a duck and will most likely start biting you (next point). * Ducks don't bite that hard, if they do. In my experiences, ducks tend to fly away instead of engaging into a fight. Swans bite hard. Swans tend to pick a fight if you get too close to them and if they do engage, they…
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:40 PM
2

By not giving a duck
/r/seduction30/07/14 04:18 PM
3

You are different than 'the other guys'. Says enough for me. Perhaps you did the right thing unconsciously. Next date is an f-close buddy.
/r/seduction27/07/14 10:57 PM
1

Hi man. They are already complimenting you. Just say something like 'Well, I can teach you a move or two'. By the way since you are a dancer: What are these dances called (The asian guy)? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15WXZVFGMqQ
/r/seduction25/07/14 05:45 PM
1

Tbh this did not make any sense to me. You seem depressed.
/r/seduction25/07/14 01:50 PM
1

Thanks man I appreciate your comment alot :). I know I should not let this get to me but I do it anyway. She was all alone and clearly needed some attention (way she acted). Anyway you are right I should move past this one girl and take my chance immediately next time.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:38 PM
1

Hi, thanks for your input but I didn't approach girls. Guess I could blame it on the fact my parents were there. Screwed up again today. Went to the bar and saw a cute girl HB8 sitting next to the door. Guess what I did. Chickened out and sat there for 30 minutes playing with my phone. I was trembling all over man it was pathetic. I left for the bathroom and just made up a list of why I should approach and why I shouldn't. I could only come up with why I should. So I went back and she was gone. …
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:51 PM
1

Just the bar on then camping.....
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:16 AM
1

What is a lair exactly? We don't have that word here so. Please explain thanks!
/r/seduction23/07/14 02:40 PM
1

Someday. Guess you'll grab that coffee in 20 years 2 months and 6 days? Define someday. Someday doesn't mean anything. You are being very indirect and I tbh don't understand.
/r/seduction23/07/14 02:31 PM
2

Thanks for the post man. Alot of quality information there! Very solid and will definately read again!
/r/seduction22/07/14 05:02 PM
1

I did not understand a thing of this.
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:40 PM
2

Hi man. Yeah the same thing happened to me some months ago. Sitting in the train and a cute girl sitting on the other side of the train. She kept looking at me but I could not approach for some reason. I felt like shit. You know, I read of a three second rule here. Approach the girl within three seconds and your mind cannot make up any excuses. I have yet to approach my first girl but when I do I know my fear will grow tremendously. What I am gonna try is battle this fear by letting my adrenalin…
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:39 PM
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Buddy I had no (sexual) partners until this moment. That is a zero indeed. Zero sexual interactions. Zero emotional relationships. Delete all of the things holding your life back. You dont like X? Then dont be friends with X. You dont like the sport you play? Quit that sport. You want to see stuff? Then go see stuff. Want to approach that girl? Then approach that girl! There is no one general fix. Find what is bothering you and dont make it bother you ever again! :). Try building a social circle…
/r/seduction21/07/14 06:41 PM
3

Accept who you are and be yourself.
/r/seduction21/07/14 06:14 PM
1

Seems like a really pro wingman... /sarcasm This wingman of yours is making it worse as far as I can tell.
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:26 PM
2

Well mate I am 19 too :). It is probably just your interpretion of what happened. She probably felt kind of indifferent. Text her you had fun and try setting a new date. Nonetheless ask yourself this: do you really want to be with someone that does not want you for who you are? Think about it, you will probably be unhappy if you stayed with this girl. Also, she hooked up with a co worker and she tells you this. That is probably a shit test. Still, kind of a weird thing for her to tell you this. …
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:06 PM
1

I know the feeling buddy. I have yet to make my first approach. Just yesterday morning I had a similar experience with a girl (about 8.5/10). That whole day I could not let it go and just walked around to see if I could 'meet' her on the street. In the evening I just gave up and I thought to myself this. Why. Why did I try to bump into this specific girl. I don't know her and there are tons and tons of girls out there! I know the regret you are feeling. Trust me I know but that chance is gone an…
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:32 PM
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Hi! Well that is awesome man! I have yet to make my first approach and can just hope(for now) it will go just as great as yours did. I am really happy for you, though, question:did you approach her with your dad being there too? You have to have a pretty cool dad then. I think my dad would be all weird about haha. Anyway good job and set up a date asap!
/r/seduction20/07/14 10:14 PM
1

Hey there buddy. Well don't expect a high quality post here or anything since I have yet to make my first approach (which I will do as soon as I actually see that cute girl I saw today on this 'family camping'), but what really helped for me is building confidence alone, like solo. Like, when you walk down the street and see someone you do or dont know walking towards you (or riding on the bike towards you), you say hello and start a small conversation. It doesnt matter, female or male, hot or n…
/r/seduction20/07/14 05:54 PM
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This ^
/r/seduction02/05/14 01:06 PM
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