So I’ve spoken to two women within the past week. When I asked them for a date at the park they both seemed hesitant and I ended up not getting a date with neither of them because of that. One of them said that her sister is doing something right after she asked what we are doing and I told her it’s a park date so she said “I’m doing something with my sister so maybe next time” and I said “Not a problem” (Even though in my mind I felt I didn’t do something right). With the other woman, she said that her aunt is throwing a party but will be free to do something after and I told her I’ll see If I could be free. When I contacted her earlier today, I told her if she was down for the park date and when does the party end and she said “maybe and she is not sure”. I then told her “don’t worry I don’t bite” and she said “I’m not worried about that” and then I asked “then what is it?” and she replied “Idk”. I wish I knew how to get past that better because I feel there was a way but didn’t know how. Any tips? What am I doing wrong?