Being the ‘Nice Guy’.

LostInTrainslation69 · 2019-06-07T09:02:51+00:00

That's fine, so long as you're not using it as an excuse or a crux for going after women you like now. A lot of advice tells you to be more seductive instead of joyful, more stern instead of playful, more aloof than interested, but if that's against your personality then don't bother. I laugh a lot, smile a lot, give a lot of my attention and it works for me. I even sometimes attract girls that are into badboy types.

Just make sure you're not a pushover and are confident enough to escalate with women and you'll be in a good position for both short term and long term.

WIA20XX · 2019-06-07T08:39:13+00:00

FilthyStylish · 2019-06-07T08:50:36+00:00

It’s horrible. There is a huge difference between being an all round nice human being and being your typical nice guy.

Read the sidebar.

A97CU4ca · 2019-06-07T15:19:54+00:00

It's a backhanded compliment, but you can always mess with them. Next time someone says that, just reply "That's because I hid the bodies where no one will ever find them".

folasanmi · 2019-06-07T20:48:08+00:00

No. Girls want a nice gut for long term relationships because they know they can manipulate him and have the upper hand in the relationship. They know you won’t cheat on her because she’ll get older and be less desirable as she ages. Also your easily manipulated and she’ll only have sex with you so you won’t leave her not necessarily cause she wants to have sex with you. She’ll likely cheat on you with the bad boy long term if you remain a nice guy.

brabg · 2019-06-07T11:38:42+00:00

“You are the kind of guy that girls go to following dating the bad guy, when they decide they need someone more mature and nice”

But they only use you as emotional tampon, give little or no sex, secretly despise you, and you are only temporary until they came come back to the bad guy, or find another bad guy.

If you get lucky enough, you will be cheated and disrespected all he time.

Title	Being the ‘Nice Guy’.
Author	Rogblue2
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	June 7, 2019 7:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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