Daygame for me was something once beautiful. It's how I got into this community and eventually got a job working for one of the biggest companies there is. If you've seen my YouTube channel you would think I'm only Daygame.

I started by getting the train each weekend down to London with my friend Marty & Amin and going hard every Saturday. It was fun, exciting and on that day there was no other thoughts that wasn't about instant dating, girls and technique. It was a true flow state filled with camaraderie and nothing but highs.

Fast forward to today. I get a message from my friend Dave asking if I would like to do some Daygame around Oxford Circus. "Sure, let me see how I feel tomorrow" I say. I know it will be a no but can't just say that. I think to myself "Why do I resent it so much nowadays"?

I go out with students to do it and I get great results from it, as do my students. So why is it such a fucking hassle?!

Here was my thoughts.

1) The walking & searching. If I'm on the way to somewhere or doing something naturally, talking to a girl is absolutely lovely. But the walking around Oxford Street, Leicester Square and back to Oxford Street is tiresome. Seeing fat tourists that stop right in front of you just to look at the skyline or seeing some twat hi diving a girl and spinning her around outside Topshop and distancing yourself emotionally from "I'm not like that" you think to yourself. There is a lot of time between finding a cute girl it seems nowadays.

2) I'm a night owl. I worked before with Beckster & Mystery and going out at night was an essential part of the job. I learnt a lot from them both and wanting to try it out. There I can go for a cigarette, get a drink, dance. or worse case scenario, change venues.

In a nightclub, if you're scanning - you can do it in minutes really and decide who you want to engage with. Daygame it's all scanning. So there is less time between sets.

3) More action in nighttime. Nobody disputes this. It's a fact. You get laid a lot more in nightgame than Daygame. It's harder than Daygame and there is a lot more variables that come your way but a nervous beginner can fluke a SNL or get a cheeky make out that gives him a great reference point but Daygame and nervous guy simply won't get anything until he builds himself up.

From my own end. I would say about 75% of my lays this year have been from nightgame. Possibly due to my current state of not wanting to date or wish I was in bed eating a yoghurt instead of wanting to be approaching on the street. It's a lot faster generally to railing her. Which means it's less of a time investment on your part. Nothing worse than 3 dates with a girl for her to realise she ain't touching the little guy anytime soon.

4) It's my work. This is the one I battle hardest with is because when something because your job. You see it in a different light and doing it when not teaching can lead to a form of resentment towards it. I know one coach who will not go on a night out with mates because he isn't getting paid for it. Strange but it is very common. Matt Eastwood Even on my channel, you can see I'm rather generally bored during my Infields and was really just wanting to get back to "House Of Cards"

5) Standards have got higher. This is definitely true. When I started a girl with actual working limbs was enough to wank off to when I started but then you get hotter and hotter girls until even warming up on them seems a step too far.

In conclusion

It's a combination of these and the fact I've been doing it for years and years and it does get you into a repetitive cycle. What will I do about this? Fuck knows!