Can someone please explain the difference between Day game vs Club/Night game?

AnUnknown · 2013-05-10T01:09:35+00:00

I might argue that there's more than one kind of night game - ie. club game is not pub game is not late night coffee shop game. I'm going to speak to club game because truthfully, it's the only area where I have consistent success.

Night game it's possible to pick up without even saying a word. In fact, it's probably better that way - words fuck everything up. Clubs are all about being so physically close that you can feel each other's vibe yet being unable to speak to them. That's just what the club is, and by playing in to that you can be very successful without trying all that hard.

Day game is the opposite. You're expected to speak to one another, and you're generally not going to be close enough to feel each other's vibe. It's less of a meeting of the bodies and hormones, more of a meeting of the minds and personalities. You can't just get by by looking like you know what you're doing. You actually have to play the game. Day game, for me at least, is a whole lot harder.

recyclablebantha · 2013-05-10T02:08:27+00:00

To me it seems like day game is more direct. But is there really any difference?

Yes and no. At their hearts, no.

Both of them are, at their hearts, about making some kind of connection with another person. What each guy wants out of that connection may vary a little but what they want won't change whether it's day or night. Both are served by a direct approach, confidence, Outcome Independence, etc.

The thing is that one has to be mindful of the SITUATION that one is in, as there are many external factors which are outside of our control (even though some people would have you think that everything is under your control), and the SITUATIONS in the daytime are often very different from those you encounter at night, so the categorization is very useful to signify that you have to change gears and realize that your approach may have to vary sometimes according to whether it's day or night. (Depending on the situation; I don't always need to change much in my approach just because it's night.) And sometimes different ways of approaching become possible according to the situation.

For example, my mindset is going to pretty much be the same whether I'm in a nightclub or at a Starbucks. The main thing that's different is that I don't have to manage the hijinks that will be taking place in a nightclub, when I'm at a Starbucks. It can be an intense experience picking up at a nightclub, so may need to bring your energy up to match......And people generally have a "What happens in Las Vegas, stays in Vegas" attitude at a club, which makes certain crazy things possible that aren't possible during the day.

Whereas at a Starbucks in the morning, if you had nightclub energy, you're going to shoot yourself in the foot. But you're still going to need directness in both places, at both times of day.

TL;DR: Day and night game are both served by a good mindset. The main differences are those of adapting to the circumstances. Neither is necessarily anymore or less direct than the other.

sfstexan · 2013-05-09T19:35:04+00:00

In a night club, your goal should be to get her on the dancefloor ASAP, get your hands down her pants ASAP, and make out with her ASAP.

Much harder to do most of those things during the day. Would be rather awkward.

Title	Can someone please explain the difference between Day game vs Club/Night game?
Author	FUCK_YEA_GLITTER
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Date	May 9, 2013 6:49 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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