I have been a long time lurker and have used this sub’s knowledge to great effect in turning around my dating life. So thank you guys.

Now I am in a more stable relationship (my first that I intend to take seriously) I am trying to understand what are some concepts that work in making a relationship stronger and more fruitful to both of us.

The problem I am dealing with is that I am noticing that as time passes I am getting more and more needy. Waiting around for her call. Trying too hard to keep her. How do I maintain non-neediness when I am not really talking to other women. What is the frame of mind to adopt here?

Appreciate any advice or even if you can guide me to some good reading material.

Now before some of you get pissed off that hey this sub is for seduction. I am asking it here, because really this sub contains a rational bunch of people who are able to compress extremely complex problems into simple actionable answers.

TLDR - How to be non-needy in a relationship when you’re not talking to more women. (No abundance mindset available)