Canceling =/= Flaking

MisterShogunate · 2021-01-16T04:56:39+00:00

I always push women to cancel instead of flake. That way my schedule doesn't get affected. I never reschedule myself. If they cancel and don't reschedule that's just them trying to graciously exit out of the agreement.

Cancelling ahead of time is the best case scenario next to showing up. Flaking the last minute is very bad for them, so one flake for me is more than enough. I still talk to them as social friends, but I will not initiate any plans or any plans they invite me too will be met with a lot of resistance.

I always text before driving to the place so I never get stood up. If they don't respond I already consider it a flake.

Great tips though, this is better than the usual posts I see on here.

Kenic_In_MD · 2021-01-16T16:42:31+00:00

This is a good take away from the book 3% man. Similar to as you said, the first is to pull back then let her reach out within a week. If no contact ping her once. If she flakes again let it go until she pings you. After that drop her all together.

Would like to reiterate. IF SHE IS INTO YOU, SHE WILL MAKE TIME!

relentless_pma · 2021-01-16T22:43:25+00:00

Good points.

I do wonder how much flaking is 'normal'.

DaJosuave · 2021-01-16T01:12:54+00:00

You basically just added more details but i guess its good details so I agree. Very well made and solid points.

InterstellarReddit · 2021-01-17T02:49:26+00:00

Fam keep it simple. They cancel great you saved your time and energy. If a girl Likes you, they’ll cancel and offer an alternate date a time. A cancel without a reschedule I’d be happy because I save time and money. Move on.

Title	Canceling =/= Flaking
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Upvotes	48
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Date	January 15, 2021 11:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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