Cannot compromise

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-19T18:40:23+00:00

Oof. Everyone. Everyone is going to have flaws that you don't find 100% attractive 24/7.

Even your friends probably having some qualities you put up with because overall they are good and it's worth it to put up with those flaws.

Refuses sex so you leave? Dude. There are countless reasons a woman may not want or even CANT have sex.

I get it, if it's like ALL THE TIME. But bruh, what if she's emotionally going through something like a death in the family or is just sad and you make it even worse by acting like your dick is more important.

If a woman days no and you immediately respond with a bitchy and petty attitude, you lose out on figuring out WHY and figuring out how to avoid that WHY in the future.

Her pet died? Comfort her and put yourself second, like a human being. Not to get your dick sucked, but hopefully because you are a person with empathy.

And if you are only being nice to her for sex, it shows her that you're not a jerk who can only think about sex.

ITS LIKE YOURE SO CLOSE TO BEING AWARE. But still so far.

DUH. Don't date people you don't have thing sin common with.

That's not some secret revelation or some epiphany. THATS COMMON SENSE.

Relationships are not about sacrifice. Yeah, don't sacrifice your wants, goals, interests and money for a woman. But COMPROMISE. Every. Single. Relationship. Ever. Deals with compromise.

You cannot. Ever. Deal. With anyone who doesn't compromise.

"Hey. What color do you want to paint this wall?"

"I like blue."

"Oh, I like this yellow"

"OK. Having a blue wall is super important to me. I know though, that the kitchen is important to you. So let's paint the wall blue and you can have free reign over the kitchen. Sound good?"

"Why yes! That sounds like a fair compromise"

futuremo · 2022-07-19T20:35:00+00:00

You're looking for a unicorn.. they don't exist. Everyone has flaws

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-07-20T01:39:20+00:00

Newsflash, everybody has to compromise at least something when it comes to dating and relationships. No way around it.

At some point or another, everyone is going to do something that their partner doesn't like in the relationship. Conflict is part of the human condition.

I agree to an extent that many things that can and should be instant deal breakers, but more often than not you need to give yourself a little time to dig deeper and get the information you need to make a decision.

In the context of sex, things happen that will disrupt regular sex. Illness, stress, periods.

Obviously if your partner makes it clear that sex is off the table for good then that's a valid dealbreaker, but you do have to have a little patience sometimes.

I do agree though that if your partner makes fun of you/your interests, is concerned primarily about your economic status, or does something very bad then you should run ASAP

Traditional_Fan1084 · 2022-07-21T17:11:05+00:00

The way you phrased this was kinda strange, but overall what you’re saying is basically common sense. What exactly do you qualify as “negative character flaws”? Good luck finding and staying with someone who not once displays something you didn’t like

Title	Cannot compromise
Author	MiguelxJohnny
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	July 19, 2022 6:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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