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[–]farrp2011 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Stop watching porn & Stop masterbating
The porn gives you un-natural expectations and your death grip has desensitized your buddy down stairs.
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 6 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
I’ve stopped for about 2-3 weeks now, but she came over this weekend and still nothing. I can get hard but it’s usually only for a few minutes and by then I’m soft and embarrassed.
[–]farrp2011 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You might need more foreplay. Spend a good hour minimum just kissing and cuddling. If that doesn't work you'll need to look into pills.
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We do a lot of foreplay, I’ve realized our kissing and cuddling game is strong but I can’t continue after that
[–]Yung_Recep 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
depending on how frequently youve been watching porn, you might need more time than just 2-3 weeks. could even be a few months
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to 1 or 2 nights a week, not sure if that’s a lot or not
[–]xtuff 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How is your health ? Cardiovascular endurance is crucial for maintaining erections.
[–]goonerguy101 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never knew that
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m in good health I’d say. I’m in my 20s, workout 3 times a week, play sports, a bit skinny for my height but have muscle as well
[–]xtuff 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are in good shape and have good diet , it must be all mental . You said you don’t have issues getting head therefor you shouldn’t have issues having sex.
[–]The_Natural_One1985 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh hell, porn has nothing to do with it. You said you like this girl, you stay up during head, but when it's time to throw down your manroot wilts.
You done gone and caught what some of us call respect. Your dick isn't. connected to your heart it's connected to your head, you respect this girl, you love this girl, she isn't fugly, Maybe you aren't ready.
Maybe you don't see you two still together after however long it takes to be comfortable with dicking her down. I know 2 things about women; If it quits getting hard for them, they wonder why and that ends in breaking up. But I also know they'd rather here "I'm not ready yet." than "I don't know why baby, you"re hot as hell."
I think your on the right track here but I don’t quite fully understand. What can I do? We met at my friends party drunk so I guess I don’t really know her that well?
[–]The_Natural_One1985 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You met her at your friends house and you were both drunk...Damn Playboy, I read that and violins started playing in the background and shit.
Look, all I'm saying is it's never going to get hard for a woman that you're lying to yourself about. If you like her, then you like her and there's no reason you can't give her a lift to Poundtown. Popping your cherry by coming out swinging and putting on a good show can be just as meaningful as popping it on someone you love.
So, and I mean this quite literally; Fuck that bitch. Fuck her like you know she's gonna catch feelings...or the Herps, either way. You've put her off this long, if you suck at it and she pity fucks you and leaves in 10 minutes then you still ain't lost nothing. But you owe it to her to get outta your head and get your head into more than her mouth.
[–]imbriscat 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This shit happened to me time ago with my girlfriend the problem was that I was overthinking and stuff like that.. the solution come along by itself just stay with her as much as you can so you feel comfortable around her.. this worked for me
Thanks bro, this is encouraging to hear
[–]Yaeyama 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It’s nerves. You get hard when jerking off, right? So then its just nervousness.
If you can’t get over this, find a couple of ugly chicks to build up your confidence. And do whatever else you can to build it up (new clothes, better appearance through gym, etc.). Once you get some successful fucking with the uglier chicks you will be able to move up the ladder from there.
[–]crobak 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
This.
Many guys have it, me included in the past. Erection lost for a fucking tiny moment and imaginations of failing and fear of not giving her the time of her life will take over.
Try to dip into some chicks which u're not really interested in, you'll see the progress in confidence soon
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Interesting. This is definitely a long term solution but unfortunately my window is closing very soon with this girl. I do suffer from low confidence issues so I’m trying to get past that. Any tips?
[–]Yaeyama 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Tell her honestly you seem to be overly nervous and tell her you’d like to work through the problem with her if she can be patient enough.
[–]PrinceWhoPromes 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you yeah I think I should just do this. I guess I’ve just been really embarrassed
[–]Yaeyama 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it doesn’t work out, find a woman who will both rock your world and be patient with you. It really is a temporary confidence problem for 99% of guys.
[–]PolyketideSynthase 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I used to have this problem until I figured out the condoms I was using were too tight, maybe something to look into.
I thought so too but I do not have a problem getting hard with a condom on, it’s just with her
[–]FTPZOBE 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also. Eat specifically bananas & blackberries.
[–]ColdCaulkCraig 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's anxiety, right? I'm guessing she doesn't know you're a virgin and you're trying to hide it.
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