I'm speaking out of a place of frustration right now. Im a 220 lb 6'2 guy. African immigrant and will say that i am fairly attractive. I'm not girls come approach me everyday attractive but ive had enough come meet me to tell me

I just got back home from the bar and clubs and I have a problem getting it passed talking. I'm not able to create any sexual tensions. Usually feels like just a casual conversation and nothing more. I don't really like that tbh. It was so bad that a female friend that I was with today told me that I wasn't going to be taking any of the girls I spoke to home. Now I was able to approach and get numbers but that's where it seemed to end lol.

Any suggestions for what I could have done? I'm feeling really frustrated about this interactions and will like for it to improve.