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Caring about not caring

Brilliant-Aioli8514 · 2022-02-09T22:38:21+00:00

In your experience, what brought you from caring about being perceived as “not caring,” to actually not caring what others think or about outcomes. Feeling...

Brilliant-Aioli8514

February 9, 2022

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Title	Caring about not caring
Author	Brilliant-Aioli8514
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	February 9, 2022 10:38 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/soq20e/caring_about_not_caring/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/caring-about-not-caring.1267138 https://theredarchive.com/post/1267138

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[–]Travis_Varga 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

You don’t want to move from caring about what others think or about outcomes, to not caring about them. For living the best life, it’s good to follow what you think is best, which includes caring about what the best people think, best according to your thinking. And it’s good to pick outcomes that you think are best to achieve for living the best life and care about those. This applies to romance as well, where you care about lovers and romantic outcomes that you judge are the best for living the best life. And then for outcomes and people that don’t matter to living the best life, it’s irrelevant to your best life, so there’s no reason to care.

Edit: When you care about what the best people think, the people you think are best, you care about them because of your own thinking. Caring about what they think is really just an extension of caring about what you think. Like, you judge that a doctor is good, so you care about his medical advice because you judged him as good.

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