Caught Oneitis

PM_ME_OC_NUDES · 2020-08-12T01:31:59+00:00

Bruh, that's not oneitis, that's fantasy. Actually knowing the girl as a person, connecting, and then catching feels is oneitis.

You're just low-key stalking.

blck_bstinson · 2020-08-12T06:08:10+00:00

You got this obsessed over a woman you found on the explore page meaning she gets a lot of attention. She didn’t even open your message bro. There was no reason to write this man. Did you honestly think adding her snap that she posted on her story was gonna get you a girl from clear across the United States? NEVER let yourself get THIS invested in a girl you haven’t been dating for like 3 months and even then it’s excessive.

STD_Tyler · 2020-08-12T06:40:56+00:00

Do you think the solution was to message her the first minute you followed her? You had zero chance from start to finish.

How would I know you have zero chance? Because you are sitting home all day stalking one girl. Have zero other options.

So the timing of the message wouldn't have changed anything.

What you need to do is to actively meet and date 100s of girls. Not stalk 1 girl for months.

RedAsh521 · 2020-08-12T14:31:50+00:00

Sounds like this girls got good looks but no good personality. Ur associating the fantasy of the perfect girl with this person. She’s far away. There’s plenty of fish in your tank.

2020-08-12T14:45:29+00:00

This isn’t oneitis it’s just pathetic and letting your desperation out

Title	Caught Oneitis
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	August 12, 2020 1:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/i84k2n/caught_oneitis/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/caught-oneitis.1500289 https://theredarchive.com/post/1500289

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