Changing plans?

Wakkawakk · 2014-09-05T13:56:51+00:00

Say you're busy unless you are ok with her giving you such little time. I am the type that if I want to give you a chance I will clear the day for you. Unless it's a commitment like work.

joch90 · 2014-09-05T14:29:12+00:00

I say go for it, buy next time you change the date too and see how she acts.

Num_Lock4Life · 2014-09-05T21:33:09+00:00

I would go hang out with her and here is my justification. Asking if you should see her at that time is the wrong question to ask. The real question should be this. Do you want to spend time pursuing someone who will change a scheduled date with you? Probably not, because it's annoying to have someone change plans when they were already agreed upon no matter who it is.

But stuff does happen and things come up so maybe it's a one time thing. Which is why if they offer a different hang out time, as she did, I'm all for it. Face time is better than no time. Especially in the beginning, because if you don't have a bunch of other girls to fill that time slot with, than you probably need to keep working on talking to girls until you do. Spending any time with her will give you that.

Now if you're thinking "that sounds like a pain and it's a waste of time because now she thinks she can change our plans whenever and i'll look like less of a man for letting her do it" First off, who cares, second, if she acts that way consistently why would you want to date her? You had a plan and she changed it. The truth is you might get really good at turning flakes into dates, but you could take that same amount of energy and probably get ten fold in return just by going with the flow and finding a new girl to date. Someone that does not flake on you and does respect the idea of a scheduled date.

To me it was all about practice and you can't practice if your sitting at home wondering about if you formulated the right text in just the perfect way to make her want you more than any man in the world. Besides if she really doesn't want to hang out she'll flake again, if she does she'll meet you at the new time. If she's meeting you just to be nice, that's your chance to show her she just stumbled into the best afternoon of her life, the afternoon she met you.

edited for gramer, speeling, and i'm shure they're our other mistakes.

Title	Changing plans?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	September 5, 2014 1:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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