Sup bruvs,

I found out that I think I chase women not as much for sex, as to be validated and to get attention from them, to feel that I'm normal in the society. I think that also makes women feel not so attracted to me.

I watched some videos and people tell stop chasing girls, like literally don't give them attention and focus on yourself. I will go to try this, but have you guys done it, and did it had positive effects?

I want to be able to focus on my life not swiping girls on tinder, or always trying to talk some chick, but to become a man a chick naturally likes.